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fantasylndvictm
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I have a question for the guys...
#7812167 - 12/29/07 11:54 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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One of my friends and I were talkin bout sex and how men rarely ever make any noise ya kno moanin groanin ect. Why is this? Do u guys try not to make noise or is it just really hard to get u to want to make noise? Or what?
All I kno is I think it's a huge turn on when guys make noise. It makes me get into it so much more.
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i think the sensation is somewhat more intense for women
personally, i think the best feeeling from it is afterwards, what with the no-hornines and the endorphin rush
though with my gf if we get REALLY in it ill start making noise, but much less than her of course
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Cakes
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It's just not a natural thing for me to do. If I did it it would be forced.
I think guys might also see it as a more feminine trait and stray away from it for that reason.
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Other than talking dirty, I just don't ever feel the urge to make noise.
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Cakes]
#7812221 - 12/30/07 12:09 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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you just need to tease and play with him til he does make noise... that will get it started and get him comfortable making noise and you'll be surprised.
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fantasylndvictm
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: wolfiexiii]
#7812232 - 12/30/07 12:12 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Hrmm these all make sense ....so wolf if u make a guy feel comfortable makin noise they'll do it more often?
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Cakes
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I'm not Wolf, but I would say probably.
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Cakes
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Cakes]
#7812261 - 12/30/07 12:19 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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You could also try mentioning it in a a subtle, sexy way, that you like it. Most guys really enjoy pleasing their girls.
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Divinatory
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i always makes noises  i like the reaction i get when i do it. it makes the experience more intimate, and more primitive, which i like
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LayYouIn
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im the strong silent type. 
i've actually faked orgasms before, no joke.
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: LayYouIn]
#7812388 - 12/30/07 12:57 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I try to make sex as un-enjoyable as possible for the female.
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fantasylndvictm
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Divinatory]
#7812432 - 12/30/07 01:23 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Divinatory said: i always makes noises  i like the reaction i get when i do it. it makes the experience more intimate, and more primitive, which i like
More guys should think like u.
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Divinatory
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haha well thank you!
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I guess growing up and having to keep quiet when jerking off means you don't usually make noise. That and I'm a quiet person anyway. I'd only moan softly to let the girl know I actually enjoy whatever she's doing, but definitely no loud screaming and hysterics.
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fantasylndvictm
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Sheepish]
#7812621 - 12/30/07 04:16 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well thats good u kno to let the girl know that shes doin soim right. I wouldn't expect a guy to go into hysterics but a lil noise at least wouldn't hurt wit a lil moan mixed in and whatnot.
The being quiet when u jerk off is a good point tho...
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They always sound fake and forced (probably coz they are), and even irritating when a girl makes them. I have no interest in being a faker. And girls faking orgasms is one of the more stupid things on the earth, I don't see any positive reason for it. Girls do it because they've been trained to, because they think it's expected of them. I find nothing attractive about that.
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Divinatory]
#7812674 - 12/30/07 05:29 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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and more primitive, which i like
Yeah, I like to club them over the head and drag em to my cave for good humpin.
Do girls make noise for fun? Or is it something causing the noise like pain or something?
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Disco Cat]
#7812675 - 12/30/07 05:31 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Disco Cat said: girls faking orgasms is one of the more stupid things on the earth ..... they do it because they've been trained to, because they think it's expected of them
I dunno...I think women typically do that shit when they're not really feeling it anyway, and they're just trying to get the guy to stop
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Muppet]
#7812678 - 12/30/07 05:36 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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oh...and to the OP:
I just think that moaning doesn't come natural for men like it does for women
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JacquesCousteau
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Muppet]
#7812684 - 12/30/07 05:48 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Muppet said: oh...and to the OP:
I just think that moaning doesn't come natural for men like it does for women
I disagree... I think it's a little deeper than that.
It doesn't come natural to men because men have been more heavily programmed by societal taboos when it coems to expressions of pleasure.
In other words, women are often better at feeling pleasure and expressing it freely without inhibition.
