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Anonymous #1
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Dating a girl with kids and dying
#7883379 - 01/15/08 01:03 PM (16 years, 17 days ago) |
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So I'm 27, haven't had a girlfriend for like 6 months, and I registered on eHarmony and Chemistry.com and all the girls over 25 near me that are compatible with me have kids. I have a potentially fatal disease and I think it's wrong to potentially get serious with someone and put them through me dying possibly. Please don't respond with the just get laid stuff, I'm looking for a girlfriend.
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MushroomTrip
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Re: Dating a girl with kids and dying [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7883417 - 01/15/08 01:13 PM (16 years, 17 days ago) |
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We all might die tomorrow and be involved in a serious relationship. Life is made with lots of unexpected events, should we just not do anything because of that? No So is your case. Live for as long as you do, enjoy life. Enjoy love which is in my opinion the most amazing thing one can experience. But tell her about your situation, it's a decision that you will have to take together.
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Re: Dating a girl with kids and dying [Re: MushroomTrip]
#7883486 - 01/15/08 01:32 PM (16 years, 17 days ago) |
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i would say go for it man, but i think that you would owe it to who ever you might be dating to be upfront and honest with the situation.
may i ask what condition you have?
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Re: Dating a girl with kids and dying [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7886320 - 01/15/08 10:15 PM (16 years, 17 days ago) |
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Maybe you should just be straight forward with whoever you date and tell them about this. If you are just wanting sex, no need to say anything. But if you want a good girlfriend. Telling the girl should be no problem. Its quite simple. If it bothers her and she doesn't want to see you anymore because of that, then obviously shes not worth a shit and you can move on.
Edited by moses (01/15/08 10:16 PM)
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Re: Dating a girl with kids and dying [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7886343 - 01/15/08 10:20 PM (16 years, 17 days ago) |
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STAL.
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Re: Dating a girl with kids and dying [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7887519 - 01/16/08 08:04 AM (16 years, 16 days ago) |
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No, of course it isn't wrong to get involved with somebody. You are as deserving of love as anyone else. It would be wrong to hide your condition after you become involved though.
Even if health wasn't an issue, relationships are always a risk for everybody involved. They can lead to all kinds of pain, but that's no reason to stay away from them.
Mushroomtrip said it, nobody's life is guaranteed. Whoever you get involved with could die unexpectedly. Life has a 100% fatality rate.
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