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Friendship problem
#7821115 - 01/01/08 06:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I have a problem with one of my "close" friends. Though he considers me close, the same can't be said for me. He has completely opposite political views to mine and if I told him my opinion on drugs, I don't know what he would do. He's a far right, racist and fascist and a wannabe skinhead and I'm the best of his few friends.
I want to stop our "friendship" but I just cant bring myself to do it. So I just pretend to agree with all his ideologies and what not.
Suggestions?
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Anonymous #2
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So I just pretend to agree with all his ideologies and what not.
You suck
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Anonymous #3
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huh?
you're going to let ideologies and beliefs get in the way of a friendship?
Who gives a shit what music he listens to or what god he prays to, he's your friend and a person, not a doctrine or belief system.
My best friend of 10 years has absolutely nothing in common with me as far as politics, faith, and interests go. We remain best friends because we care about eachother and enjoy being around one another. Wouldn't it be kind of boring if you're friend shared all of the same opinions that you do?
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Anonymous #4
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Teach him or leave him
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Anonymous #5
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Dry smash the shitbox perhaps?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: huh?
you're going to let ideologies and beliefs get in the way of a friendship?
Who gives a shit what music he listens to or what god he prays to, he's your friend and a person, not a doctrine or belief system.
My best friend of 10 years has absolutely nothing in common with me as far as politics, faith, and interests go. We remain best friends because we care about eachother and enjoy being around one another. Wouldn't it be kind of boring if you're friend shared all of the same opinions that you do?
This would generally be the case, but here... see he has this little plan of his about taking over our country by building up a local militia force and wiping out all the "scum" which to him is blacks, hispanics, asians etc...
I just think he needs a change of mindset... but he would never do drugs and he seems to not want to give up his beliefs.
Oh, and he calls himself a Christian.
It's just getting annoying...
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Anonymous #6
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Tell him your gay, and maybe try to kiss him. Worst case scenario, you end up dry smashing his shitbox.
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Anonymous #3
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OP, i'm the guy who wrote the 3rd post.
I get the impression that you're under 18, if that's the case, your friend is just going through a phase and will grow out of it.
If you're an adult, you should most likely not be friends with a person like this. Even if he does actually believe that shit, none of it will ever happen.
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Anonymous #7
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Make fun of him.
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Tell him your gay, and maybe try to kiss him. Worst case scenario, you end up dry smashing his shitbox.
haha
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Anonymous #1
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He's 17 and turns 18 in April.
He talks maturely and usually acts it but it's just his beliefs which get to me.
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Anonymous #3
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eh, trust me, you're friend will grow out of it.
is your friend a redneck nigger hater or a white power nigger hater? if the former, there is no hope for your friend. once born on a farm, you hate niggers for life.
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Anonymous #3
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: eh, trust me, you're friend will grow out of it.
is your friend a redneck nigger hater or a white power nigger hater? if the former, there is no hope for your friend. once born on a farm, you hate niggers for life.
He's the latter.
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Anonymous #3
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he'll probably grow out of it. when I was 16, 17ish I drank pbr and called myself a nihilist.
now I'm 22 and I drink jim bean and raise bunnies for blind children.
see how much I've changed? you're friend will too.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: he'll probably grow out of it. when I was 16, 17ish I drank pbr and called myself a nihilist.
now I'm 22 and I drink jim bean and raise bunnies for blind children.
see how much I've changed? you're friend will too.
Hopefully he does.
Thanks for the replies guys.
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Anonymous #8
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OP, you are a faggot.
Seriously, quit being such a faggot. Why the fuck would you break a friendship over not having enough shit in common. Hes not your fucking boyfriend.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: OP, you are a faggot.
Seriously, quit being such a faggot. Why the fuck would you break a friendship over not having enough shit in common. Hes not your fucking boyfriend.
Of course he isn't. I love all my friends. How would you like it though you were lectured pages upon pages of text from Mein Kampf over the phone every few days and your friend always had to bring racism into everything you talk about somehow... whether it's saying that the guy in Transformers looks like a Jew or sneering at a Black man walking by. It just makes my mood really negative.
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Anonymous #6
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Maybe you should move to NYC for a few months and see how wrong you are about blacks and jews.
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Anonymous #3
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I hate niggers, you even consider that maybe you're friend is right?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: I hate niggers, you even consider that maybe you're friend is right?
I used to think he was... then I realised that my hatred for them was pointless and immature.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: Maybe you should move to NYC for a few months and see how wrong you are about blacks and jews.
Yes, some are bad, others are not. Just like with white people.
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Anonymous #9
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He's a far right, racist and fascist and a wannabe skinhead
Fuck him. Let me rephrase that: FUUUUUUUCK HIM.
In the 21st century there is no excuse for this kind of philosophy. Most people who were members of the real Nazi Party in 1930s-1940s germany simply did not know the true nature of what they were into. Now, after the holocaust and world war are undeniable fact, there is no such excuse.
Giving you Mein Kampf lectures over the phone? Insulting black people when you walk the strets with him?
FUUUUUUUCKKK THAT!!!
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if I told him my opinion on drugs, I don't know what he would do.
