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danlennon3
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my fucked up situation
#7731247 - 12/07/07 11:24 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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a couple months ago I came across a friend which i haven't seen in years. The reason we stopped hanging out was his girlfriend. Basically she was pissed that my friend and I had a close friendship and we hung out all the time. So she forbid him from hanging out with me.The reason? She claimed I was ruining their relationship because i was a "bad influence".the excuse was this- my friend and I came across opium once... we smoked it a couple times, and she said this was the reason for all these problems. This is coming from the same girl who turned him into a full fledged coke head for 2 years, which he still has brain damage from! So this all happened a couple years ago.
fast forward to present- I see him at a store and we decide to chill. So we start to hang out again, obviously without his girlfriend knowing. this goes on for 3 months or so. A couple days ago he failed a drug test for opiates to get into carpentry. His psycho girlfriend looks at his phone history and sees me... so she automatically blames me for his opiate addiction. Now this is completely untrue. I have nothing to do with his drug use. he doesn't get them from me and he doesn't even do them around me.
SO heres the kicker... I get a call form the his mother!(hes 21!)She screams at me and tells me never to talk to C again. she then threatens me, saying she knows cops blah blah blah, not letting me say a thing. then he girlfriend comes on the phone screaming and telling me she knows that I'm involved and knows people who know me.but shes obviously lying. Now what do you think I should do? personally I don't care if I ever see the kid again. But I know his mother's delusions and rumors could spread to the wrong people. I would like to talk to his mother and at least try to explain to her that they are completely wrong about me. but i don't know what to do. this is all just fucked up. any advice? should i just drop it or try to express my view?
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RandalFlagg
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: danlennon3]
#7731253 - 12/07/07 11:26 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Tell the bitch to go fuck herself.
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C20H25N3O
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7731291 - 12/07/07 11:41 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well if its true, have you your old friend own up to his problems and explain them to his girl. If you have no interest in opiates good, no worries. If you do well no lectures from me, but well you know. If he does good. As far as his mom, well he is her son and he is also an adult. Let him explain to her what he wants, but mention to him that you would like to get your name cleared.
Thats my advice. You'll get many different opinions from everyone. So do what you think is right.
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danlennon3
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: C20H25N3O]
#7731300 - 12/07/07 11:44 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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my friend stood up for me. but she didnt believe him. she told me she knew I was involved
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C20H25N3O
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: danlennon3]
#7731310 - 12/07/07 11:47 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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well, than fuck her. If she can't trust him than maybe they should both think about why they are together. A bit of my own history, I had a friend at 18 who was the biggest Oxy addict I've ever met. He would do herion too, but Oxy was much easier and lucrative for him at the time. I'm 21 and he is 22 now and he's been clean for awhile. He even gave up sugar and meat for awhile too. He is focused on school and is doing very well all things considering. So even if you did have your own problems years ago, although from the sounds of it you didn't. For her to think you are the same person X amount of years later is absurd.
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Edited by C20H25N3O (12/07/07 11:49 PM)
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: danlennon3]
#7731312 - 12/07/07 11:48 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Tell the bitch to go fuck her self. The mom is probably worse.
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CaptainH13
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: danlennon3]
#7731313 - 12/07/07 11:48 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Just walk the fuck away?
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: danlennon3]
#7731328 - 12/07/07 11:54 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sounds like a bunch of low-quality people. End all contact with all of them. I doubt any of them are capable of understanding where they've left you in all of this. You don't need to be understood by the likes of them.
Don't stress about what the mother says about you. I doubt it will amount to any real trouble for you. Unless they start saying you are a pedophile or something, take this as an opportunity to thicken your skin.
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: danlennon3]
#7731353 - 12/08/07 12:02 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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"personally I don't care if I ever see the kid again"
sounds like its not a real friendship. Drop it, and the heat will die off. Most people are all talk, they aren't gonna do anything besides run they'r mouth, and try to fuck up your reputation.
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Re: my fucked up situation [Re: Dreamer987]
#7731583 - 12/08/07 01:09 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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yeah you gotta hit em in the mouth for them to shut the fuck up
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Quote:
WhiskeyClone said: Sounds like a bunch of low-quality people. End all contact with all of them.

That guy is obviously a little bitch anyways, his mom and girlfriend run his life. Just get the hell away from them all.
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