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Azrah
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Girlfriend and Weed...
#7847242 - 01/08/08 10:04 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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Man I knew this would come sooner or later, but the time has come now. My girlfriend wants me to quit smoking pot. She is a total anti marijuana person and always uses dumbs 'facts' about it. Its not like I ditch her to smoke pot anyways. I do it on my own time when she is asleep. I know lots of people had to go through this. Can anyone give me suggestions on what to do. I love her and pot and I want both of them.
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Apollyphelion
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7847250 - 01/08/08 10:08 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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If they are cake in this context, you know what they say about cake.
Heartfelt, honest Conversation intertwined with CARE ful deciscion making might be the only way forawrd with this, methinks.
Any more info that might help?
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Azrah
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Yeah I guess I'm going to have to have one of those long talks with her. O boy.
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7847257 - 01/08/08 10:11 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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How often do you smoke weed? Just try to explain to her that it's something that is a perfectly reasonable part of your life and that doesn't effect you negatively. Unless you're smoking all day every day, she can't really say anything about it- especially if she drinks.
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7847259 - 01/08/08 10:11 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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Azrah said: Man I knew this would come sooner or later, but the time has come now. My girlfriend wants me to quit smoking pot. She is a total anti marijuana person and always uses dumbs 'facts' about it. Its not like I ditch her to smoke pot anyways. I do it on my own time when she is asleep. I know lots of people had to go through this. Can anyone give me suggestions on what to do. I love her and pot and I want both of them.
Go online with her and find neutral websites that tell about it and compare it to those of alcohol, if she drinks. Or something else that she likes.
Also try to convince her of the benefits it has for you, offer to limit your use to certain times/keep it out of her sight. Or offer to stop as long as she stops some things she loves that you hate, etc. If it's worth it.
And dry smash her shit box.
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Apollyphelion
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7847264 - 01/08/08 10:13 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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A long talk is like a long walk through each others mind and I hope you both end up at the destination of love  
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MrKite1
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I just broke up with a girl because she didn't want me smoking pot. Maybe my priorities aren't straight, I don't know but that's a deal breaker for me.
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7847298 - 01/08/08 10:28 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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Put marijuana in her food, and she will realize its the bomb?
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manyc
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: implee]
#7847322 - 01/08/08 10:35 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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i couldnt have a girlfriend that tells me not to smoke weed. no way.
there's rarely a good reason to be 100% anti-cannabis.
...scratch that, there's NEVER a reason. what i would say has already been said - get her to educate herself, instead of assuming the AdCouncil is all about humanitarianism
i hate when people demonize mother nature...
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CivilizedAnimal
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: implee]
#7847386 - 01/08/08 11:00 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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dude, when i read his post i thought the exact same thing!
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citricacidx
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I knew that's what this post was about. I agree, if she drinks then liken it to that.
Tell her some people smoke cigattes to relax, some drink beer to unwind, but you prefer to smoke cannabis because it's not as bad as the other two.
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: citricacidx]
#7847433 - 01/08/08 11:15 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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Good luck man. A good conversation will do wonders. Just try not to get upset because that will be one more stigma she has attached to it.
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7847539 - 01/08/08 11:49 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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Can you cite some of her 'facts'? If her 'facts' are erroneous, tell her she's been misinformed.
Tell her you are an adult and you think your use is perfectly reasonable.
Do whatever you want, just don't cave.
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7847719 - 01/08/08 12:39 PM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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break down her argument, im sure her facts are bullshit, and you know it too. now you just have to make her know it, and if she wont accept it, then maybe shes not the girl for you bro. i mean for me, miss mary is more important than some dumb girl who cant even look past some propaganda. and like they all said, if she drinks, inform her that kills thousands of people, and mary jane has never killed anyone. ever.
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xpl0de
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: clover606]
#7847993 - 01/08/08 01:37 PM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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tell her to accept u for who u are dont change for anyone but urself
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Azrah
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: xpl0de]
#7848045 - 01/08/08 01:47 PM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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Thanks for all your opinions, she doesn't smoke or drink, so I can't really compare it to that. I always tell her information on it and she just disregards it. Even if the talk turns out me stop smoking pot. I will just smoke when I'm at the dorms and she's at her college, so I guess either way it will work out.
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Love Cap
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Azrah]
#7848151 - 01/08/08 02:10 PM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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If she disregards information that you're telling her, then she sounds ignorant. Hearing eachother out is a BIG part of a relationship. I wouldn't be with a guy that told me to stop smoking pot, because it IS apart of my life style and there's plenty of other guys/girls out there that agree.
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learningtofly
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: Love Cap]
#7848311 - 01/08/08 02:39 PM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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What gives her the right to tell you how you live your life?
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yup, thats who u are, changing for her willl cause problems in the long run, because its not who u are; ans this probably wont be the only thing she ever asks you to change
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Re: Girlfriend and Weed... [Re: ManianFH]
#7848364 - 01/08/08 02:50 PM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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tell her you want to be with her but that you also expect her to respect your lifestyle. if she cant respect your lifestyle she doesnt deserve you anyways
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