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Offlinewearejellyfish
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    #7907674 - 01/20/08 10:07 PM (16 years, 12 days ago)

so does sex slow down after a certain amount of time?
meaning, since we've been having sex basically everyday for three months.. it never seems to be really intimate anymore and i just found out that he's usually not in the mood. but he thought i wanted to sex it up.
which i just told him that if he's not in the mood that we don't have to because i want it to be enjoyable.
though, it always seemed like he was in the mood.
i don't know. maybe we just need to slow down.


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Re: SEX [Re: wearejellyfish]
    #7907750 - 01/20/08 10:31 PM (16 years, 12 days ago)

Sounds like slowing down might be worth a shot. If you have sex every day I imagine it probably isn't very fresh or exciting anymore. Sometimes partners have different levels of sex drive and then you just have to figure out a compromise.


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Re: SEX [Re: NiamhNyx]
    #7908153 - 01/21/08 01:16 AM (16 years, 12 days ago)

being in a 1.5 yr relationship, we had sex about everyday in the beginning aswell.
now im just up for it like twice a week or so, it gets old (with the same partner that is)


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Re: SEX [Re: ohmatic]
    #7908251 - 01/21/08 02:09 AM (16 years, 12 days ago)

It just depends on the person. In my last relationship, for the first few months I was having
sex everyday as well, but it eventually slowed down. My girlfriend didn't have the same sex
drive anymore, but I sure did. I'm always ready to go and I don't think I have ever not been
in the mood. Oh well I guess everyone is different.


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Re: SEX [Re: grassman]
    #7908362 - 01/21/08 03:11 AM (16 years, 11 days ago)

After dating for 4 years, getting married, being married for 4 years and having a child.....

We used to be like bunnies, now we're at 3 times a week. Granted, life is more hectic, but sometimes its nice to be intimate without sex.


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    #7909147 - 01/21/08 11:03 AM (16 years, 11 days ago)

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Re: SEX [Re: serendipitythenot]
    #7909625 - 01/21/08 01:27 PM (16 years, 11 days ago)

my fiance and i have been together about a year and a half now, we started out like nymphos, but that was probably because we had both gone without sex for close to a year before we got together, just alot of sexual tension built up, id say after about 2 months we both decided it would be wise to slow down to about 2-3 times a week(were doing it 7+ times a week). this way it wouldnt lose meaning or sensitivity.

my last relationship was mostly sexual, and i hated it. i mean at first i loved it because i was young and full of hormones(still are, but i ration them more now lol) we had sex all the time(we were together 3 years) id say for the first year i couldnt get enough sex, but after that it started losing significance, it took longer to finish and then after year 2 id say i just plain lost interest. partly due to the fact of who she was turning into and such, but a good part of it was that sex became mechanical.

now that we let it build up for a few days, its much better. more enjoyable and more satisfying.


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Re: SEX [Re: wearejellyfish]
    #7924184 - 01/24/08 01:08 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

Quote:

wearejellyfish said:
so does sex slow down after a certain amount of time?
meaning, since we've been having sex basically everyday for three months.. it never seems to be really intimate anymore and i just found out that he's usually not in the mood. but he thought i wanted to sex it up.
which i just told him that if he's not in the mood that we don't have to because i want it to be enjoyable.

though, it always seemed like he was in the mood.
i don't know. maybe we just need to slow down.




Time to cuddle and play around. My girlfriend and I like to talk philosophy in bed. :rofl2: What I'm saying is have  some non-sexual personal interaction and just play without goals. This creates closeness and bonding. If you find you don't have much to talk about that is not a good sign for your long range plans together.


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Re: SEX [Re: Icelander]
    #7924221 - 01/24/08 01:19 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

things have been going well.


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Re: SEX [Re: wearejellyfish]
    #7925826 - 01/24/08 07:04 PM (16 years, 8 days ago)

I think a lot of it, is being comfortable with rejecting each other, once in a while, for a lack of a better term. I know personally, I had hang ups for a while, about saying no when my boyfriend wanted sex. I would feel like I wasnt pleasing him. On the same note, I would feel silly when he wasnt in the mood. Once I learned to get over that, our sex life evened out, and every time we have sex we're BOTH REALLY in the mood. Which makes it always wonderful.


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