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jrod38182
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need advice: am I being too forward?
#7832171 - 01/04/08 02:32 PM (16 years, 28 days ago) |
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Last night I met a young lady at a friend's house and we immediately had a great connection. We spent most of the night dancing with each other and talking, I tried to show her a good time without her knowing that I'm all that interested.
She works at a bar in town and I was thinking about heading over there tonight to say hello and invite her out after she gets off of work. Normally I wouldn't consider going out of my way to talk to any woman so soon, but I'm leaving town for college again in a few days and I really, really want to see her again. I should also mention that I will most likely be alone if I go up there while she is at work...
Is it worth breaking the "don't show interest" rule in this situation?
-------------------- POLITICS, n. A strife of interests masquerading as a contest of principles. The conduct of public affairs for private advantage. Ambrose. Devils Dictionary
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: jrod38182]
#7832181 - 01/04/08 02:36 PM (16 years, 28 days ago) |
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If you're leaving for college in a few days, what do you have to lose? Either you're in the same spot you are now, or you get closer with this girl. No way to lose IMO
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: jrod38182]
#7832183 - 01/04/08 02:37 PM (16 years, 28 days ago) |
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Don't show interest rule?
I say - don't play games.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: jrod38182]
#7832201 - 01/04/08 02:43 PM (16 years, 28 days ago) |
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first of all, youre leaving soon, whatta you got to lose??
secondly, if you were both having a good time that night, i bet shed love to see you show up to 'just say hey'
go for it
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LeftyBurnz
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Quote:
OneLessForeskin said: Don't show interest rule?
I say - don't play games.
i never followed that rule. like foreskin said, no games.
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LeftyBurnz
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: ShroomieGirl]
#7832869 - 01/04/08 05:49 PM (16 years, 28 days ago) |
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ShroomieGirl said: first of all, youre leaving soon, whatta you got to lose??
secondly, if you were both having a good time that night, i bet shed love to see you show up to 'just say hey'
go for it
and i have to say shroomie, you look pretty hot with a burrito stuffed in your mouth
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ShroomieGirl
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7834653 - 01/05/08 07:20 AM (16 years, 27 days ago) |
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I love me some burritos... almost as much as tacos
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jrod38182
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7834862 - 01/05/08 09:55 AM (16 years, 27 days ago) |
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Thank you all for the advice! I went to the bar to talk to her tonight and she was very happy to see me. We had another great night together and I am sure I will see her again.
  
-------------------- POLITICS, n. A strife of interests masquerading as a contest of principles. The conduct of public affairs for private advantage. Ambrose. Devils Dictionary
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ShroomieGirl
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: jrod38182]
#7835289 - 01/05/08 12:10 PM (16 years, 27 days ago) |
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awesome!! see? she was happy to see you!
grats
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Re: need advice: am I being too forward? [Re: jrod38182]
#7837349 - 01/05/08 09:35 PM (16 years, 27 days ago) |
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jrod38182 said: Thank you all for the advice! I went to the bar to talk to her tonight and she was very happy to see me. We had another great night together and I am sure I will see her again.
  
a few more surprise visits and her panties will practically melt off
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