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danlennon3
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couples who hate each other
#7898145 - 01/18/08 04:30 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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I'm sure everyone knows a couple that are always down each other's throats. Always yelling and screaming at each other, getting each other all worked up. Its like they hate each other more than they love each other. Why and how do people keep a relationship like this? Its like they purposely piss each other off to the point of getting into a huge, loud fight. why?
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: danlennon3]
#7898195 - 01/18/08 04:46 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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IMO, they dont realize they really would be better off without eachother... theyd rather fight than go thru life without the other person there just because they think they need em, otherwise they would have already broken up, right?
...but then they get a divorce/breakup, get over eachother, and realize theyre 4986349861037 times happier
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: danlennon3]
#7898202 - 01/18/08 04:47 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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they like to make up
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: danlennon3]
#7898297 - 01/18/08 05:13 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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Co-dependence.
Very common.
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7898342 - 01/18/08 05:23 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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its annoyin
its like yea i could tap that but then my friend would hate me for the rest of his life instead of the girl he's bitchin bout...
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: WhiskeyClone]
#7898567 - 01/18/08 06:16 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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Quote:
WhiskeyClone said: Co-dependence.
Very common.
Yeah, each partner has developed in an imbalanced way so that they must rely totally on someone else for what they lack and that gives the other person power over them which they resent. If they would be more balanced they wouldn't be so needy.
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: danlennon3]
#7898778 - 01/18/08 07:15 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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my parents have hated each other for the entire span of my memory. i used to beg them to get a divorce but it'll never happen. i guess some people love living with a constant fight
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: zSDMF]
#7898817 - 01/18/08 07:27 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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exactly my parents situation. they are always fighting.
my mom is tiny but she screams like a date rape whistle.
theyre too hard core Catholic to get divorced tho.
my mom has consulted lawyers in the past and even moved out and stayed w/ my grandparents for stretches of time.
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: danlennon3]
#7898827 - 01/18/08 07:29 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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make-up sex
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Re: couples who hate each other [Re: MrBump]
#7898842 - 01/18/08 07:33 PM (16 years, 14 days ago) |
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ha yeah, been there on all accounts. sometimes my dad will get real pissed and go work a few seasons out of town, only sending portions of his checks and calling to talk to us (me/my siblings) it has to be horrible living like that. i mean it's bad on me and my siblings but at least we do our own thing.. meh
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