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Asante
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Polygamy - is it you?
#7820139 - 01/01/08 01:50 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Polygamy. Being in a lasting relationship of love and lust with more than one person. If you stop and think about it, would it be something you'd like to be into?
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Asante]
#7820160 - 01/01/08 01:56 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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No, just me not them. 
i think most guys would be down to have multiple girlfriends. but i doubt that most girls would be for some reason.
i think that Mormons do this type of thing.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: LayYouIn]
#7820177 - 01/01/08 02:01 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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one bitch is hard enough to maintain.. much less a couple/few..
am i right fellas?
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That's your problem right there. You're maintaining a bitch. Stop entering into relationships with bitches and you will no longer have a need to "maintain" them.
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drkrobotnik said: one bitch is hard enough to maintain.. much less a couple/few..
am i right fellas?
i disagree. i've never really had a hard time keeping a girlfriend happy, it's usually the other way around. the only problem i had when i once had two girlfriends, is one found out and flipped out. if they were cool with it and didn't cheat, it would be really nice. seems more natural.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: DNKYD]
#7820190 - 01/01/08 02:06 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Having a relationship with one woman is hard enough, why more?
I shudder to think of it.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Asante]
#7820211 - 01/01/08 02:14 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I would LIKE to have more then one girl in my life, but, I don't think it's morally right so to speak. I'm more of a one girl guy.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Nibin]
#7820226 - 01/01/08 02:19 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Nibin said: 5 PMSs happening at the same time (women who live together eventually synchronize their periods)
i have always wondered if that was true.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Nibin]
#7820233 - 01/01/08 02:22 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Nibin said: 5 PMSs happening at the same time (women who live together eventually synchronize their periods)
oh god, didn't think of that. i guess i could take a vacation once a month.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Asante]
#7820298 - 01/01/08 02:45 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yes. It would definitely something I would be into, and it is something which I have tried, though without success.
I think that it would be a very rare situation to find multiple partners who were both attracted to one another AND emotionally mature enough to handle polygamy (multiple marriage) or polyamory (multiple lovers). I know that it is entirely possible to love more than one person at the same time, and it is definitely possible (and likely) to be attracted to more than one person at the same time.
It would have to be accepted for everyone involved to pursue other partners. The Mormons & certain Arabic cultures use polygamy against women, IMO. It's all about property and acquisition, not about openness and sharing and MAXIMIZING everyone's experience of being alive.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Asante]
#7820319 - 01/01/08 02:54 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Personally id like to give it a shot. I picture the experience being that of a family togetherness but at an intimate level, which sounds like an interesting situation to me.
Honestly I never even thought about it until an ex girlfriend of mine started talking about it. She was down to try it for a while, but then she fell in love and demanded that she be dominate over the other women ect.. She was just much too jealous to pull it off.
I have had a few threesomes, and I enjoyed them a lot. But It would have been much more enjoyable if I had a deep connection with the second women like I did with my gf.
If anyone has any real knowledge about how to pull something like this together, id love to pick your brain about it.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: DNKYD]
#7820603 - 01/01/08 04:05 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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DNKYD said: That's your problem right there. You're maintaining a bitch. Stop entering into relationships with bitches and you will no longer have a need to "maintain" them.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Asante]
#7820697 - 01/01/08 04:42 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Nope, not for me. If other's like it, though, it doesn't bother me (as long as they're not in a relationship with me).
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Asante]
#7820886 - 01/01/08 05:38 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Polygamy sounds like a good idea, but it rarely works out. People aren't meant to fuck other people in front of their partner, they are meant to fuck other people behind their partners back.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: fapjack]
#7821254 - 01/01/08 07:20 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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fapjack said: they are meant to fuck other people behind their partners back.

it's true.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Mojo]
#7822816 - 01/02/08 07:26 AM (16 years, 30 days ago) |
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Veritas said: Yes. It would definitely something I would be into, and it is something which I have tried, though without success.
I think that it would be a very rare situation to find multiple partners who were both attracted to one another AND emotionally mature enough to handle polygamy (multiple marriage) or polyamory (multiple lovers). I know that it is entirely possible to love more than one person at the same time, and it is definitely possible (and likely) to be attracted to more than one person at the same time.
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Mojo said: Personally id like to give it a shot. I picture the experience being that of a family togetherness but at an intimate level, which sounds like an interesting situation to me.
Exactly my feelings. In fact, I've been seeing several women at the same time most of my adult life and the one thing that always felt unnatural was having to hide it, since what I'd actually want is to be open about it and for every one to enjoy each other's company naturally, but alas in our society this is hardly possible. And yes, polyamory is real, even tho when negated by society at large.
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Veritas]
#7822825 - 01/02/08 07:32 AM (16 years, 30 days ago) |
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Veritas said: It would have to be accepted for everyone involved to pursue other partners. The Mormons & certain Arabic cultures use polygamy against women, IMO. It's all about property and acquisition, not about openness and sharing and MAXIMIZING everyone's experience of being alive.
BTW is has often been argued whether in fact polygamy in the Mormon sense is in fact a worse scenario to be in for the man than the women.
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David Friedman and Steve Sailer have argued that polygamy tends to benefit most women and disadvantage most men. Friedman uses this viewpoint to argue in favor of legalizing polygamy, while Sailer uses it to argue against legalizing it. The idea is firstly that many women would prefer half or one third of someone especially appealing to being the single spouse of someone that doesn't provide as much economic utility to them. Secondly, that the remaining women have a better market for finding a spouse themselves. Say that 20% of women are married to 10% of men, that leaves 90% of men to compete over the remaining 80% of women.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy#Current_proponents_and_opponents
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Veritas]
#7822951 - 01/02/08 09:10 AM (16 years, 30 days ago) |
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Veritas said: The Mormons & certain Arabic cultures use polygamy against women, IMO.
Not to side-track things too much but my roommate's been inviting the mormons over for some religious conversings lately and it sounds like they don't really practice that any more. I think it was officially banned in 1890. At least that's what I gather from this.
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Asante
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Re: Polygamy - is it you? [Re: Riboflavin]
#7822955 - 01/02/08 09:15 AM (16 years, 30 days ago) |
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There isn't one mormon church, there are several, all with their own interpretation.
The Common Door To Door Mormon you can spot by the black nametag and the bicycle helmet typically is of the LDS Church variety, the Church Of Jesus Christ Of The Latter-Day Saints, which is the major sect, and they indeed renounced polygamy a long time ago.
I have a tripping friend who is LDS. He's working towards LSD though. That sir is one cool friend
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