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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: debianlinux]
#7809723 - 12/29/07 03:46 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't really flirt, I'm in a long term relationship but I can see how flirting would give you the emotional experience you might want from the opposite sex without doing anything bad. I guess I would flirt a little if I could actually talk to girls without being shy and awkward.
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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: LayYouIn]
#7809854 - 12/29/07 07:12 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Flirting has a purpose....it's like a pre-sex game....a warm-up....the purpose is a smoother introduction to something that will follow...
Of course it feels great, cos it tickles your imagination, and prepares your mind and body for something that would normaly happen if your current reality wouldn't reject.
For me it's like rollling a fatty without smoking it. lol, i mean, shure it helps your relationship since the law of jealousy makes your partner love you more when he/she thinks you are a very popular person....
...but the ego boosting qualities of flirting could be more destructive to us than what it seems on the surface. During a successful flirt you always get your ego inflated. This not only takes you far away from your ability to feel the cosmic love that surrounds us, but also manages to block the energy flow within your relationship, since even the smalest sexual transaction with another individual is felt by the hyper-sensitive network of subconscious receptors.
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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: Sterile]
#7851732 - 01/09/08 12:40 AM (16 years, 24 days ago) |
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Sterile said: Flirting has a purpose....it's like a pre-sex game....a warm-up....the purpose is a smoother introduction to something that will follow...
Of course it feels great, cos it tickles your imagination, and prepares your mind and body for something that would normaly happen if your current reality wouldn't reject.
For me it's like rollling a fatty without smoking it. lol, i mean, shure it helps your relationship since the law of jealousy makes your partner love you more when he/she thinks you are a very popular person....
...but the ego boosting qualities of flirting could be more destructive to us than what it seems on the surface. During a successful flirt you always get your ego inflated. This not only takes you far away from your ability to feel the cosmic love that surrounds us, but also manages to block the energy flow within your relationship, since even the smalest sexual transaction with another individual is felt by the hyper-sensitive network of subconscious receptors.
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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: LayYouIn]
#7852758 - 01/09/08 09:23 AM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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I agree with omr and moth on this one.
Flirting is healthy
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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: Spooge]
#7852800 - 01/09/08 09:37 AM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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A little healthy competition can get people off better. Go out to the bar with your GF and flirt all night, but know in the end, you will win.
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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: Prisoner#1]
#7853310 - 01/09/08 12:12 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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debianlinux said: i find it far more invigorating to flirt with the same sex. it dispels the jealousy factor but still showcases the flirt.
most men arent secure enough to flirt with the same sex
Me and a buddy of mine usualy greet eachother with a 'hey sexy'. Most girls giggle at this kind of shit. You know its a joke, and they know it. A bit of flirting from both sides will keep the relationship exiting to an extent. So I will agree, flirting can be healthy.
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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: LayYouIn]
#7853444 - 01/09/08 12:46 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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I think flirting is healthy for relationships because it is a confidence booster. It keeps the head right and keeps the couple from completely depending on the other for that boost. You being attractive to her friends is important to her, whether she admits it or not. Though I have high respect for women... Very few are mature enough to think for themself. She wants her friends to approve of her catch. Flirting can definitely improve your image with her friends.
(there is a difference between a friendly flirt and a 'I want some pussy' flirt.)
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Re: Article: Why Flirting Can Help Your Relationship [Re: LayYouIn]
#7853457 - 01/09/08 12:49 PM (16 years, 23 days ago) |
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