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OfflineMylz
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    #7739002 - 12/10/07 01:31 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

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Offlinec0_hush
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Re: omg i want to die [Re: Mylz]
    #7739247 - 12/10/07 04:46 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

No one is worth killing yourself over, this is hard to understand right now but just remember, "love is a dirty trick played on us to achieve continuation of species" and also, every break up is a blessing in disguise. I was forced to break off a 9 year relationship and was in a very dark place for a long time, but out of that came my current girlfriend and I haven't been happier! It's been 2 years now, also a long distance thing and these were/are the happiest 2 years of my life.

The sun will rise.


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OfflineJoseLibrado
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Re: omg i want to die [Re: c0_hush]
    #7739532 - 12/10/07 07:43 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

Thanks for coming out man and asking for help!

It gives me the chance to act as a healer, because without being hurt, there would be no desire for me to help you heal.:heart:

Much love, I care.


She is a human, with feelings that change...and the reltionship between you too, has changed and she does not enjoy it enough.

Ask yourself this...If you were in her situation and you found something beautiful, between you and another person. Keep yourself in her shoes, do not start to come back to yours just yet...If you found this, with the same excitement and joy she found the first days with you....
think about this for a sec..think about how you could feeel...what would you want for her to do, if you had said no to the relation staying the way it is...would you want her to kill herself, to let go the potential to experience love all over again, with a new excitement never to have been known before. Would you honestly be able to put it to words bluntly, and seriously...would ya?



would you urge her to keep loving, keep living, keep learning and feeling...would you, would you...what would you do in her life, if you were there..what would you tell yourself?

WOuld you tell her life is not worth living anymore?

Would you urge her to feel guilty and shameful...or to keep loving all around her?

its at times like these that we have to come out of an old shell because the old shell is rotting but our senses are to clogged up, to see the reality...and to be the relaity.

Im here for everyone like i would be here for myself. Much love :heart:


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The mind is a creative tool. It searches to protect you, through message sensations(feelings). It is no different than a computer, you need to make sure its anti-virus program is in check and that it doesnt have a script that limits your experience, because of to much precaution.

And remember the computer does not appear to respond to words of anger and frustration - just give it input, in the form of new meanings that you know to be true and its messages to you and the limits it lays out for you, will change.

Guilt is an outcome of believing you are the cause of the problems.

Yet, we are not a cause to something, we see is negative or bad - Unless you believe your intentions are directed towards a bad outcome....


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Re: omg i want to die [Re: Mylz]
    #7739550 - 12/10/07 07:51 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

There's not usually much hope for long-distance relationships. I've been there once. We actually broke up shortly after I joined the Shroomery. It's hard to deal with, I know. But you'll get over it, and you'll find others. For the time being, I suggest surrounding yourself with close friends who will support you in this difficult time. Time spent alone is time that you'll be depressed. If you have friends around to comfort you, you'll have other things to occupy your time.


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Offlinejonathanseagull
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Re: omg i want to die [Re: Mylz]
    #7741548 - 12/10/07 04:45 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

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Mylz said:
So I just got dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years... competely didn't see it coming... both loved each other to death, but we're long distance atm and the second a nice guy came along and was interested in her BAM... i feel like an empty shell of a person with no need to be alive... she made me so happy and losing her I feel no point in going on with anything




I broke off one after 4 years that was rough, too. But it truly is a blessing in disguise. You will grow as a person from experiencing that relationship. Now its "you" time. You can get into hobbies, play video games late into the night, hang out with the guys more, and all that good stuff. The lonliness gets better over time. Just be happy you were able to share that chapter of your life with her. Now its time to move on in the story. Ups and Downs, disguised as Downs and Ups, vice versa. It's hard for you to see right now without the perspective, but you'll start seeing things more clearly very soon. Be positive!


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Loving in truth, and fain in verse my love to show, That the dear She might take some pleasure of my pain: Pleasure might cause her read, reading might make her know, Knowledge might pity win, and pity grace obtain.


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Re: omg i want to die [Re: Mylz]
    #7741838 - 12/10/07 05:47 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

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Mylz said:
So I just got dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years... competely didn't see it coming... both loved each other to death, but we're long distance atm and the second a nice guy came along and was interested in her BAM... i feel like an empty shell of a person with no need to be alive... she made me so happy and losing her I feel no point in going on with anything




Oh well that's how it goes.

Do you realize how many people this has happened to? At least a 100 I'll bet.

It happened to me quite a few times. I seem to have gotten over it.


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"Don't believe everything you think". -Anom.

" All that lives was born to die"-Anom.

With much wisdom comes much sorrow,
The more knowledge, the more grief.
Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC


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Offlinejonathanseagull
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Re: omg i want to die [Re: Icelander]
    #7741873 - 12/10/07 05:53 PM (16 years, 1 month ago)

I think you also need to realize the first non-truth you are insinuating to yourself. She may have "loved you to death". Enough to let you go, so you could love someone closer to you. But she wasn't dedicated, and I feel like thats what you are getting at when you say "loved each other to death". Don't carry any extra burdens because you are projecting an idea onto a person. Who she really is, and who you imagine her to be are separate things. Maybe not super far apart, but definitely not the same.


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Loving in truth, and fain in verse my love to show, That the dear She might take some pleasure of my pain: Pleasure might cause her read, reading might make her know, Knowledge might pity win, and pity grace obtain.


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    #7744157 - 12/11/07 08:38 AM (16 years, 1 month ago)

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I'm an antidisestablishmentarianist, are you? :wink:


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