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wearejellyfish
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: awesomebastard]
#7893915 - 01/17/08 04:51 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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not really. which is weird. but i've gotten over that part. i don't even know what i'm anxious about. i just always feel socially awkward.
see. i think if i KNEW what i was always anxious about, i could fix it. i think i should start writing down things while i'm feeling that way so i can look back at them later . since right now, i'm not anxious at all since i'm sitting in my room by myself on the computer. and i can't think back on why i was anxious today or any other day, but just know that i was
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: wearejellyfish]
#7893941 - 01/17/08 04:57 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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the way i used to manually deal with anxiety before that fatefull trip, and it worked just as well its just slower if you can find out what your anxious about force yourself to face it. say your anxious about the way you look, go to school dressed like shit, no makeup and such. funny but it works after a while you stop giving a fuck.lol
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: wearejellyfish]
#7893950 - 01/17/08 04:59 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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The reason why your mind is over thinking is to keep you away from your real problems in my opinion. Don't let yourself be fooled by them, as what your mind brings to surface are just superficial matters, not the essence of your anxiety. Though they can be important pointers to what's really bothering you, Use them as your allies, don't get sucked in this game. Quieting your mind will make your real fears pop up and this is where you must take action.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: awesomebastard]
#7893960 - 01/17/08 05:01 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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awesomebastard said: the way i used to manually deal with anxiety before that fatefull trip, and it worked just as well its just slower if you can find out what your anxious about force yourself to face it. say your anxious about the way you look, go to school dressed like shit, no makeup and such. funny but it works after a while you stop giving a fuck.lol
i stopped wearing makeup when my best friend died almost two years ago. a lot of the times i go to school with my hair looking like shit because i didn't feel like doing anything about it, so i just put a hood up. so i don't really think that's one of my anxious issues
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: wearejellyfish]
#7893967 - 01/17/08 05:04 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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oh i wasnt implying anything its just and example but read mushroom trips post below mine it will probably be more helpfull.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: awesomebastard]
#7893982 - 01/17/08 05:07 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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if you really examine yourself you could pull thoughts apart and find out where they originate. i do this under the influence when high or tripping, drugs are a great tool if you know how to use them.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: awesomebastard]
#7894088 - 01/17/08 05:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I remember when we were younger my wife and I had some tabs of Ex, and some acid hits. And we escaped Mardi-gras to go to Florida to beach and we took it all and decided to fuck. But then we kept seeing each other as animals. Bears and wolf heads and stuff. She wasn't digging it. She didn't do drugs. Ever. She was trying to impress me. So anyway, I knew better than stop playing around. So I ate her out really good and it was like saying hello to God. It was like the sky crashed. So next time give it a chance.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: eve69]
#7895056 - 01/17/08 09:33 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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hmm... In your first post you said that you don't want him to initiate any moves on you. But then later you said that you feel like he doesn't want to be touchy.
So do you not want to be touchy, or is it because you feel like he doesn't?
Sorry if I missed something, but im in a hurry and skimmed the later parts but heres my opinion...
I say talk to him about it while you are sober. Theres no reason not to. Ask him if he doesn't want to be touched and ask why if he doesn't.
It could be that he feels that you don't want to be touched so he distances himself like that.
Do you guys ever hug or kiss while tripping? If you haven't ever I suggest just holding hands then hugging or a kiss on the cheek to break the ice. For me , any touch like that, the small things are amazing. It's an amazing connection.
Are you afraid of how you might feel? If you both feel uncomfortable with it you could try it just once, and if you still feel that way then it's just the way you two are I guess. But I say its worth a try, and too beautiful of an experience not to at least try.
I hope everything works out! Talk to him about it!
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: awesomebastard]
#7895083 - 01/17/08 09:39 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Your on a drug, neither of you are all there.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: wearejellyfish]
#7895111 - 01/17/08 09:47 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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some suggestions from public display are wonderful reminders, but beyond that most public intimacy is pretty indelicate. i find public acts of intimacy a kind of contradiction or a form of performance, or psychodrama.
acid is best with delicacy. intimacy too
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: wearejellyfish]
#7895296 - 01/17/08 10:26 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Some people just have anxiety, that's what makes it so shitty.. there's no reason for it. I'm one of those people, unfortunately. You can either learn to live with it, or let it fuck you for the rest of your life. It's totally irrational and I know it, but there's no medicine that will cure it and it will always be there whether I like it or not.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: redgreenvines]
#7895305 - 01/17/08 10:29 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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redgreenvines said: some suggestions from public display are wonderful reminders, but beyond that most public intimacy is pretty indelicate. i find public acts of intimacy a kind of contradiction or a form of performance, or psychodrama.
acid is best with delicacy. intimacy too
that's interesting..
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: Caribou_Lou]
#7898894 - 01/18/08 07:44 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Caribou_Lou said: Some people just have anxiety, that's what makes it so shitty.. there's no reason for it. I'm one of those people, unfortunately. You can either learn to live with it, or let it fuck you for the rest of your life. It's totally irrational and I know it, but there's no medicine that will cure it and it will always be there whether I like it or not.
yeah. i'm trying to learn to overcome it, but it's hard. i've come a long ways though in the past years.. but it's still interfering with a lot of things
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: wearejellyfish]
#7898931 - 01/18/08 07:54 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Try rolling.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: wearejellyfish]
#7898996 - 01/18/08 08:14 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I could be wrong but it almost sounds like you're afraid to given to the trip fully around your boyfriend, and that's where the anxiety type thinking comes from.
Next time your tripping try and just accept all sides of yourself, and your relationship with your boyfriend. Forget about all your earthly attachments and just exist. Going into a trip with that kind of frame of mind, might be beneficial.
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Re: not wanting to be touched while tripping on LSD [Re: doitagain]
#7899035 - 01/18/08 08:24 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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b0b gnarley said: Try rolling.
if i could find some from someone i trusted. i'd totally fucking do it..
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doitagain said: I could be wrong but it almost sounds like you're afraid to given to the trip fully around your boyfriend, and that's where the anxiety type thinking comes from.
Next time your tripping try and just accept all sides of yourself, and your relationship with your boyfriend. Forget about all your earthly attachments and just exist. Going into a trip with that kind of frame of mind, might be beneficial.
that sounds like it would be verrrry beneficial. thank you :]
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