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Brainiac
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What would you do...
#7825972 - 01/02/08 11:49 PM (16 years, 30 days ago) |
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Lets say you where cleaning up your room and you come across an old address. For this wonderful women (at lest it seemed that away)about a year ago.I've got the phone number from the home address. Is it weird, to send real mail. Because I'm too shy, to call her.I've even looked all over the net,for her.
How would you do(if it all)this with out being creepy.
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im_on_a_boat
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Re: What would you do... [Re: Brainiac]
#7826003 - 01/03/08 12:01 AM (16 years, 30 days ago) |
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no easy way to do that without being creepy.
she probably has a boyfriend by now and has forgot about your ass. assuming you met her at a club or something.
either that or call the bitch and be honest say 'hey i found your number'
worst thing she can do is hang up and be like fuck you..
good luck with it either way. i say it's worth a shot. dont do it at like 3 a.m. though when you're wasted.
try to make it a non-obvious booty call. unless she is a ho then go for it.
Edited by im_on_a_boat (01/03/08 12:09 AM)
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imagine
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Go for it dude. Just be aware of how creepy you sound on the phone, that is, if you call her. For me, although i'm a guy, I wouldn't mind getting a phone call of an ex or somebody I had known to see how I was doing. GL
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MushroomTrip
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drkrobotnik said: no easy way to do that without being creepy.
she probably has a boyfriend by now and has forgot about your ass. assuming you met her at a club or something.
either that or call the bitch and be honest say 'hey i found your number'
worst thing she can do is hang up and be like fuck you..
good luck with it either way. i say it's worth a shot. dont do it at like 3 a.m. though when you're wasted.
try to make it a non-obvious booty call. unless she is a ho then go for it.
This is such a lame advice 
OP: write to her or call her. Whatever makes you feel more comfortable and confident. Try to be as honest as possible to her, but don't look desperate. You can still let he know that you like her without looking weird that you're telling her that after all this time. Try to make a connection with her, find out ho she is and see if you can relate to that. I never understood why so much anxiety, she's the girl that you like, not your executer. Just try it once and you'll see that there's nothing to be afraid of
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im_on_a_boat
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how can you say that i gave 'lame advice' when you turn around and say pretty much the same exact thing?
i was not as eloquent in my advice, but i said basically the same thing as you.
and dont write a letter that's probably the creepiest shit you can do.. but really i dont know..
i was under the impression this is some girl you met at a club/bar or something..
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lifeson2112
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Dude, I would let it go. This whole situation is creepy as fuck.
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LeftyBurnz
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Re: What would you do... [Re: Brainiac]
#7828162 - 01/03/08 04:07 PM (16 years, 29 days ago) |
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Brainiac said: Lets say you where cleaning up your room and you come across an old address. For this wonderful women (at lest it seemed that away)about a year ago.I've got the phone number from the home address. Is it weird, to send real mail. Because I'm too shy, to call her.I've even looked all over the net,for her.
How would you do(if it all)this with out being creepy.
its not wierd. if youre too shy of a person to call, then send her a letter. the worse that can happen is she wont respond. these things only make us stronger 
when i was younger and not very confident, i would text a girl instead of calling her.
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