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Anonymous #1
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Friendship problem
#7821115 - 01/01/08 06:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I have a problem with one of my "close" friends. Though he considers me close, the same can't be said for me. He has completely opposite political views to mine and if I told him my opinion on drugs, I don't know what he would do. He's a far right, racist and fascist and a wannabe skinhead and I'm the best of his few friends.
I want to stop our "friendship" but I just cant bring myself to do it. So I just pretend to agree with all his ideologies and what not.
Suggestions?
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Anonymous #2
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So I just pretend to agree with all his ideologies and what not.
You suck
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Anonymous #3
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huh?
you're going to let ideologies and beliefs get in the way of a friendship?
Who gives a shit what music he listens to or what god he prays to, he's your friend and a person, not a doctrine or belief system.
My best friend of 10 years has absolutely nothing in common with me as far as politics, faith, and interests go. We remain best friends because we care about eachother and enjoy being around one another. Wouldn't it be kind of boring if you're friend shared all of the same opinions that you do?
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Anonymous #4
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Teach him or leave him
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Anonymous #5
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Dry smash the shitbox perhaps?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: huh?
you're going to let ideologies and beliefs get in the way of a friendship?
Who gives a shit what music he listens to or what god he prays to, he's your friend and a person, not a doctrine or belief system.
My best friend of 10 years has absolutely nothing in common with me as far as politics, faith, and interests go. We remain best friends because we care about eachother and enjoy being around one another. Wouldn't it be kind of boring if you're friend shared all of the same opinions that you do?
This would generally be the case, but here... see he has this little plan of his about taking over our country by building up a local militia force and wiping out all the "scum" which to him is blacks, hispanics, asians etc...
I just think he needs a change of mindset... but he would never do drugs and he seems to not want to give up his beliefs.
Oh, and he calls himself a Christian.
It's just getting annoying...
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Anonymous #6
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Tell him your gay, and maybe try to kiss him. Worst case scenario, you end up dry smashing his shitbox.
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Anonymous #3
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OP, i'm the guy who wrote the 3rd post.
I get the impression that you're under 18, if that's the case, your friend is just going through a phase and will grow out of it.
If you're an adult, you should most likely not be friends with a person like this. Even if he does actually believe that shit, none of it will ever happen.
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Anonymous #7
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Make fun of him.
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Tell him your gay, and maybe try to kiss him. Worst case scenario, you end up dry smashing his shitbox.
haha
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Anonymous #1
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He's 17 and turns 18 in April.
He talks maturely and usually acts it but it's just his beliefs which get to me.
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Anonymous #3
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eh, trust me, you're friend will grow out of it.
is your friend a redneck nigger hater or a white power nigger hater? if the former, there is no hope for your friend. once born on a farm, you hate niggers for life.
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Anonymous #3
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: eh, trust me, you're friend will grow out of it.
is your friend a redneck nigger hater or a white power nigger hater? if the former, there is no hope for your friend. once born on a farm, you hate niggers for life.
He's the latter.
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Anonymous #3
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he'll probably grow out of it. when I was 16, 17ish I drank pbr and called myself a nihilist.
now I'm 22 and I drink jim bean and raise bunnies for blind children.
see how much I've changed? you're friend will too.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: he'll probably grow out of it. when I was 16, 17ish I drank pbr and called myself a nihilist.
now I'm 22 and I drink jim bean and raise bunnies for blind children.
see how much I've changed? you're friend will too.
Hopefully he does.
Thanks for the replies guys.
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Anonymous #8
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OP, you are a faggot.
Seriously, quit being such a faggot. Why the fuck would you break a friendship over not having enough shit in common. Hes not your fucking boyfriend.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: OP, you are a faggot.
Seriously, quit being such a faggot. Why the fuck would you break a friendship over not having enough shit in common. Hes not your fucking boyfriend.
Of course he isn't. I love all my friends. How would you like it though you were lectured pages upon pages of text from Mein Kampf over the phone every few days and your friend always had to bring racism into everything you talk about somehow... whether it's saying that the guy in Transformers looks like a Jew or sneering at a Black man walking by. It just makes my mood really negative.
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Anonymous #6
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Maybe you should move to NYC for a few months and see how wrong you are about blacks and jews.
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Anonymous #3
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I hate niggers, you even consider that maybe you're friend is right?
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: I hate niggers, you even consider that maybe you're friend is right?
I used to think he was... then I realised that my hatred for them was pointless and immature.
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