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Brugman
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I hate bad news.
#7762077 - 12/15/07 02:51 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah.. my friend phones me up at 9am this morning, telling me my good friend died last night in a car accident.
I've never had anyone close to me die.. I don't know what to feel.
Goodbye Christopher Pugh, you'll be missed..
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coda
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Brugman]
#7762090 - 12/15/07 02:56 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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sorry for your loss man. I lost my best friend 6 years ago, it is possibly one of the hardest things to go through especially if the person is close to you.
-------------------- To get really high is to forget yourself. And to forget yourself is to see everything else. And to see everything else is to become an understanding molecule in evolution, a conscious tool of the universe. And I think every human being should be a conscious tool of the universe. . . . -JG i really am glad you came back to us instead of taking the other path. *hug* -A_S (RIP your final words to me will never be forgotten)
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RandalFlagg
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Brugman]
#7762100 - 12/15/07 02:59 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sorry man. Good luck.
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Coaster
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: coda]
#7762102 - 12/15/07 02:59 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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well i dont have 7000 posts but id like 2 say RIP Chris
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LuNaTiX
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Brugman]
#7762410 - 12/15/07 04:32 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Take care of yourself, and sorry for your loss.
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LayYouIn
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Brugman]
#7762414 - 12/15/07 04:34 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Brugman said: I've never had anyone close to me die..
me either. sorry about your loss.
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Silversoul
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Brugman]
#7762418 - 12/15/07 04:35 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I usually avoid posting in threads like this because I just don't know what to say to people who are grieving. All I can say is that I'm sorry for your loss.
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Silversoul]
#7762491 - 12/15/07 04:55 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I know how you feel. Its unreal right now. A good friend of mine died 4 years ago. For weeks there wasn't a ten minutes in a stretch that I didn't think about him. It was tragic. It will be very hard for a couple of months but time heals it, you won't be broken forever.
My advice is get together with the people that loved him like you did. Talk about your memmories, the good times, the funny times, the bad times, all of it. It can really help to be with people who are dealing with the same loss as you.
Wishing you peace and wellness...
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ca'rouse (k-rouz) intr.v. To engage in boisterous, drunken merrymaking.
Edited by TODAY (12/15/07 04:56 PM)
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Legend9123



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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Brugman]
#7762566 - 12/15/07 05:18 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sorry for your loss I hope everything gets better for you.
-------------------- Those who would give up a little freedom to get a little security shall soon have neither. -Benjamin Franklin
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Leanin
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Legend9123]
#7762572 - 12/15/07 05:20 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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sorry man, was alcohol involved?
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g00ru
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: Leanin]
#7762628 - 12/15/07 05:36 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Leanin said: sorry man, was alcohol involved?
That's not really important at this point.
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ZeroBoyWD
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Re: I hate bad news. [Re: g00ru]
#7762714 - 12/15/07 05:58 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Just dont do what I did when my buddy died. He had an accidental OD at a party I was at, and I blamed myself for not being able to stop it and drank myself into a stupor to forget about it. If you don't know what to feel, it probablly hasn't fully sunk in yet. You'll be listening to a song you all liked a lot or drive by a chill spot and it'll come over you like a wave. Try not to mourn their death but celebrate their life. Honors their memory a bit more I feel.
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