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Anonymous #1
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sex with a virgin
#7918699 - 01/23/08 03:53 AM (16 years, 10 days ago) |
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This girl has never had sex, and things are moving kinda quick.
What should I expect physically when having sex with her for the first time?
What about emotionally?
I don't want her to start crying mid-fuck.
Sorry, but i dont know these things. Thanks for the help
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Anonymous #2
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a lot of women break their hymen themselves. In which case you have no worries. Why not ask her?
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Anonymous #3
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slow it down. if shes willing to give it up to you then you know she expects you to hang around the morning after. I wouldnt suggest fucking a virgin then calling it casual sex.
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Anonymous #4
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having sex with virgins is so overrated.
if shes willing to do it with you, you should be really gentle in everyway , not only with your penis.
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Anonymous #5
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Yeah just be gentle about it. Ive actually seen a girl bleed after first time from the hymen ripping. Didn't even hurt apparently cuz they kept going. And no it doesn't bleed like a period lol. Get the girl on top if you can as they can go as fast or slow deep or shallow to their liking.
Emotionally they will be attached to ya more than likely.If its a girlfriend then thats okay but if and when you break up it will be a little harder for her.
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Anonymous #6
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Go easy on her 
The first time is almost guaranteed to be a letdown. The situation is just too tense. If you want to make her feel good, go easy on her, and after sex cuddle up or otherwise get cosy so in case it wasn't all that for her, the relaxing together afterward will put her mind at ease.
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Anonymous #1
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OP here --
She is my girlfriend, and I really do care about her. It isn't casual sex at all, as we've been together for a while and though she's wanted to go for it before ive repeatedly told her she should wait to make things perfect.
Just a little scared cause i've never been in this situation before.
thanks
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Anonymous #7
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Just take it slow and you will be fine. If you stay scared for too long she will lose interest and find a willing dick eventually. Finger her a lil 1st to loosen it up a lil and then just be slow until she is comfortable and ask her if it hurts. If she says yes than ask if she wants to stop, she will say no and to keep going...after a week or so you will be fucking constantly.
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Anonymous #8
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^ word...
Lick it. Make sure she gasms at least once. Use one finger, neatly trimmed nails, no hangnails...
If she wants the penor in there, take your time at working it in. Def. use a condom. Women who dont get prego on their first time, always at least think they got prego on their first time. Save yourself the troube.
Did I say lick it?
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Anonymous #9
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vagina is way tighter
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Anonymous #3
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yeah do what you have to to get her as fully aroused as possible;
that means foreplay, dont just drop your pants and start beating her with it.
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Anonymous #10
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Anonymous said: just drop your pants and start beating her with it.
ahh, yes, the joys of non-virginal sex. at least virgins get romanced...
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Anonymous #11
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If she says stop, push harder!
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Anonymous #12
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or give her another quaalude
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Anonymous #13
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you all disappoint me...
DRY SMASH HER SHIT BOX!
goddamn now that that's out of the way.. continue.
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Anonymous #14
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I rather dislike having sex with virgins, First off they are hard to get in bed, and when you do get them in bed they usually become sex craved and if you dont give it to them someone else will.
Basically what usually happens is while sliding it in them they will tell you not to slide it in any farther cause it hurts too much. If you go too fast it hurts them. If your lucky their cherry has been popped before by a tampon, Ive ran across a few girls that have never used a tampon before, they used pads all their life until after i had sex with them. In that case you are probably gonna pop their cherry and its gonna bleed. Kinda like having sex with a girl on her period. No matter how bad you are at sex they wont know. Where a condom cause like someone else said, their first time they always think they got pregnant.
And last but not least, expect to do allll the work. If they are on top of you.. dont expect them to grind up and down on your cock, they will just sit there. You will probably give up and just do all the work yourself with one of the missionary styles.
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Anonymous #15
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a lot of good advice in here. just to reiterate the points i feel are important:
foreplay, foreplay, FOREPLAY. this is a MUST with every woman you're with, but it's especially important for the inexperienced in order to put them more at ease and allow the experience to be more comfortable. and i don't just mean fingerbang the fuck out of her. believe it or not, most of the time that's not sexy at all.
take your time with the foreplay. go slow. lots of kisses. lots of light touches, gentle brushes. don't just head straight south. explore her body. make her feel like the center of attention. make her feel beautiful.
definitely lick it. teasing is key in performing good oral. as is rhythm. i don't know your level of experience, but read her body and vocal cues to get a read on if what you're doing is good or not. all the teasing and foreplay is meant to not only put her mentally at ease, but physically as well. you want her body to be relaxed, and you want her to be way aroused and producing mucho natural lube.
and then, like everyone else said, when you get to the actual intercourse part be gentle. go very slow. upon initial entry, chill out for a few seconds. let her try to get used to it. it will more than likely hurt her.
be alright with the fact that you might not get to cum. given that you'll be wearing a condom and that you'll be going rather slow, it's quite likely that you won't be able to get to climax. oh well, this is for her, right?
and most certainly do the cuddle thing. for the love of god do not just turn over and pass out. you seem well intentioned, so i'm sure you'll do well. just be gentle and mindful of her state of being.
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Anonymous #16
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ZOMG Deja Vu
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OP here --
She is my girlfriend, and I really do care about her. It isn't casual sex at all, as we've been together for a while and though she's wanted to go for it before ive repeatedly told her she should wait to make things perfect.
Just a little scared cause i've never been in this situation before.
thanks
Wait, dude, answer this question: Are you a virgin?!
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Anonymous #17
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Quote:
Anonymous said: ZOMG Deja Vu
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OP here --
She is my girlfriend, and I really do care about her. It isn't casual sex at all, as we've been together for a while and though she's wanted to go for it before ive repeatedly told her she should wait to make things perfect.
Just a little scared cause i've never been in this situation before.
thanks
Wait, dude, answer this question: Are you a virgin?!
Tard. He means the situation of fucking a virgin.
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Anonymous #12
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Quote:
Anonymous said: a lot of good advice in here. just to reiterate the points i feel are important:
foreplay, foreplay, FOREPLAY. this is a MUST with every woman you're with, but it's especially important for the inexperienced in order to put them more at ease and allow the experience to be more comfortable. and i don't just mean fingerbang the fuck out of her. believe it or not, most of the time that's not sexy at all.
take your time with the foreplay. go slow. lots of kisses. lots of light touches, gentle brushes. don't just head straight south. explore her body. make her feel like the center of attention. make her feel beautiful.
definitely lick it. teasing is key in performing good oral. as is rhythm. i don't know your level of experience, but read her body and vocal cues to get a read on if what you're doing is good or not. all the teasing and foreplay is meant to not only put her mentally at ease, but physically as well. you want her body to be relaxed, and you want her to be way aroused and producing mucho natural lube.
and then, like everyone else said, when you get to the actual intercourse part be gentle. go very slow. upon initial entry, chill out for a few seconds. let her try to get used to it. it will more than likely hurt her.
be alright with the fact that you might not get to cum. given that you'll be wearing a condom and that you'll be going rather slow, it's quite likely that you won't be able to get to climax. oh well, this is for her, right?
and most certainly do the cuddle thing. for the love of god do not just turn over and pass out. you seem well intentioned, so i'm sure you'll do well. just be gentle and mindful of her state of being.
BEST advice you could possibly get on this manner
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