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I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die....
    #7743641 - 12/11/07 01:26 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Aparently she's had some bad lung disease for a while now, and tonight may be the night they finally fail.  But we don't even know if she is telling the truth, because she's always been kind of a lying psycho.  But at the same time, you can't take the chance of thinking that...because if she was really dying she needs some support regardless of how I thought of her as a person.

So I'm giving her support.  All the while a voice is in the back of my mind telling me she very well could be making it up.

It's confusing and frustrating, and I feel like an asshole. :confused:


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7743654 - 12/11/07 01:34 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

I had a friend who told me twice when we were kids that a family member had died when it turned out to be a "joke". Then a few years later he told me his aunt died and I went off for about 30 seconds saying the worst things a person could say about a women. Turns out that she was dead :shrug:

What can you do??


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: whattheheck]
    #7743667 - 12/11/07 01:42 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Wow. This is really weird. We're texting. And I'm pretty high.

I've never had death so close to me before.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7743676 - 12/11/07 01:47 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Never been to a funeral?

I've never really been affected by other people's deaths. I remember going to a hospital where my "uncle" (you know, like a really good family friend) was dying and I was just kind of there. This is probably why I will die alone and bitter - because I am an anti-social emotionless jerk.

This could all change when someone really close to me goes though.. hasn't happened yet.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: EternalCowabunga]
    #7743685 - 12/11/07 01:51 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

I have always been kind of the same way as you. I had a great grandpa die when I was like 15 and it was a pretty emotionless process for me. I barely cried at the funeral. For some reason this time is different. I've had some pretty deep conversations with this girl.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7743690 - 12/11/07 01:54 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

interesting. do you think this could be one of those life changing things


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: EternalCowabunga]
    #7743696 - 12/11/07 01:58 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

I could see that happening. Well, it already has been in a way.

Last night she told me she didn't have much time left. I was high at the time, and I tend to be very emotional, and have very abstract insightful thoughts when I am high.

For a few minutes after she told me that (as well as how she was feeling emotionally), I completely understood what it felt like to know you are dying. I mean...I wasn't just me understanding her words.. I was actually feeling it. VERY STRONGLY It was a very very creepy and interesting experience. I will never forget it.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7743863 - 12/11/07 05:40 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

well, even if she doesn't die may you learn from it.

if she does. learn more.

good luck. stay tough.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7743912 - 12/11/07 06:31 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

I've had family die and been to the funeral... old people are supposed to die... it never really hit me hard.

When I was super high one night I got the call that one of my best friends from where I used to live died w/ his highschool sweetheart in a late night driving accident (ppl say they had been drinking).

It hit me harder then anything else... seeing someone you hung out with daily, seeing someone your age, seeing a peer, a friend, now dead. It hurts, and it's hard to deal with.

Just hang in there, a few weeks from now it'll be nothing but a sad memory.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: SDP]
    #7744566 - 12/11/07 11:18 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Last year, a guy I knew from high school went to Iraq, stayed longer than he was originally told he'd be there (like most in Iraq) and survived, just to make it home and die in front of his family over Thanksgiving. Not sure what the cause was, but I think it was just a random heart failure...

My uncle (in his late 40s) decided to hang himself a little over a year ago, leaving behind 3 children (my cousins) and a couple grandchildren. And this year, two people I knew from high school decided to whack themselves. One was a girl I was had a class with and saw many times, had been over to her house a few times and even watched her play guitar (I'm friends with her brother.) The other was a guy who graduated a year after I did, and worked at the same place I worked for almost 3 years. Got together and raced him a few times (street racing)...

Another person who went to my H.S. (didn't know him well) was married to a girl I dated briefly - they divorced about a year ago, and he shot himself in the head a couple weeks ago.

Old people die, it's part of life - but man, it's harder (for me at least) when your younger family members and your friends/peers are dying.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Sillicybin]
    #7745494 - 12/11/07 03:27 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Ask if she wants to fuck one last time


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: primal21]
    #7745806 - 12/11/07 04:39 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Vonnegut said that if you live long enough, a lot of people you care about are going to die.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7745844 - 12/11/07 04:48 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

To tell you the truth this may be the best time to tell her how you feel about her (i.e. lying psycho). Cause if shes going to die then she wont give a shit after she dies cause she'll be dead. As opposed to telling her months/years ago and making her live with the knowledge that people hate her for that long.

I don't see why people are extra nice to people they hate while that person is on their death bed.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Idiot]
    #7746349 - 12/11/07 06:23 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

becuase i'd rather if people were nice to me on my way out, so i'm gonna do the same for them?


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[thats just me though]


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: igwna]
    #7746381 - 12/11/07 06:32 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

i dunno i wouldn't fake being nice to someone if i didn't like them. on the other hand, only person i would really dislike would be my stepmother. if she was on the deathbed, i'd stand there and watch silently until she was gone.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7752477 - 12/13/07 02:58 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

It was all a lie.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7752480 - 12/13/07 03:01 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

That's fucked up... why did she lie about that? Attention?


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Shroomism]
    #7752484 - 12/13/07 03:09 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah. She has some serious problems. Very lost. This was her fucked up way of getting people to care about her.

I went to talk with her in person a few minutes ago, and was planning on calling her out on it (along with all the other big lies she's told).

I ended up feeling bad over the fact she had had so many problems that she actually resorted to lying about dying. She started talking a lot about how she's realized that she's been a selfish bitch her entire life, and is now trying to turn things around and set things right with people before she goes. She talked about how she wishes she could have done a lot of things differently before she died...

And I just played along. I couldn't bring myself to shatter the giant complex of lies that she used to cope with life.

The convo turned to her talking about how now there's a chance she will be able to make it out of this whole thing alive. So I just kept supporting her plan of turning things around and starting a new, better life.

Maybe I'll call her out later on down the road. Until then I just hope what she's saying about changing things is true. Hell, I would even continue supporting her in making things right.

Trust me, I know what she did was really fucked up, and I know a lot of people would have said I am just wasting my time with trying to help her.. But maybe she will change. If not, well, it was worth a shot.


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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7752685 - 12/13/07 06:44 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Foolish is he who does not reach out a helping hand to a a fellow man in a time of need...

You are doing the right thing... she could be making it all up, but at least you are doing what, to you, is morally justifiable. Anything bad that happens from it is out of her psychological illness, not your foolishness.


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And open up my eyes, so i can see things as you do
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Re: I think my friend's psycho ex is about to die.... [Re: Cakes]
    #7752689 - 12/13/07 06:46 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

:orly:


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