Men, on the other hand, often start their sexual "career" with a lot of inhibition about self-expression due to societal pressures and conditioning that tells us (see aboev) that it isn't natural for men to express themselves this way.
I've developed this perspective after spending several years learning to let go of my inner dialogue and allow my consciousness to move from my mind to my body... moving my energy from mental to physical.
Now I make a lot of noise. It still somewhat depends on what's going on... but if i can relax (rubbing/oral) I tend to make a lot of noise. If I'm being particularly active there is probably less noise until near the end as I am concentrating solely on pleasing my partner.
You just have to go with it. Vocalizing is a way of centering your awareness in your physical body. Making noise makes the experience better... it amplifies the pleasure and betters your ability to lock onto and experience it.
P.S. The division of genders on this subject is almost irrelevant... while I am using generalizations for the sake of this thread; in actuality there are probably many women who are just inhibited about self-expression during sex.
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i only make noise when its really really fucking good. and i make a lot of noise too. it only happens say 1 in 100 times though
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Quote:
fantasylndvictm said:
All I know is I think it's a huge turn on when guys make noise. It makes me get into it so much more.
that's precisely why I make little noises during sex, I can tell it makes my girl get into it all the more. Very reciprocal. But like someone else said, just tell your dude that you like it and chances are he will do it to please you, and I don't mean faking it, all you have to do is let go... and forget that all your friends are in the next room and the walls are thin, unless that kinda thing turns you on.
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Faaip_De_Oiad]
#7812818 - 12/30/07 08:38 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm a screamer...
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Muppet
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I dunno...I remember when I first started stroking it - I wasn't trying to hide it or anything, I just didn't feel the urge to moan (that just simply wasn't something that came natural for me) but it seems to me that it's just the opposite for women - that instinctually they are predestine for such a thing
though I'll admit that there have been times when it's only natural to get a little vocal with a partner (when we're really getting into it) but it alway comes out as dirty talk, and not just random moans and groans
but that might just be me
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Muppet]
#7813023 - 12/30/07 10:21 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I kind of like for a guy to be a little vocal. Although I was seeing this guy once who when he came would go "OOOOO OOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOO!" at the top of his lungs. I just know people could hear it a block away. It threw me off so bad. I had trouble not laughing.
But some moaning and groaning and dirty talk does help you to realize they are enjoying themselves.
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: mushbaby]
#7813069 - 12/30/07 10:33 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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mushbaby said: I kind of like for a guy to be a little vocal. Although I was seeing this guy once who when he came would go "OOOOO OOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOO!" at the top of his lungs. I just know people could hear it a block away. It threw me off so bad. I had trouble not laughing.
But some moaning and groaning and dirty talk does help you to realize they are enjoying themselves.
I had a girl do that to me once. If I ever saw her again I would've had to say something. As far as noise I talk sometimes, and I may let out an exhasutive sigh or two which may be more of a panting. Sometimes I let out a nice but short Mmm sound, but more often it I have a physical response. There really is no natural noise reaction. And forcing something that isn't there isn't a turn on.
But I know as far as noise that the right sounds can be a huge turn on. I once was with a girl that insisted I smack the shit out of her ass. Which is was fine, I didn't think it would do much for me until her physical reaction along with the noise she made. Largely it was the look of submission in her eyes that I really loved. She was fun, but crazy so she had to go. Her being fat didn't help her case to much, but certifiably crazy is where I have to draw the line.
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I have no idea why guys don't make noise. I just don't feel the need to make any noise.
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: C20H25N3O]
#7813161 - 12/30/07 10:58 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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C20H25N3O said: As far as noise I talk sometimes, and I may let out an exhasutive sigh or two which may be more of a panting. Sometimes I let out a nice but short Mmm sound, but more often it I have a physical response. There really is no natural noise reaction.
yeah...that sounds about right, actually
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Re: I have a question for the guys... [Re: Learyfan]
#7813344 - 12/30/07 11:51 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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What sort of noises shud we make?
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