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Dreamer987
The VerbalHerman Munster


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Are you in Love?
#7773591 - 12/18/07 12:14 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Do you currently, or have you ever loved somebody, who you wouldn't consider family, or friend?
I love my girlfriend, and its one of the best, and most aggravating experiences of my life.
My first love was more fiery, and passionate, but that was just puppy love. It only lasted 3-4 months.
This ones been over 3 years, and i don't ever see myself being with anybody else.
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OneMoreRobot3021



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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773597 - 12/18/07 12:15 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've been in love with a girl for four and a half years...we just broke up, but that doesn't mean I love her any less than I did before.
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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Dreamer987
The VerbalHerman Munster


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Yea, we were doing the on again, off again thing a few times recently. Only made me love her more.
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notapillow
I want to be a fisherman



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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773618 - 12/18/07 12:23 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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yes i love
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geokills
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773650 - 12/18/07 12:34 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yes, I have and I do. Like you, my first full throttle relationship was more "fiery and passionate", and it lasted the better part of two years. After a dry spell of some years, I happened to meet another woman that I have now spent the last 15 months with (8 of them living together). I love her completely (though I do not agree with all her ideals and motivations), and it is quite simply the most comfortable and secure feeling to have someone to be so intimate with. But again like you, I am taunted with a tinge of aggravation. I can't say if it's for the same reasons, suffice it to say that love is an incredibly powerful, at times debilitating emotion. In its throes, the mind may cause us to do stupid things or otherwise act irrationally. Regardless of any often self-imposed drawbacks, it is definitely worthy of the associated trials and tribulations!
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Silversoul
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773657 - 12/18/07 12:37 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Last time I was in love was about 5 years ago. It was a long-distance relationship, so it was doomed to fail. I guess I should say we broke up 5 years ago. I still love her, though we're just friends now.
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JacquesCousteau
Being.



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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773663 - 12/18/07 12:38 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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In it? I'm fucking drowning in it. Throw me a life raft...
Edited by JacquesCousteau (12/18/07 12:43 PM)
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danlennon3
LivingIsEasyWithEyesClosed.....



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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: notapillow]
#7773665 - 12/18/07 12:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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notapillow said: yes i love
me too, I'm just not in love at the moment. The phrase-in love just puts me in a negative head space.brings back some painful memories. But I do my best to to love and care for other people even though I feel mostly emptiness inside I need to start loving myself before trying to go ahead and love someone else. This time of year is the toughest because it brings back a lot of negative feelings. It's good to know I have the support of the shroomery in times like this:) I love all of you, even you pricks
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Newbie
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773672 - 12/18/07 12:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
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Silversoul
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Newbie]
#7773679 - 12/18/07 12:42 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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NewbieShroomie said: I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
That's not love. That's dependence. Common misunderstanding.
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Newbie
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Silversoul]
#7773688 - 12/18/07 12:43 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Never thought about it that way.
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Dreamer987
The VerbalHerman Munster


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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Silversoul]
#7773737 - 12/18/07 01:00 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Silversoul said:
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NewbieShroomie said: I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
That's not love. That's dependence. Common misunderstanding.
sometimes its hard to tell the differance.
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Newbie
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773743 - 12/18/07 01:01 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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That actually helps....a LOT! Thanks for that.
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Dobie
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773762 - 12/18/07 01:08 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Been in love with a couple chicks shit just makes me crazy last one wasnt too bad but the two before her were crazy drama filled relationships
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Silversoul
Rhizome


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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773788 - 12/18/07 01:19 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Dreamer987 said:
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Silversoul said:
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NewbieShroomie said: I'm in love with a girl that I shouldn't be, a girl that's broken my heart twice in the past, but for some reason the love is STILL there. It's like she could cut off my arm and I'd still love her. Love SUCKS.
That's not love. That's dependence. Common misunderstanding.
sometimes its hard to tell the differance.
While you're in it, yes. In hindsight, not really.
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tak
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Silversoul]
#7773869 - 12/18/07 01:37 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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4 year girlfriend just broke up
i love her, just certain things get fucking annoying as hell sometimes.
but yeah, i think love is a good word
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Ego Death
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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: Dreamer987]
#7773874 - 12/18/07 01:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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No but I'm infactuated with almost every girl I meet
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OneMoreRobot3021



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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: tak]
#7773876 - 12/18/07 01:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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root-ninja-tak said: 4 year girlfriend just broke up
i love her, just certain things get fucking annoying as hell sometimes.
but yeah, i think love is a good word
YEah man I read your thread about this in PMHWB forum...very similar situation for me here. 4 and a half years and then suddenly realized that as much as I love her there are things I want/need out of a relationship I couldn't get from her..
-------------------- Acid doesn't give you truths; it builds machines that push the envelope of perception. Whatever revelations came to me then have dissolved like skywriting. All I really know is that those few years saddled me with a faith in the redemptive potential of the imagination which, however flat, stale and unprofitable the world seems to me now, I cannot for the life of me shake. -Erik Davis
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razmablues
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i fell in "love" with this girl who started hanging out with me while i was tripping at haight. she was most blessed spirit i'd ever seen 
she took me to the drum circles which she was a part of, told me the history of the "janis joplin tree" at the hill, and kept offering to buy weed but i knew she wasn't too well off so i told her i'm fine. i've never seen someone be so kind to a stranger and go out of their own way to try to make them have the best trip they possibly can.
she didn't have a phone or anything so i completely lost touch with her.
i don't know if you call that true love, but i sure as hell wish i could spend another day with her.
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danlennon3
LivingIsEasyWithEyesClosed.....



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Re: Are you in Love? [Re: razmablues]
#7774071 - 12/18/07 02:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I met this girl who was perfect in every way possible. I was instantly attracted to her but I knew for a fact that she wouldn't go out with me. And the reason is because, me... I wasn't prepared to get in a relationship at that point in time. When I feel both mentally and physically better, I will be ready to make that leap and ask her out.
I'm not the kinda guy who goes to bars and tries to screw every girl. I have to first be emotionally attached to her before I hook up with her. This is why I don't get laid! The girl I want to be with is only 1 in a million...and I'm not shallow, I just don't want to get into a false relationship.
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