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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: fireworks_god]
#7765248 - 12/16/07 12:04 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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fireworks_god said: I would have moved it to P&MHWB.
NICE.
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Icelander
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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: Muppet]
#7765537 - 12/16/07 01:14 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Muppet said: I got this bitch that I work with who's trying to get me fired right now...
a little background information on this one:
- she's a bad worker...period (for a billion reasons I'm not even going to go into right now) - she got her position by building herself up to be something she simply isn't (doing piddly little pissant shit that generally doesn't get done, while simultaneously neglecting the things that need to be taken care of) - and I helped her paint that image (because I had hoped she'd realize the errors of her way in good time)
- she got her promotion before me - I bit my tongue - everyone else resented her for it (because she didn't deserve her promotion) - and I still supported her
- management caught on to the fact that she was a pathetic employee, and put the fear of god in this woman - and she then played the pity card in order to get transfered over to days in order to save her own ass...while simultaneously booting my ass back down to nights, and taking my fucken place as 'manager-in-training' simply because she was the one that was working with the HNIC one on one during the daytime
- I still turned the other cheek
- the other employees there had their problems with her...because...she was such a power hungry twat that was constantly going out of her way to make them feel inferior about the fact they didn't have the maroon colored shirt that came with her position (nevermoind the fact that she still had yet to earn it) - and management was helping her with this (or *trying to* rather) - but she continued to go out of her way to fuck with people ----- she knew her ass was on the line ----- she knew that other people there were better then her ----- and she *knew* that it was only a matter of time before that became apparent so she abused her power / and started finding reasons to get rid of her competition
- and one by one she found ways to get rid of several different good employees (sending em home for piddly ass crap, and then building it up to be way more then what it actually was to management...and doing this sort of shit over and over and over again just to make it seem like these people are becoming problems for the company, so that they get the boot instead of her)
- and I just bit my tongue throughout all of this
my thought process at the time was that: A) it wasn't my battle to begin with and that B) if they weren't willing to put up a fight - then they weren't worth keeping around anyway
I'm sorry...but that's just how I feel
but the time's come now where she's coming after my ass now (and for reasons I can't even begin to fucken fathom on this one)
- I supported her when her ass was ina ringer - I stood up for her when nobody else fucken would - I rooted her on even when she was fucking me over royally
and now she's coming after me???
I don't even know what to do in this situation...but I can't help but feel like I gotta do *something* about it but what the fuck can I do at this point
and is it wrong for me to feel like I'm being backed into a corner on this one? (considering the depths this woman will stoop to secure her own grandiosity)
Whats wrong with your mindset is that it is geared to blaming situations and others for your problems. You have come here ranting and whining about this issue on several occasions.
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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: Icelander]
#7767950 - 12/16/07 11:43 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Icelander said: Whats wrong with your mindset is that it is geared to blaming situations and others for your problems. You have come here ranting and whining about this issue on several occasions.
so because this sort of thing has happened multiple times now - suddenly *I'm* the one with the problem here
perhaps you'd like to explain to me how exactly it is that when someone else continuously causes problems for you, that's it's somehow because YOU did something wrong
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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: Muppet]
#7768045 - 12/17/07 12:28 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Muppet said:
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Icelander said: Whats wrong with your mindset is that it is geared to blaming situations and others for your problems. You have come here ranting and whining about this issue on several occasions.
so because this sort of thing has happened multiple times now - suddenly *I'm* the one with the problem here
perhaps you'd like to explain to me how exactly it is that when someone else continuously causes problems for you, that's it's somehow because YOU did something wrong
maybe if you did something when she caused the first problem she wouldn't "continuously" cause problems for you. you are a victim of your own pussyness and have nobody to blame but yourself. stop acting like a chump and maybe other people will stop treating you like one.
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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: JG1]
#7768091 - 12/17/07 12:55 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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so when she first got employed...and she was going out of her way to do piddly little pissant fucken bullshit to give the illusion that she was doing more then she actually was actually *expected to* be doing (like cleaning the floor drains, for instance) that that was MY fucken problem???
and it was because of me that she fucken acted the way she did
riddle me this then:
why the fuck would she go out of her way to make my ass look like an absolute fucktwat on this one if that wasn't the fucken case???
cause it seems to me that this hoe is NOT on her fucken to ring to begin with with in the first place
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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: Muppet]
#7768179 - 12/17/07 01:44 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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you should probably just murder the bitch then.
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fireworks_god
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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: Muppet]
#7768249 - 12/17/07 02:48 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Muppet said: perhaps you'd like to explain to me how exactly it is that when someone else continuously causes problems for you, that's it's somehow because YOU did something wrong
It is your responsibility to resolve the matter, one way or another. If, for whatever reason, you choose to let this happen in your life, then you need to accept it and stop the whining.
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Re: what's wrong with my mindset right now [Re: fireworks_god]
#7768709 - 12/17/07 09:50 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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fireworks_god said:
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Muppet said: perhaps you'd like to explain to me how exactly it is that when someone else continuously causes problems for you, that's it's somehow because YOU did something wrong
It is your responsibility to resolve the matter, one way or another. If, for whatever reason, you choose to let this happen in your life, then you need to accept it and stop the whining.
allright...fair enough
I'll give you that one
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