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Dreamer987
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I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person
#7745178 - 12/11/07 01:53 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't think so. See after introducing her to the dark under-belly of the hard drug world over many years, i have always tried to engage her in conversation about the psychadelic experience, my veiws on it, and how i changed my life. We are two very differant people, and she was never too interested in my philosophy that psychadelics such as lsd, and mushrooms are more tools than drugs. However she did express interest in trying them.
Recently i have been slowly reintroducing myself back into the world of hallucinogens, and was trying to introduce her as well. At first she was stoked about it, but after a while, she told me that all my planning, and preperation was turning her off of the whole thing, and that if she did it, she wanted it to be "spontaneous, and spur of the moment" She thought i was just "fiending to get high" and if she did it, she wanted no preperation, as my talking about it excitedly made her want to puke.
So last night after we had a wonderful evening of opiate bliss into the wee hours of the morning, i decided spur of the moment to dose her. I had 1 1/2 grams bluefoots, i had been sitting on for over a year left in my stash. So i soaked them in lemon juice, chilled, and set the alarm for 8 in the morning. I woke her up, and told her to drink it, only telling her that it was a "surprise". As we were going back to sleep, and nodding out i told her that i had given her mushrooms, and began to prepare her for her trip. She wasn't shocked, or pissed, and long story short she ended up having a great low level trip. She had a bit of an emotional comedown, but aside from that, everything went swimmingly. We just cuddled in bed, and watched the Animatrix, while i guided her trip.
She is now excited about her next journey.
I don't think what i did was wrong. do you?
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WhiskeyClone
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Dreamer987]
#7745195 - 12/11/07 01:56 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't think it's ok to do that, but at least she reacted well.
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Justice_Fish
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Dreamer987]
#7745196 - 12/11/07 01:57 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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She wanted it spontaneous.
That's what happened. She could have said no.
I mean, she almost asked for it.
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g00ru
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Justice_Fish]
#7745239 - 12/11/07 02:06 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Within that context it was fine, she wanted it to be like that.
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sandman_130
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Justice_Fish]
#7745251 - 12/11/07 02:08 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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First off your a jackass,
second your spelling made me dumber,
and for third you should slap women who think you should take psychedelics spontaneously.
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Ell Ess Bree
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: sandman_130]
#7745268 - 12/11/07 02:11 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
sandman_130 said: you should slap women
'bout all you had to say.
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TomJoad
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Ell Ess Bree]
#7745304 - 12/11/07 02:21 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Hmm... "wrong" or "right" aside, I think it's pretty irresponsible to dose someone without their knowing what is going on--I feel like it's pretty important to make that decision for oneself, and just because she made a decision to do it at some point in the future doesn't really say to me that she has agreed to it. Noone but the tripper can know if this is indeed the right time for the experience. But hey, I don't know you guys and I'm not one to judge. But basically, in my (quite strong) opinion, one should not drug another person (or any being) without their knowledge and consent. It's a good way to get a sketchy reputation.
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primal21
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: TomJoad]
#7745328 - 12/11/07 02:24 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Umm dosing someone without their consent is not kosher, thats all there is too it.
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maggotz


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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: sandman_130]
#7745343 - 12/11/07 02:27 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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First off you're a jackass,
second your spelling made me dumber.
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Ness1
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: maggotz]
#7745405 - 12/11/07 03:01 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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In this situation, it was perfectly alright IMO
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: maggotz]
#7745410 - 12/11/07 03:03 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I laughed.
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fazdazzle
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Dreamer987]
#7745448 - 12/11/07 03:16 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well, I assume you know her very well and apparently your interpretation of "spontaneous and spur of the moment" was right as she didn't get upset after you told her or even after the experience. It was risky making the assumption that she would be OK with it - the major risk being the possibility of misinterpretation; she could have been upset while you try and tell her "well I assumed you would be OK with it based on what you said earlier" and it just turns into an argument about a communication error...though that being the worst case scenario, it seems like you knew her well enough to make a good decision; I doubt she would have had any different of an experience if she had made the decision herself. In fact, what you did may have been better with her mindset because she wasn't fretting over what it was going to be like (if she had time to). She accepted it and stepped on board like a champ.
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Robo
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Dreamer987]
#7745540 - 12/11/07 03:40 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Eh. No one got hurt.
Just don't do it to anyone other than her,please. It wouldn't be too cool.
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newlife
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: fazdazzle]
#7745550 - 12/11/07 03:43 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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IMO, it may have not been the best way to do it, but you knew she wanted to eventually. Plus you stayed with her and gave her a low first dose. Although you may have gone about it kinda the wrong way. You kept her company, and gave her a well needed experience. However, dont going dosing people without their consent again.
Edited by newlife (12/11/07 03:53 PM)
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Brainiac
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Robo]
#7745582 - 12/11/07 03:49 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Nothing says love, then druging you girlfriend.
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Robo]
#7745602 - 12/11/07 03:51 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't think it makes you a bad person BUT you broke an unwritten rule that say to never dose someone w/o their knowledge. Does this put you in the same category as those who slip GHB into women's drinks and have their way with them when they're unconscious..? Probably not.
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ohnoezes
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: Brainiac]
#7745609 - 12/11/07 03:52 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Brainiac said: Nothing says love, then druging you girlfriend.
Unless you drug her then tell her to get back in the kitchen.
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primal21
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: ohnoezes]
#7745628 - 12/11/07 03:55 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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She's gonna leave your ass for someone who doesnt drug her
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Brainiac
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: primal21]
#7745692 - 12/11/07 04:08 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Re: I dosed my girlfriend unknowingly.. does this make me a bad person [Re: primal21]
#7745695 - 12/11/07 04:08 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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yes dreamer, youre a bad person for not showing me your bluefoots.
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