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Dreamer987
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Are you in Love?
#7773591 - 12/18/07 12:14 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Do you currently, or have you ever loved somebody, who you wouldn't consider family, or friend?
I love my girlfriend, and its one of the best, and most aggravating experiences of my life.
My first love was more fiery, and passionate, but that was just puppy love. It only lasted 3-4 months.
This ones been over 3 years, and i don't ever see myself being with anybody else.
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OneMoreRobot3021



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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773597 - 12/18/07 12:15 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've been in love with a girl for four and a half years...we just broke up, but that doesn't mean I love her any less than I did before.
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Dreamer987
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Yea, we were doing the on again, off again thing a few times recently. Only made me love her more.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773618 - 12/18/07 12:23 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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yes i love
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773650 - 12/18/07 12:34 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yes, I have and I do. Like you, my first full throttle relationship was more "fiery and passionate", and it lasted the better part of two years. After a dry spell of some years, I happened to meet another woman that I have now spent the last 15 months with (8 of them living together). I love her completely (though I do not agree with all her ideals and motivations), and it is quite simply the most comfortable and secure feeling to have someone to be so intimate with. But again like you, I am taunted with a tinge of aggravation. I can't say if it's for the same reasons, suffice it to say that love is an incredibly powerful, at times debilitating emotion. In its throes, the mind may cause us to do stupid things or otherwise act irrationally. Regardless of any often self-imposed drawbacks, it is definitely worthy of the associated trials and tribulations!
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773657 - 12/18/07 12:37 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Last time I was in love was about 5 years ago. It was a long-distance relationship, so it was doomed to fail. I guess I should say we broke up 5 years ago. I still love her, though we're just friends now.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773663 - 12/18/07 12:38 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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In it? I'm fucking drowning in it. Throw me a life raft...
Edited by JacquesCousteau (12/18/07 12:43 PM)
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danlennon3
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: notapillow]
#7773665 - 12/18/07 12:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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notapillow said: yes i love
me too, I'm just not in love at the moment. The phrase-in love just puts me in a negative head space.brings back some painful memories. But I do my best to to love and care for other people even though I feel mostly emptiness inside I need to start loving myself before trying to go ahead and love someone else. This time of year is the toughest because it brings back a lot of negative feelings. It's good to know I have the support of the shroomery in times like this:) I love all of you, even you pricks
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773672 - 12/18/07 12:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Newbie]
#7773679 - 12/18/07 12:42 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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NewbieShroomie said: I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
That's not love. That's dependence. Common misunderstanding.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Silversoul]
#7773688 - 12/18/07 12:43 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Never thought about it that way.
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Dreamer987
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Silversoul]
#7773737 - 12/18/07 01:00 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Silversoul said:
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NewbieShroomie said: I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
That's not love. That's dependence. Common misunderstanding.
sometimes its hard to tell the differance.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773743 - 12/18/07 01:01 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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That actually helps....a LOT! Thanks for that.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773762 - 12/18/07 01:08 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Been in love with a couple chicks shit just makes me crazy last one wasnt too bad but the two before her were crazy drama filled relationships
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773788 - 12/18/07 01:19 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Dreamer987 said:
Quote:
Silversoul said:
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NewbieShroomie said: I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
That's not love. That's dependence. Common misunderstanding.
sometimes its hard to tell the differance.
While you're in it, yes. In hindsight, not really.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Silversoul]
#7773869 - 12/18/07 01:37 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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4 year girlfriend just broke up
i love her, just certain things get fucking annoying as hell sometimes.
but yeah, i think love is a good word
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773874 - 12/18/07 01:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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No but I'm infactuated with almost every girl I meet
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: tak]
#7773876 - 12/18/07 01:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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root-ninja-tak said: 4 year girlfriend just broke up
i love her, just certain things get fucking annoying as hell sometimes.
but yeah, i think love is a good word
YEah man I read your thread about this in PMHWB forum...very similar situation for me here. 4 and a half years and then suddenly realized that as much as I love her there are things I want/need out of a relationship I couldn't get from her..
