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Anonymous #1

dating those with low self esteem.
    #7774272 - 12/18/07 03:37 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Have you ever dated a girl with really low self-esteem just because you tell her what to do? Are you providing valuable guidance? Or is it simply a matter of taking advantage of a weaker person?

After you recognize that you have so much influence on a person is it wrong to exercise said influence to the benefit of both parties? Not in any violent, or sexual way, but if you genuinely want to help a person, does it matter how much influence you have over their oppinion?


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Re: dating those with low self esteem. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7774340 - 12/18/07 03:56 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Couples are meant to put power together, not make one person the dictator.


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Re: dating those with low self esteem. [Re: todesengel]
    #7775373 - 12/18/07 08:21 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

You shouldn't try to change a person or exercise your influence though.

My greatest relationships have been with shy girls, not because I try to manipulate them, but because I am shy myself and we have a very easy time relating to one another. That is much different from what you said though.


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Re: dating those with low self esteem. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7777510 - 12/19/07 12:34 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

fuck that... Only go out with a girl if you really like eachother. Sounds like you have some other motives otherwise you wouldn't even be thinking about this


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Re: dating those with low self esteem. [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #7777821 - 12/19/07 02:09 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

i'm not going to say it's right to manipulate someone or tell them to/make them do things, but if someone is willingly being or allowing themselves to be controlled, i wouldn't say it's wrong either

personally, i wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that. i'd rather date someone fairly mature who can make their own decisions, not someone who is like a child (in that manner)


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