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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7713845 - 12/04/07 01:56 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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kidaihuan
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: Merkin]
#7713908 - 12/04/07 03:08 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Merkin said: .
If it was herpes, it means I have it too, so we'd both be fucked.
She didn't cheat, so it's not like she got it from somewhere else.
But there's little reason to believe that it is. There are a lot of other possible causes for cervical erosion, and if it was herpes, the doctor would have gave her some meds.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7713933 - 12/04/07 03:34 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Is this marriage going to be recognized/legitimized by your country of citizenship? Is she going to want to become a citizen of whatever country you're originally from (canada?)?
One of my wife's coworkers caught a pretty bad case of yellow fever and married a thai dancer on a trip to Thailand several years back. She didn't come back to the states with him right away. After three years of sending her parents money to build a bigger house, a couple of fuckvisits back in Thailand, and lots of lies & broken promises, she never got her paperwork in order or whatever it should have taken to get her over here. 6 months ago he was made one last trip back.... he came back alone and does not wear the ring anymore.
But as far as the USA is concerned, he was never married. So it's nothing more than a hard lesson learned for him now.
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kidaihuan
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: Gr8fulJ420]
#7713963 - 12/04/07 03:53 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Gr8fulJ420 said: Is this marriage going to be recognized/legitimized by your country of citizenship? Is she going to want to become a citizen of whatever country you're originally from (canada?)?
One of my wife's coworkers caught a pretty bad case of yellow fever and married a thai dancer on a trip to Thailand several years back. She didn't come back to the states with him right away. After three years of sending her parents money to build a bigger house, a couple of fuckvisits back in Thailand, and lots of lies & broken promises, she never got her paperwork in order or whatever it should have taken to get her over here. 6 months ago he was made one last trip back.... he came back alone and does not wear the ring anymore.
But as far as the USA is concerned, he was never married. So it's nothing more than a hard lesson learned for him now.
Yeah, the marriage will be legitimate.
But I don't plan to bring her back to Canada. Not indefinitely, at least. She can live a much better life here and I can too. I have no intentions of going back.
It's such a hassle getting citizenship, too. She'd have to live in Canada for five years or something. We'll see though.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7713983 - 12/04/07 04:25 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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About ten minutes later, she asks me. "Can you buy me a ring?"
I predict she gets a ring she can hawk and you get dumped.
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kidaihuan
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
#7714005 - 12/04/07 04:41 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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If I buy her a ring and she pawns it, that's cool.
I'd learn my lesson then.
But that won't happen.
Gotta get her ring size with a string next time she's here.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7714076 - 12/04/07 06:26 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Seems like she's not the girl for you, it appears she just wants money.
You need to flip that shit on her - tell her you can get a nice ring but it won't be worth much and if she loves you she will be happy with that.
Tell her you found a job making a low wage and you can afford for you both to live economy in an apartment - if she bails then she never did like you.
If you get married anyway just so you keep hitting the rotted puss then you definately better get a contract so she can't take half your shit.
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kidaihuan
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: Ego Death]
#7714085 - 12/04/07 06:35 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ego Death said: Seems like she's not the girl for you, it appears she just wants money.
You need to flip that shit on her - tell her you can get a nice ring but it won't be worth much and if she loves you she will be happy with that.
Tell her you found a job making a low wage and you can afford for you both to live economy in an apartment - if she bails then she never did like you.
If you get married anyway just so you keep hitting the rotted puss then you definately better get a contract so she can't take half your shit.
Well.
Cost of the ring isn't important, and I know that she doesn't expect an expensive one. When we were looking at rings months ago she shows me the ones she liked and they were under $100.
I had to explain the difference between a $100 ring and a more expensive one, but she didn't seem to mind. Told me to that I can just tell her it is expensive and as long as it is pretty, she is happy. I would bet my life that she told the truth.
The job I would be working at, still isn't much. We would be living in an apartment and we would never be able to afford a house of our own, if we wanted to live any life outside of paying for the house. She's not exactly marrying for riches. A lot of her co-workers make almost as much as I would, but as Engineers. And yes, they are single for the most part.
Half my shit, as I keep saying, is still nothing. And since I'm not a Chinese citizen, I don't think it would apply. But it wouldn't bother me, anyway. I don't see it as being something I have to worry about.
As for where I met her, I'm not going to say specifically, because it wasn't a dating site. She was technical support for a program that didn't work that well, so I spent a lot of time talking to her. But I had been on that site chatting with the tech support for a couple years then, just for fun, since it was such a cultural difference. Started off the same with her, just went further.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7714234 - 12/04/07 08:00 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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kidaihuan said: Divorce rates aren't that high here.
But anyway.
I want to live with her and if she lives with me, her family will out her again. Unless we get married.
It must be done!
congrats on becoming a future divorce statistic there! yay!
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: Innominate]
#7714437 - 12/04/07 09:15 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Innominate said: Get the fuck out of there. Now.
When a woman tells you she's a bitch, RUN.
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Irradiated_Feces
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: LucidDream]
#7714890 - 12/04/07 11:15 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'd be a mile away seconds after the words "vaginal-rot" came out of her mouth. yeeeeeeeck.
