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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: appleorange]
#7854265 - 01/09/08 03:23 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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She has already began warming up to me and going out of her way to talk to me.
honestly she almost seems to have a hard time talking to me, almost in a way that says "oh hes cute and likes me but I don't know what to do" manner.
I think she may have some interest but is weighing other options.
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: appleorange]
#7854267 - 01/09/08 03:24 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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you probably shouldn't ask her again, it could come off as pushy if she's not interested. And as the other guy said, her response may have just been her letting you down nicely.
you mentioned that she worked at a bar and i'm assuming you go there. her saying 'hi' to you would probably not be a show of interest if you're a customer in her place of work. but i'm just assuming things.
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: Muppet]
#7854280 - 01/09/08 03:25 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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Muppet said:
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appleorange said: cannabis, let me tell you something about women. all that "I have to work", or "I'm busy" stuff is ABSOLUTE BULLSHIT.
When women are interested in a man, they will drop everything or find a way to make time for him. Trust me. Even if they actually do have to work, they will ask if you wanna stop by on their lunch break or something.
She is letting you down nicely. Don't message her again on that myspace place about a date, just be nice to her when you bump in to her again. Let her come to you; she knows at least that you have some interest in her and let it stay at that.
Best motherfucking advice you will get on here.
Doube werd...
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Leave her little notes everywhere. Call her but don't say anything. Stare at her in class and look away real quick when she notices. Also, tell all your friends you've already slept with her. 
Most of all. You've already lost any shot you had by obsessing.
Have a nice day!
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: Essen]
#7854292 - 01/09/08 03:28 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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that was only one part of the response. It came off as genuinely an indication of truth rather than just a way to avoid me. She is a self described workaholic.
you kinda had to be there...
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: Cowgold]
#7854299 - 01/09/08 03:29 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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Yeah chics LOVE when they "catch" you looking at them. Girls, us guys catch glimpses of WAY more than you know, but when you catch us it's because we're doing it on purpose.
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I wont ask again, but I won't avoid. I just talked to her friend and she has her eye on someone and thats that. I don't know if it would be any different if she wasn't but I should really get to know her better before trying it again.
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Cowgold
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Talking to her friends instead of her shows lack of confidence and desperatoin. She hears what you say to her friends anyways.
Save face and just be her friend.
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: Cowgold]
#7854351 - 01/09/08 03:38 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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Yeah take our advice dude, stop digging the hole deeper!
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: Newbie]
#7854693 - 01/09/08 04:35 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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there giggling in the bathroom as we speak, i know because i can hear them though the walls
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No, don't ask her again. That doesn't mean that nothing can happen between you but it does mean she doesn't want anything to happen at the moment.
Would you ignore her? Course not. The fact she ignored you says enough. If she was unsure then she would most likely say so.
Ignore = I don't wanna hurt you (no).
Be a friend, she may change her mind in the future but for now do not create a false attatchment.
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7854759 - 01/09/08 04:49 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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Then you can try to worm your way into her pants later when a decent opportunity presents itself.

Cannabischarlie most girls won't respond to being asked out anyway. I've noticed they prefer for stuff to just happen. Then they rationalise it to themselves later.
You gotta get her in close friend mode and wait till the time is right. That moment where you both look at each other a bit to long. Makes them feel theres a deeper connection - thats when you go in for the kill. If you get a kiss then game on. If you fuck her - she's yours.
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: dr_gonz]
#7854772 - 01/09/08 04:51 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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Yeah, anybody prefers the moves to be done in person.
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: Ego Death]
#7855602 - 01/09/08 07:30 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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I didnt ask her on myspace assclowns, Cowgold, her friend is a freind of mine as well, we talk about stuff anyway. She is not the kind to go running to tell secrets in the bathroom. Speaking of which OUR friend claims that she is not really the type to ignore. There could be other reasons for this.
You guys are overthinking this worse than I am. I think a woman who is nice enough wouldn't go the route of ditching by ignoring and then come up and talk to me later, she would ditch me and ignore me in person as well, NOT make it a point to talk to me.
I could tell that the thought interested her, but I think she is exploring other options as well as the fact that she probably needs to know me better.
I won't press the issue now, and if I never think to ask again, oh well.
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Haha, so you asked for advice and responded to every single bit of advice with a reason for it being bad if you didn't think it was the right move. Why do people do this so often?
Good luck dude, seriously. Whatever you do I hope it works out.
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Haha your infatuated. Face it bro, we all been there.
You think cuz she make a point to talk to you that she hidin something yet she ignored u?
Nope. Thats all I say. NO.
Go ahead ask her again, then come back and tell us all we were right...
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Re: should I ask her again? [Re: jewunit]
#7855682 - 01/09/08 07:40 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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not really, I should have been more specific about things and I think people misunderstand the situation. Mostly I was looking to see if more people where for or against re-asking.
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Actually, you didn't really turn down any advice you didn't agree with. It seems you just had reasons to go against EVERY piece of advice. In all honesty I'm confident you're the one over thinking this. Just fucking make a choice, and if it doesn't work out then oh well. People waste so much time worrying about what consequences will come with their actions that they miss out on so much shit, girls included.
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