A hater cannot be a friend. Haters only have accomplices, they do NOT have friends. If he knew you were, like, a normal person, you might just make it on his hate list.
Because I hope this is clear: you can end up on his hate list. If you display normal political viewpoints he'll just label you a drug-crazed niggerlover and that will be the end of that.
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I just pretend to agree with all his ideologies and what not.
Don't BETRAY YOURSELF like that man 
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I want to stop our "friendship" but I just cant bring myself to do it.
Just tell him you are fed up with all the hate speech and that you don't want anything to do with him anymore.
I advise you to wear your sturdiest footwear cause you may have to kick him in the face a couple of times before he gets it.
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Anonymous #9
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When I see one of those White Power guys or another visible fascist (swastika tattoos, third reich insignias you know that kinda crap) I consider their visibly fascist stance an act of aggression.
I'm one of their hated minorities. I'm a homosexual, many tens of thousands of us were railed off to the death camps as well.
When I see one of those visibly fascist types, on the inside I ready myself to fight them to the death if it needs be. I've had hand-to-hand combat training (not from the internet but from actual military basic training) and I when I spot them I ready myself to stomp their heads into the pavement if it needs be.
This is one fag that won't be bashed. Honest to god I'll fight to the death if they try.
They think they're so cool with their emblems and insignias, but what they fail to realize is that aside from responses of fear there's a good number of seemingly ordinary people who who mentally cock their guns at the sight of them.
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Anonymous #10
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when will people realize that its not minorities that are destroying the purity of the world, its the poor people. due to historical chance, it just ended up that minorities are poorer on average, that doesn't mean they're ALL poor.
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Anonymous #1
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OP here. I was on the phone again with him last night and he had said something quite rude to my face about my sister recently which I told him for that, I think we shouldn't hang out for a few weeks if not longer.
We also got onto the topic of drugs, because I was telling him about Ron Paul... even though we're not from the US but anyway, he stopped me and asked, "why is he against the war on drugs?" and I went on to tell him how the WOD fails. Then he says, " well regardless of what drug it is, if I was in charge, I'd have anyone found dealing or using drugs shot."
And he smokes and drinks. 
Ah well... I must get my point across somehow. I'll do it.
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Anonymous #11
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Don't bother trying to get your point across, he's clearly an idiot. Giving him a speech would not only make you part of the problem in his mind but would also make you a TRAITOR! He would be hurt deeply and resent you greatly as the cause of his pain.
The best thing to do would be to have an excuse when he wants to hang out and try and wean him off you... actually no, thats not the BEST thing to do.
The best thing to do, pay attention to this one... the best thing to do is maybe bait him into making more rude comments about your sister (say she fancies a black rapper on the telly or something)and them making a HUGE deal about him saying rude things about her, don't blow up on the spot but act cold to him till he asks you whats up... then tell him.
Make sure you emphasize the fact that he has disrespected your FAMILY that you and your sister are BLOOD. What will happen here is that you are telling him you cant be around him for reasons that HE understands (the far right loves the FAMILY and BLOOD) this will make him see your decision as valid and make him guilty... all you have to do now is stick to your guns "you cant unsay what you said man, i thought you were someone else" and he will not only leave you alone he'll feel bad when he sees you and perceive his pain as his own fault... alternatively if you want to mess with him you can accept him back if he does something for you... hehehe
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Anonymous #11
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I was a little harsh there... maybe he's not an idiot but he is acting like an idiot in a way that will probably fizzle out by itself. That being said you don't want to be around him and you shouldn't have to, not till he calms down for himself a bit. The advice of the previous post is, I still think the best way to disengage.
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Anonymous #9
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the best thing to do is maybe bait him into making more rude comments about your sister (say she fancies a black rapper on the telly or something)and them making a HUGE deal about him saying rude things about her, don't blow up on the spot but act cold to him till he asks you whats up... then tell him.
This is a sound strategy, I used this same method several times to back out of "friendships" with potentially dangerous people.
Create a scenario that is believable to him to you not wanting to hang anymore and do it in a way that isn';t worth beating you up over.
No need to guilttrip him either, anything that is readily rationally comprehensible and is low-key will do.
No need to be moralistic, you probably can't make him see the light, just sever the connection and keep it severed.
Tell him you're fed up with the constant negativity and don't feel like being friends anymore. He's a bastard so he'll probably understand.
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Anonymous #11
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it all boils down to you having the balls to actually do it too, instead of toadying along pretending you agree.
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous said: I hate niggers, you even consider that maybe you're friend is right?
I used to think he was... then I realised that my hatred for them was pointless and immature.
wait till a nigger steals your VCR and a jew sells it back to you.
for more than you paid when it was new.

EVIL CONSPIRACY
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Anonymous #13
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Anonymous said: Dry smash the shitbox perhaps?
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Anonymous said: This would generally be the case, but here... see he has this little thing for blacks, hispanics, asians etc...
I just think he needs a change of mindset... but he would never do me, a midget, and he seems to not want to give up his beliefs about the blacks having the best cocks.
Oh, and he calls himself a Christian.
It's just getting annoying...
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