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CherryBom
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Tiffany
#7852855 - 01/09/08 09:50 AM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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Tiffany is 20 years old. She lives in a ratty apartment building with her mother and her stepdad. Her stepdad hits her and her mother lets it happen. Sometimes she fights back, but mostly she just gets stoned and hangs out at shady bars with shady people.
About a week ago, she told me that she was pregnant. She thought that the dude really cared about her, but he told to 'stop freaking out' and hasn't contacted her since. She came into the restaurant where I work last night and told me that she was going to get an abortion today, wednesday. Her appointment was for 8am, so it's already done and over with. It was her second one. 
Tiffany is a good girl with a fuckload of problems. She is young, naive and looking for some kind of love and compassion in her life. I wish I knew how to help her, but I don't. I don't even think that anyone could help her, and I wish she would help herself. Tiffany kind of reminds me of me when I was 20...maybe that is why I have so much empathy for her.
The next time I see her, this is what I want to tell her:
You are on your own in this world. No one is going to take care of you anymore. Not your parents, not your boyfriend(s), not your siblings, not your friends. You have to watch your back and you have to take care of yourself. You deserve to be loved, you deserve to be happy...but if you don't beleive that, you will not have it.
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Muppet
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CherryBom said: The next time I see her, this is what I want to tell her:
You are on your own in this world. No one is going to take care of you anymore. Not your parents, not your boyfriend(s), not your siblings, not your friends. You have to watch your back and you have to take care of yourself.
best advice you could possibly give to anyone...ever 
*fixed (outta respect)
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Edited by Muppet (01/09/08 09:58 AM)
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CherryBom
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Re: Tiffany [Re: Muppet]
#7852866 - 01/09/08 09:56 AM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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You edited my quote. Don't do that.
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Muppet
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I'm wishing I hadn't already rated you...cause that's the kinda thing that deserves a fiver
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Muppet
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CherryBom said: You edited my quote. Don't do that.
you're the first one that's ever caught onto that too
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BrAiN
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Re: Tiffany [Re: Muppet]
#7852893 - 01/09/08 10:04 AM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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If you see the dude again, be sure to cut his balls off for me
There's nothing worse than a dude that knocks a girl up and then goes on the run before she's even MADE a decision. If you're going to split, at least wait UNTIL you KNOW she's got the abortion done.
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RandalFlagg
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I can definately feel some empathy for Tiffany. But, people like her really need to stop breeding.
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BrAiN
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Re: Tiffany [Re: BrAiN]
#7853005 - 01/09/08 10:41 AM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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BrAiN said:
There's nothing worse than a dude that knocks a girl up and then goes on the run before she's even MADE a decision.
Actually I was wrong.
There's nothing worse than a man that hits a woman.
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CherryBom
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RandalFlagg said: I can definately feel some empathy for Tiffany. But, people like her really need to stop breeding.
She wasn't breeding. She was fucking a dude who told her she was beautiful and special... She is naive and she made a huge mistake on so many different levels.
This is a problem. You have an entire generation of young girls who are told from the time they are babies that they are strong, smart and beautiful, and that they can do anything in this world. They have a false sense of security when it comes to entitlement and sex. They just dont beleive that they are putting themselves at risk, until they are knocked up, alone and drunk.
It's just so sad. Smarten up, girls!
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SheikCorp
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I had a random talk with a man a while back. We were talking about relationships. He was talking about his woman and his relationships. He said he wouldn't take a relationship to the sexual level unless they felt a deep connection. If he couldn't picture having a child with her he wouldn't fuck her. Now thats respect!
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Muppet
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CherryBom said: This is a problem. You have an entire generation of young girls who are told from the time they are babies that they are strong, smart and beautiful, and that they can do anything in this world. They have a false sense of security when it comes to entitlement and sex. They just dont beleive that they are putting themselves at risk, until they are knocked up, alone and drunk.
is that what's actually happening here?
cause I always assumed that girls who were raised 'strong' would just turn into the typical 'control freak' sorta bitch that every guy fucken hates
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Muppet
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Re: Tiffany [Re: Muppet]
#7853125 - 01/09/08 11:14 AM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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I can't imagine someone that was raised to believe they didn't have to bow down to men, would ever wind up doing exactly that
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