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JoseLibrado
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A thought about Anger.
#7784643 - 12/21/07 06:40 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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When you openly accept to express your anger towards and individual, you assume that they are completly responsible for having the desire to believe.
I say this because anything that an individual does that seems to cause you to be angry has completly to do with their beliefs and the following actions that arise. Ie/ An insult or slap in the face, begins with the belief that it is the best and only decision worth acting on.
I do not claim to see anger as negative, but rather as a sign that something is negative in your environment. That something is easily mistaken as the person, but in this we assume the person is at fault for having to believe what is true about relating with someone.
When I feel anger towards something, it is my habit to express that anger to the person, by means of loud shouting(instills fear) or at final resort fists or psychic powers. However, i have succesfully stepped back one time for sure, the other were moments of indecision that had to do with me justifying an expression of anger towards the person, simply because i feel like it is right and true. I began to express my anger towards the thought that was causing her to believe that worms were not to be in the fridge, because they were nasty. haha
The other times are much harder and i believe we have picked up this habit from our parents and wacthing cultural expressions of truth, like batman and superman, that express good vs evil, whereas the evil dude is completly responsible for being evil, because thats just the way it is.
It fun to step out of it and realize that your anger is largly created by your own way of thinking about what is happening. I know in some instances it seems impossible to express anger towards the thought that caused this guy to bring a fist to your face hard, in which if i have no choice, i will fight that thought physically.
I like fighting becuase it shows how strong you are.
Though i tend to believe and feel this, it is an outcome of a reality that is based in assuming that we are our potentials, capacities, our can's and can nots. I do not readily consider myself a potential, but i have been in the habit of believing i am my abilities for so long that the reality is imprinted like a stain on my brain, after cleaning up the mess haha.
-------------------- The mind is a creative tool. It searches to protect you, through message sensations(feelings). It is no different than a computer, you need to make sure its anti-virus program is in check and that it doesnt have a script that limits your experience, because of to much precaution. And remember the computer does not appear to respond to words of anger and frustration - just give it input, in the form of new meanings that you know to be true and its messages to you and the limits it lays out for you, will change. Guilt is an outcome of believing you are the cause of the problems. Yet, we are not a cause to something, we see is negative or bad - Unless you believe your intentions are directed towards a bad outcome....
Edited by JoseLibrado (12/21/07 09:54 AM)
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: JoseLibrado]
#7784679 - 12/21/07 07:10 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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holy hell!!!! is that paint? its ok to get angry about that lol. teach your kids some discipline.
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: wortiesbo]
#7784990 - 12/21/07 10:00 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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lol it might be my kids. But its good to understand what it is you should discipline, in relation to what it is needs to stop happening.
Hitting the kid wont discipline him, but cause him to crave power, as he see's its the only thing that counts, when he see's that hitting you doesnt do anything.
-------------------- The mind is a creative tool. It searches to protect you, through message sensations(feelings). It is no different than a computer, you need to make sure its anti-virus program is in check and that it doesnt have a script that limits your experience, because of to much precaution. And remember the computer does not appear to respond to words of anger and frustration - just give it input, in the form of new meanings that you know to be true and its messages to you and the limits it lays out for you, will change. Guilt is an outcome of believing you are the cause of the problems. Yet, we are not a cause to something, we see is negative or bad - Unless you believe your intentions are directed towards a bad outcome....
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: JoseLibrado]
#7785050 - 12/21/07 10:26 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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When I start to get angry about something I remind myself that we are all innocent in our own minds. When someone does something that angers you, as you've said, they thought it was the correct decision to make, they have justified it in their minds. That path leads me to remembering that being angry and throwing insults is not productive, if I don't like what the person did all I can do is tell them what I think was a better idea and depending on the situation (fatherhood, employer -> employee) discipline them accordingly.
If they continue to anger me, I just don't let it get to me. The way I look at it is people don't piss me off, I let them piss me off. Whatever it is they have done to anger me is already done, so there is no point in throwing a fit. For example, if someone who I generally dislike breaks something of mine, instead of calling him a fucking idiot and grieving over it, I'll tell them to respect my shit or get out of my house (Note: This is how I would like to behave, this is much easier in theory than it is in practice). Suffering is due to attachment, sure whatever it is is now broken, but it is useless now so if I can throw away my attachment to it, my greiving will end, and I will no longer feel angry.
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: Bernackums]
#7785069 - 12/21/07 10:36 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I do enjoy that it is harder to be within the prespective that you are creating what is making you angry.
It seems like prespective is what creates the things that we see and the things that we see create an inevitable feeling.
We are ultimate creators of reality, of everything. Though creation is an ability and it is nice to recall that you are not completly responsible for lacking creation of your feelings, becauce response-ability is something we develope, it is a potential we expand.
It is also that without our capacity to not live up to our potential to create, that is beneficial to our capacity to experience ourselves as creators. Yin and Yang.
-------------------- The mind is a creative tool. It searches to protect you, through message sensations(feelings). It is no different than a computer, you need to make sure its anti-virus program is in check and that it doesnt have a script that limits your experience, because of to much precaution. And remember the computer does not appear to respond to words of anger and frustration - just give it input, in the form of new meanings that you know to be true and its messages to you and the limits it lays out for you, will change. Guilt is an outcome of believing you are the cause of the problems. Yet, we are not a cause to something, we see is negative or bad - Unless you believe your intentions are directed towards a bad outcome....
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: JoseLibrado]
#7785519 - 12/21/07 12:55 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i dont think there is an I that creates everything alot of anomalies going down around here, it would take eveything and forever to even break open a minute fraction of its complexity
anger, feelings of anger, yah they come, just eruptions of energy, tearing deconstructive hatred, sometimes i feel empty afterwards, sometimes not, sometimes i notice its not needed theres no refinement of philosophy, and i guess there is hey lots of anomalies goin down around here
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: krin]
#7786368 - 12/21/07 05:13 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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what does anomolies mean?
-------------------- The mind is a creative tool. It searches to protect you, through message sensations(feelings). It is no different than a computer, you need to make sure its anti-virus program is in check and that it doesnt have a script that limits your experience, because of to much precaution. And remember the computer does not appear to respond to words of anger and frustration - just give it input, in the form of new meanings that you know to be true and its messages to you and the limits it lays out for you, will change. Guilt is an outcome of believing you are the cause of the problems. Yet, we are not a cause to something, we see is negative or bad - Unless you believe your intentions are directed towards a bad outcome....
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: JoseLibrado]
#7786668 - 12/21/07 06:46 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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well you know when your sitting there and then suddenly BLAGAHGIUY!HJK!HJK!HKJ!HKJ!HKJ! you realize that IM SITTING HERE?!
thats an anomaly
hmm what else...oh yes, language, mouth noises echoing over landscapes of transforming existence, thats a wierd one
I could go on and on, being an anomaly itself. And myself and not
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: krin]
#7786678 - 12/21/07 06:49 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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And may I ask what's not weird?
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well not feeling something as wierd usually incites a non-wierd experience, enjoy all and around! Merry fuckin' Christmas everyone!
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: krin]
#7786765 - 12/21/07 07:18 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Joy does not necessarily equate with the presence of feeling weird
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Tell that to somebody who feels really wierd, you'll just fuck his day right up, or you wont
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Re: A thought about Anger. [Re: krin]
#7787004 - 12/21/07 08:15 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Huh?
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