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i fell in "love" with this girl who started hanging out with me while i was tripping at haight. she was most blessed spirit i'd ever seen 
she took me to the drum circles which she was a part of, told me the history of the "janis joplin tree" at the hill, and kept offering to buy weed but i knew she wasn't too well off so i told her i'm fine. i've never seen someone be so kind to a stranger and go out of their own way to try to make them have the best trip they possibly can.
she didn't have a phone or anything so i completely lost touch with her.
i don't know if you call that true love, but i sure as hell wish i could spend another day with her.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: razmablues]
#7774071 - 12/18/07 02:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I met this girl who was perfect in every way possible. I was instantly attracted to her but I knew for a fact that she wouldn't go out with me. And the reason is because, me... I wasn't prepared to get in a relationship at that point in time. When I feel both mentally and physically better, I will be ready to make that leap and ask her out.
I'm not the kinda guy who goes to bars and tries to screw every girl. I have to first be emotionally attached to her before I hook up with her. This is why I don't get laid! The girl I want to be with is only 1 in a million...and I'm not shallow, I just don't want to get into a false relationship.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: danlennon3]
#7774097 - 12/18/07 02:45 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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yep. im in love. a year and a half now. the last one was 3 years, we broke up on our 3 year lol. but what i felt for that girl doesnt even compare to this one. this one, i am going to marry. the last one, marriage only crossed my mind once. and it was doing about 70mph.
true love is the greatest human emotion.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7774120 - 12/18/07 02:50 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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leftysurprise said: true love is the greatest human emotion.
I think its a tie between true love.. and spiritual enlightenment.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7774134 - 12/18/07 02:54 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i've been in love a few times, in one case i loved the girl but she didn't love me back (even though she said she did, at the heart of it it was all superficial), the second girl i still love very dearly and we are best friends, but a relationship is just not possible with her. Now im in a relationship with someone im 99.9% sure im going to marry. I've known her for years and if she and i weren't dating at the time we met, we probably would have been together for almost 5-6 years now. She visited me in july after a few months of chatting and catching up, then she ended up moving 1/2 way across the country just to be with me.
Now im back home for the holidays while she stayed at our home in the midwest. Every day all i think about is getting back to her, things just aren't as fun without her being here, and going to sleep alone is just the weirdest fucking feeling ever. I've never been this happy in a relationship, she means almost everything to me now and it's awesome
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: coda]
#7774297 - 12/18/07 03:44 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I was in love when i was about 17 years old(was and still is my longest relationship) .. yikes. That relationship ended and it took quite awhile to get over it. The last 5-6 years i havnt had a g/f. Dont get me wrong i still had my fun, although lately theres been a horrid drought and the flood gates need to be opened up... I do want someone to love badly, the bad times they may cause are far out weighed by the good ones. I guess i just havnt stumbled upon the next best thing for me...granted i dont enjoy going out and looking either.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7774435 - 12/18/07 04:19 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i've been in love three times. it never gets easier, it never goes away and what i think is different with my lady right now is that we are both better at living life, more open to eachother and more honest than in the previous relationships. i love her and by now i do consider her to be both friend and family.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: canid]
#7774500 - 12/18/07 04:36 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i used to ove a few girls like a fat kid loves a few cheeseburgers&coke.
i could be in love with this new girl, but i need to get in closer. she would be a REALLy fun girl to be with.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: danlennon3]
#7775257 - 12/18/07 07:51 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
danlennon3 said:
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leftysurprise said: true love is the greatest human emotion.
I think its a tie between true love.. and spiritual enlightenment.
i consider enlightenment a state of mind, not an emotion. but if it were an emotion. it would def. be a tie.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7775303 - 12/18/07 08:06 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I have been in love.
But I loved the one who was, not the one who is. People do change, not always for the best.
