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blkjkrabbit

Registered: 07/22/07
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some lady advice - help out a young lad
#7794721 - 12/24/07 03:19 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Hey everyone - I'm in such good spirits lately. So my life with people is becoming awesome, I'm making more friends than I could ever dream of way back when. I'm also meeting the most women ever, many of whom I actually dig quite a bit. I've had so many dark brooding periods in my past that I'm so glad I can share some of my spirit for life with people! Anywho - on to my question. So last night we threw a party at my house, plenty of beer - many, many old friends home on christmas break hung out, and of course the ladies. This one girl I was familiar with back in high school turned out real, real sexy. So we'd been hitting it off all night, and I was having a really great time. We go upstairs and start making out, I'm feeling her up a little too at this point. A little later, she has to split and I let her leave, I figure she'll be back - she's my neighbor [7 houses down ] and what do you FUCKIN know it?! She's been calling/texting me all day at work, and I never even gave her my number [a buddy must've]. Now I've never in my life been called up by a chick to hang out, let alone such an amazingly beautiful one. So my question is, am I reading these signs right? If she's calling and we only made out a little, I feel like I have the green light to ask her out? I've fucked up things that have started like this by having sex the first night, and have found there is no passion in the personality if you have sex right away...Anyways - just a 20 year old looking for some salty vets advice  
edit: on a funny, unrelated side note. today was the first day i have been hit on by a gay man. he was a black dude, mid 20s, and he works at microsoft - we were hittin shit off talking about comedy so i guess he thought i might have been gay or something hahaha anyway i thought it was ironic to write that as well, considering my prior question. i figured i'd call him up though and see about hooking me up with a job at the microsoft plantation 
Edited by blkjkrabbit (12/24/07 03:22 AM)
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Irishdrunk
Democracy? We Deliver!!!


Registered: 09/12/03
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Re: some lady advice - help out a young lad [Re: blkjkrabbit]
#7794724 - 12/24/07 03:23 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Take it smooth, ask her out after xmas, take her somewhere nice. You'll know where to go from there, bad or good.
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vinsue
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Re: some lady advice - help out a young lad [Re: Irishdrunk]
#7794739 - 12/24/07 03:36 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
blkjkrabbit said:great time. We go upstairs and So my question is, am I reading these signs right?
...yea, seems obvious. ASK HER OUT,(or the gay guy) Looks like they both want it. Good advise from Irishdrunk also...
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blkjkrabbit

Registered: 07/22/07
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Re: some lady advice - help out a young lad [Re: vinsue]
#7794741 - 12/24/07 03:50 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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thanks guys, good advice. i figured i was reading everything right, but i mean she had some to drink and so did i, but we only made out a little so i figure that's the perfect balance between not too physical and just enough to keep her interested. she seems down though, i'll try to get some coffee with her after xmas or somethin for sure though and go to a beach or somethin.
times like these are what make me appreciate my brooding, more dark periods. times that are tough build all that character up, it's what helps me shine more vibrantly with other people. always back to yin/yang 
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