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StreetFreak
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: Irradiated_Feces]
#7715284 - 12/04/07 12:50 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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This guy comes her for advice and ignores everything people tell him. He's young and dumb and so is his chinese slave. In 5 years she will be laughing that some fucking canadian came to "live with her," and this guy will be laying in bed all day wondering what the fuck he was thinking.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: Irradiated_Feces]
#7715316 - 12/04/07 12:58 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Irradiated_Feces said: I'd be a mile away seconds after the words "vaginal-rot" came out of her mouth. yeeeeeeeck.
ahhhahahaha oh man this topic is so highly entertaining for me lmao
I want more details, I want daily updates, more dialoge of their conversations, more about your sex life with her
I love the actual topic name, "My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married." LOL!!! "man this relationship is going no where fast, so, we decided it would best to just get married!" lol
oh man, please tell us more, i beg of you
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: Xeluc]
#7715319 - 12/04/07 12:58 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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You're mental, and not in any healthy sense. China has some really great food, and if she can't make it, and..
I'm just going over old things again and again. But I'd be tempted to go out with a chef, just because of all I could learn.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7715351 - 12/04/07 01:08 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Vaginal Rot.
...dude.
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StreetFreak
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: GWAR]
#7715437 - 12/04/07 01:28 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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GWAR said: Vaginal Rot.
...dude.
BUT HE LOVES HER MAAAAAN!
Until she dumps his ass for a fat chinese business tycoon who can buy her many bags.
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kidaihuan
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: StreetFreak]
#7716688 - 12/04/07 06:05 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well, I'll try to update as much as possible, but you've got to understand that this relationship isn't based on daily drama. Overall, it's a fairly good relationship.
My only buff is that although I talk to her from 9 am to 10 pm every day, I only get to see her once every couple weeks when she decides that she has a worthwhile excuse to tell her parents. That's why I've been pushing her a bit to tell them more, get married, etc. I miss the time when we lived together.
Someone asked about the sex...
Ahhh... she has been really down lately because of the cervical erosion and she believes that it may cause her to not be sensitive to sex anymore (which it won't). So she keeps telling he how our sex on the first night together was best. I agree, but I keep telling her it was the circumstances that caused that, not that it was the first time. Although it might have helped, she hadn't had sex for at least two years and told me "it felt like 1000 ants bite my middle".
It was my first time then, with her, so I was quite cautious, and the fact that we had just met in person then added to that. But as she said, as soon as i touched her skin, she pulled my hand under her shirt and rubbed her breasts with it. It was a really good first time.
But I thought on the first night I gave her oral and she gave me a hand job because we had no condom. I don't know. I do remember the first sex, I just don't know when it was. I'm not going to contradict her anyway because I'd rather not burst her bubble.
Buuut! You're probably more interested in current sex.
That's why she comes here. Every time she comes here it consists of sex and then she leaves. But I told her this really isn't what I want and I'd much rather watch a movie with her than have sex. She told me she didn't even like sex. We agreed.
Next time she comes, we watch a movie, have sex, I cook dinner (I insisted, she usually does), have sex, have a nap. We then went out with her cousins before she went home. She can't spend the night because her parents would wonder where she is. Both satisfied. That's basically what happens when she gets to come here.
I was also having some problems... climaxing, when she would basically just come, have sex, then go. I keep telling her that it was psychological, but she keeps telling me that it is because she's doing something wrong.
I still think it was psychological, but maybe not, I'll never tell her, but it probably has something to do with the fact that foreplay is completely one sided in our sex.
I don't complain though, because she doesn't give oral and a handjob consists of a bunch of uncomfortable shaking and squeezing. If it hurts I tell her, but otherwise I try to keep a straight face and give her oral. She stops then.
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As for cooking, yes she is a good cook. She tells me she can't cook anything, but in reality she's very good at cooking. Makes a lot of nice dishes and out of all of them, there's only been one that I was unable to eat.
It's just important that I watch the meats to make sure they aren't pink inside. I don't think she understands that the meat should be cooked through, especially since this meat isn't exactly regulated.
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Since it's the morning right now, no dialog yet. But!
Last night I was wondering whether she was still OK with her decision, because we hadn't talked about it when she said.
"Will our kid be cute?"
I've been waiting a long time for her to acknowledge that. For the last few months we have talked about life together, but not directly stating that. It would be saying 'Will my kid be cute?' then 'Depends, if the dad is cute, then yes'.
Meh, sounds small. But feels good. And yes, I do plan to have a kid or two at some point. She's not talking right now.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7716731 - 12/04/07 06:18 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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man
It is really weird that you would post all this on a forum.
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StreetFreak
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: moosehead]
#7716761 - 12/04/07 06:25 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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moosehead said: man
It is really weird that you would post all this on a forum.
He has nobody to talk to, not even his own gf. I'm sure the local Chinese shun him. Must be lonely over there. I guess finding a girl he likes without vaginal rot in Canada was too much of a burden.
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Re: My Chinese girlfriend and I had a rough few days.........so we decided to get married. [Re: StreetFreak]
#7716770 - 12/04/07 06:27 PM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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This thread is bumming me out.
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