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OfflineShroomieGirl
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Need some advice
    #7847415 - 01/08/08 11:08 AM (16 years, 24 days ago)

Hey guys,
Welp... Im not sure what to do about this kid Ive known for almost 10 years now, just about since hes been in middle school. Ive always been the "older" one or the one who was supposed to "watch him" when were all out somewhere- whether its just us or with his friends. His mom has kinda assigned this role to me, but I also feel a little like the big sister and friend at the same time. His mom is cool as shit, and knows alot of what her kid does (shes not stupid), but my last trip down to the city to see him the other night kinda worried me.
Hed been following in my footsteps with smoking and mushies and acid, and all the other aspects of the "lighter" drug culture- which I might have to admit was probably partially my fault... but thats a whole other story for another day.
Anyways, so I went down to visit and chill for the day/night like I always do, meet his friends which have changed almost every time ive been down there in the past year.
Long story short, hes gotten into dealing, and is now at the point at which I stopped. Hes been talking about pushing atleast a pound or 2 of green a day and a few other drugs, making this and this money from everyone he and his partner sells to ALL over the state.
Theyre talking about serious shit too... like some drug lord shit. Hes only 19, and I dont think he knows what hes has gotten into or what hes going to be getting into if he hasnt yet. Hes being a little stupid about it, and not necessarily discreet.
I know its only a matter of time before they get caught or seriously hurt. I saw it happen when I was doin that shit, and dont want him to go through it or see it too.
I gave him the whole "be safe, ive been there" talk, but kept brushing off all my warnings with 'yeah, but's'

His mom always talks to me about him, and asks about his new friends, what hes doing, etc. just because she really cares and trusts me. I usually just give the ol oh, hes doing fine, and i like his friends cover up after we come home from blunt rides, but thats because he was doing fine, and i did like his friends!
Im torn now though... his friends are gonna get him into trouble, I can see it coming, and hes either gonna end up in jail, beat half to shit, or whatever else if he doesnt stop soon (and I dont see him stopping anytime soon... the money looks too good to him right now).
So... should I step up and say something to his family? Should I just leave him alone hoping hell get out aright? What would you do?

Thanks, and sorry for the long story that had to go with that!


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InvisibleWoodsCall
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Re: Need some advice [Re: ShroomieGirl]
    #7847700 - 01/08/08 12:33 PM (16 years, 24 days ago)

A kid (19 y/o) has to figure out what life's about and what is for him. The only way he is to become any wiser about life experiences is exactly that, experience. He's an adult now and is capable of deciding what he wants to do. You can give him the lecture of Been There Done That as many times you wish, but when it comes down to it, younger people (shit, everybody really) have selective hearing. Be there as a support system more than anything, and offer advice when he asks for it.

Is his mom your friend? That's a weird territory to enter if she's asking about him. As I said before, he's an adult. If she really wanted to know what his friends are like then why doesn't she talk to him more or in another sense "invite them all over for dinner?"

You can't save everybody you love as family and friend. I've tried.


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OfflineShroomieGirl
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Re: Need some advice [Re: WoodsCall]
    #7847788 - 01/08/08 12:54 PM (16 years, 24 days ago)

Good advice.  I guess youre right... hell figure it out on his own sooner or later, and theres really nothing I could say. 

Geeze, now I think I know how my parents feel  :runaway:


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Invisibleappleorange
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Re: Need some advice [Re: ShroomieGirl]
    #7848032 - 01/08/08 01:44 PM (16 years, 24 days ago)

I wouldn't get his family involved, that just seems like a bad idea. I think the best you can honestly do is just give him a heart felt talk and let him call all the shots from that point on out. He is an adult like the other poster said and he will live his life as he wants too.

You're friend probably will wind up in prison unfortunately :sad: No one in your friends world cares about others, everyones in it for themselves. He'll either get caught, ratted on, or beat up perhaps.


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Re: Need some advice [Re: appleorange]
    #7848649 - 01/08/08 03:49 PM (16 years, 24 days ago)

hes going to have to find out on his own. he knows what hes doing.

dealing cocaine nearly took me out 3 years ago, luckily my guy was busted and i was forced to quit. i was literally on en route to pick up a 1/4lb when he was busted. had my g/f at the time not had a flat tire and needed a ride to work, i would have been in cuffs with him. i have since cleaned up my life and couldnt be happier.

either he will wisen up, or he will learn the hard way. theres nothing you can do about it.


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