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Girlfriend with an over active sex drive
#7780695 - 12/20/07 07:55 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Or maybe I have an under-active sex drive?
Actually that is pretty much the case. I'm fine only having sex like once a week...she isn't, she would rather have sex every day.
I have told her to just say when she wants sex...but she says that is a mood killer. Problem is, I just plain don't notice when she is in the mood. I suppose I'm not that great at telling the emotional mood of anyone, including her.
What can I do here? More sex would be preferable...but how do I tell when she wants some?
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7780745 - 12/20/07 08:30 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i do have the EXACT same situation, except for her telling me when she wants some action or letting me know otherwise 
once a week would be perfectly fine for me, however she sees things different.
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: ohmatic]
#7780822 - 12/20/07 08:56 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Personally, I think having sex everyday kind of takes the fun out of it. Like every 3 days is good, give more or less depending on the mood.
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: ilus]
#7780889 - 12/20/07 09:20 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I have always hated sex before bed I am a morning kinda guy I like to roll over and hit it
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: ilus]
#7780912 - 12/20/07 09:31 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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illustrain said: Personally, I think having sex everyday kind of takes the fun out of it. Like every 3 days is good, give more or less depending on the mood.
this is good ! ill tell her that !
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: ohmatic]
#7784370 - 12/21/07 02:45 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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if she starts kissing you and attempts to be aggressive perhaps? or if she gives you "the look". cmon now we're guys, sex everyday wouldn't be bad. although, if I were in a relationship and wanted to keep it healthy, i would definitely be against sex EVERY SINGLE day. having a horny girl isn't so bad, although my preference would be a nicer girl without a lot of sex drive because based on experience women WITH a lot sex drive would lead me to think they have always been like that and would possibly cheat. although i'm a little fucked up in the head...
basically, try and satisfy her needs. fuck her brains out and, she'll start to pass out and you won't have to worry
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7789051 - 12/22/07 01:24 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Does she send you any signals at all, or does she just expect you to know? Maybe she needs to be more obvious.
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: NiamhNyx]
#7789828 - 12/22/07 05:09 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i guess im lucky. my woman just goes for it when she wants it. shes an old friend who used to hang out with "the guys", shes always been kind of a tom-boy(one hot tomboy though), always acted very unlike your typical girl. when it comes to sex, shes like me, if she wants it, she either comes right out and says it, or she will grab my junk, or start rubbing it, pretty much as out in the open as she could be. i love it.
as a matter of fact, i think that the most subtle she is when she wants sex is, either she will pop in a porno and get naked, or shell put on something sexy
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7789867 - 12/22/07 05:17 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Once a day sounds like a healthy sex drive, not overactive
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7793287 - 12/23/07 05:31 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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A fuckin right My girl won't pop in porno but likewise, she tends to just grab the junk and lead me to it... the fact she has my shit gives me a painful displeaser if I don't 'go with it' as she continues to move lol.. Either that, or she hops on top and starts ridin it. She likes when I take control though Dude, suck it up and fuck it :p
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: hightimesreader]
#7799789 - 12/25/07 11:57 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i know how she feels man. im a sex addict. bad habbit. my gf hates it.
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Squirrel_Nugs]
#7799856 - 12/26/07 12:19 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Squirrel_Nugs said: i know how she feels man. im a sex addict. bad habbit. my gf hates it.
Maybe you should exchange partners
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: MushroomTrip]
#7800863 - 12/26/07 01:06 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I haven't got laid for months, damn you whiney bastards with your horny gfs!
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7807408 - 12/28/07 01:19 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Anonymous said: Or maybe I have an under-active sex drive?
Actually that is pretty much the case. I'm fine only having sex like once a week...she isn't, she would rather have sex every day.
I have told her to just say when she wants sex...but she says that is a mood killer. Problem is, I just plain don't notice when she is in the mood. I suppose I'm not that great at telling the emotional mood of anyone, including her.
What can I do here? More sex would be preferable...but how do I tell when she wants some?
If you don't notice when she is in the mood then you are a little self-obsessed IMO. Maybe she just wants you to get out of your head and into hers a little more.
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Icelander]
#7807893 - 12/28/07 04:23 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Icelander said:
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Anonymous said: Or maybe I have an under-active sex drive?
Actually that is pretty much the case. I'm fine only having sex like once a week...she isn't, she would rather have sex every day.
I have told her to just say when she wants sex...but she says that is a mood killer. Problem is, I just plain don't notice when she is in the mood. I suppose I'm not that great at telling the emotional mood of anyone, including her.
What can I do here? More sex would be preferable...but how do I tell when she wants some?
If you don't notice when she is in the mood then you are a little self-obsessed IMO. Maybe she just wants you to get out of your head and into hers a little more.
Lawlz.. What are you a girl or something? 
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: hightimesreader]
#7813857 - 12/30/07 02:26 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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No, I'm just not a moron.;)
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Icelander]
#7814107 - 12/30/07 03:44 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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man u guys are underactive i fuck at least 3x a day and when i was a freshman itd be like 10 i remember my dick would hurt at the end of the day from overuse hahahahahah good times
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Coaster]
#7815167 - 12/30/07 08:50 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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1 word
FART
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7815604 - 12/31/07 12:04 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I know my girlfriend goes through huge phases or sexual/non sexual activity.
Once, she was the horniest girl you'd ever meet. It was AWESOME.
Then a month or two later, she didn't want to at all. IT WAS TERRIBLE.
Now its pretty steady. So, you probably just have to wait it out. It's like the tide. Except it makes your penis happy or sad.
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Re: Girlfriend with an over active sex drive [Re: Drewwyann]
#7816097 - 12/31/07 06:59 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Basically... But my girl freind can't get it on more than 2-3 times cuz HER PUSSY hurts.. not MY DICK... I could probably do it 4-5 times if I have enough blood 
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