Love is the greatest emotion of all, just don't allow it to consume you.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: danlennon3]
#7775325 - 12/18/07 08:11 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I haven't been in love in about 8 and a half years.. well maybe I was in love for a few seconds about 2 years ago. The closest i've come to the feeling of being in love is through meditating but now my back is messed up so I can't do that anymore.
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Quote:
OneLessForeskin said: I've been in love with a girl for four and a half years...we just broke up, but that doesn't mean I love her any less than I did before.
Creeper.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: spud]
#7775343 - 12/18/07 08:15 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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We were the best of friends for a long while before we were lovers.
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I thought MDMA was love but now I realize it was just the way the seratonin was flowin' to my soul
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: danlennon3]
#7775932 - 12/18/07 11:04 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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danlennon3 said: I met this girl who was perfect in every way possible. I was instantly attracted to her but I knew for a fact that she wouldn't go out with me. And the reason is because, me... I wasn't prepared to get in a relationship at that point in time. When I feel both mentally and physically better, I will be ready to make that leap and ask her out.
I'm not the kinda guy who goes to bars and tries to screw every girl. I have to first be emotionally attached to her before I hook up with her. This is why I don't get laid! The girl I want to be with is only 1 in a million...and I'm not shallow, I just don't want to get into a false relationship.
i feel the same way man its not about the coochie its about the connection and companionship
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7775987 - 12/18/07 11:27 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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once was...
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Merkin]
#7776027 - 12/18/07 11:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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i really wish i could find the right girl now.
i must be really undesirable. maybe i should take a shower.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: igwna]
#7776042 - 12/18/07 11:47 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ive been living with this girl for a year now.. yea I lover her.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7776047 - 12/18/07 11:49 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've been in fo' serious love once,and it made life heaven and hell for years. Two other times I've said it and really meant it,but life didn't let either go very far.
As for my current chick, we've been together for apparently 8-9months. She's 110% dependent on me. I often hate her. She's an Unbalanced Nut job,and completely opposite of the kind of female i like and have prided myself for only accepting.
Sometimes i feel like i could love her,but i know it isn't true, I've just let my standards drop to her level. I really can't explain it,I think i'm just too apathetic about it to force it to end,it's not something i want to deal with right now in life. It's pretty sad actually...
I'm very solitary,and have never dealt with a chick thats so insanely Dependant and up my ass. As a matter a fact the chicks I've always been down with are the exact opposite.
The human Drama is for pussies,and i became a pussy. ::Doublesad:
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7776087 - 12/19/07 12:03 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Are you in Love?
Yes.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: MOTH]
#7776398 - 12/19/07 02:48 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Add me to the Love list. It will be 9 months for us in a few days. We've lived together for about 6. And soon enough we'll be raising a child. I could talk all day about how great it is to be in love. Feels like I've beat the world. Like I won life. Nothing else matters half as much to me. Of course, there's the clincher. What scares me more than anything is the inevitable fact that someday, somehow.... it will just be one more thing I have to lose. And what a thing to live without.
But at this moment, the only moment that truly matters at this moment, there's no place I'd rather be than in her arms.
And that concludes my most emo post on this site. Please excuse me while I go listen to Dashboard Confessional and beat my head against a concrete wall.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Blend]
#7776515 - 12/19/07 05:15 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm in love. We've been together for 6 years in Feb... since 02/02/02 in fact She's the greatest thing to ever happen to me.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: danlennon3]
#7776534 - 12/19/07 05:48 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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No, I have a clear and concious mind with nothing but life on it right now.
Don't get me wrong though, i'm waiting patiently.
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: sam420]
#7776536 - 12/19/07 05:50 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Add me to the Love List as well. I never was they type to just be in a relationship to avoid the loneliness...unfortunately I was alone all the time.
I dont know how, but I was truly about to give up looking when I met someone, and i've been with them for the last 4 years . It is an amazing feeling to continue to fall deeper and deeper in love, at times when you least expect it.
OoD
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