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The game
#7705438 - 12/02/07 03:28 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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The mating game.
Procreation - seems to be the main reason we exist. Can also be very fun and comforting!
I have some observations it seems that women now have the balance of choice. Most women I've met have a lot of males trying to seduce them at any one time - they have their pick.
Often one of the males will force his way in - by being pushy. Other times the women will allow her preferred choice of male to date her and block out the others.
It seems women work through groups of men. They will have about 10 so called male friends but really they are working out which one they want to take. Sometimes they want to and will take many of them from the same group (even one after the other lol).
Now a man, we are the hunters. Its my job to take a route and to try to get one of these females. All I have to do is decide which approach to use. I will have many other competing males and only the best approach will win the women.
This can work the other way. Where the man is outnumbered by females - then the women will the become the competitors for the mans attention but in reality this is a rare phenomena. It certainly appears that in any one common mating situation (bar, pub, club) that the ratio of men there is always higher.
I think I'm finally starting to figure this game out. Yes its taken a while - i spend most of my life rejecting the game!
So, I'm thinking back over the past few years and theres so many of these females that have swooped through my friendship circle. They've either come in and fucked as many of us as possible or played the game and taken one or two away to be long term partners.
I've never won a female thats come through our friendship circle. As I said I reject the game but now its got to the point where my testosterone is making me play it. I'm forced to work out what approach is best for that women and then try and play those cards on her (please no be yourself bullshit because that will get you no-where than basic friendship).
I noticed most of my friends use the brute force tactic. They go in hands first - in fact they appear to be quite desperate although they also have a high success rate. I assume its because if you keep pestering a women for sex then eventually she will be in the mood and decide to reciprocate. This method is great for ploughing througfh as many women as possible. Don't get me wrong though, they are sneaky - its not a case of just going up and asking for sex. They butter them up first, then they get a bit touchy feely, then they dive in and have in bed in no time.
Now, the sneaky (AKA nice girl) women. The sneaky women wants a bit more than a quick fuck but fact is she will still probably be suckered in a few times - the sneaky bit is that she won't let anybody else know because she knows she will look like a slag for shagging one of the man whores. Now i think the best game plan here is to play the good friend role and go for the long run if you actually want to anything more than just fuck her. But there has to be a definitive point - as soon as she's tired of the man whores pestering her and she's seeking you as a source of comfort and protection from them, that is when you must strike.
So thats how far my game has got - in actuality I am at this point. I am at the point where I need to strike but its difficult in the circumstances because this girl always has family around her or too many competing males when I'm there - If I try this in a competing male situation then game fails because I become another too obvious competing male. Subtlety is key. I need to get me and her alone for a few seconds so I can plant the seed. Then it will grow.
Any more observations on the game or advice on game plans?
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Female psychology is an interesting thing, and figuring it out leads to much sexy time
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Good job on noticing this stuff. A lot of social interaction is just attempting to gain status and acquire mates.
In my opinion, "player" dudes learn everything they need to know about women by the time they're 18. Normal dudes learn everything by the time they're 22. But, guys like me are behind the curve. I'm 28 and I'm still learning.
I don't have a lot of social smarts or charisma. I don't know how to pick up on shit and work people like some people can. So, my realizations are very hard-earned and limited. Here's some of the stuff I've learned:
1. If a girl likes you she will find a way to put herself in front of you.
2. It is then your job to make the next move. It shouldn't be too strong. You can't come across as sexually desperate or emotionally needy. Maybe a quick 1 minute conversation where you come across as funny and charming and you show that you are taking time out of your life to pay attention to her. If she responds then keep ratcheting up the contact. Maybe throw a hand on the shoulder, flirty looks, etc...
3. If the girl doesn't seem to like me or respond to my overtures then I won't pursue it any further. However, there are a lot of guys who will attempt a "brute force" and ignore the girl blowing them off. Strangely, sometimes the girl just gives in or the girl was making the guy jump through hoops to see how much he wanted her as an ego boost kind of thing.
It took me many years just to notice when a girl is doing a #1. I am getting better at doing #2 but I still suck at it. #3 is only for guys who have super-confidence and are willing to deal with possible humiliation (which I am not).
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sometimes you just wanna hit it, and dont care if it feels like rape...she did consent...eventually...
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Ego Death
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RandalFlagg said: 3. If the girl doesn't seem to like me or respond to my overtures then I won't pursue it any further. However, there are a lot of guys who will attempt a "brute force" and ignore the girl blowing them off. Strangely, sometimes the girl just gives in or the girl was making the guy jump through hoops to see how much he wanted her as an ego boost kind of thing.
This really hits the nail on the head with the tactics I see going on around me.
Those jumping through hoop girls are the worst. After you put all the effort and belief in and the blatently let you down that makes men real mad.
I get pissed off with these brute force idiots, I hate them. Especially when they cock-block you. Strange thing is some women will lap it up, go fuck them then next week when they've been shat on they are coming back to you again.
Sometimes I wonder which is the better way to be? The brute or the nice guy.
Generally the brute fucks them all but the nice guy usually ends up in long-term relationships with them when they've matured enough.
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It's better to be "formless" as Bruce Lee said. Bruce took a bunch of different martial arts, injected his own ideas, and came up with his own thing that worked. Don't get stuck in a static way of thinking. You must constantly be aware and notice what is working and what isn't working.
Different situations call for different approaches. You are best to approach a shy and nice girl as the "nice guy". With a hot party chick who likes to play games you are best to play the "brute".
All of this is coming from a guy (me) who has had one sexual encounter in the last half year....so I know what I'm talking about.
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i lose the game
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badchad
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Girls go after and chase men just as often as men chase women. They just aren't as blatant about it.
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good read, covers the basics.
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'Game' is just being smooth and being able to pretend like you don't care about the girl (for example, ignore her calls and texts even if you don't want to), that makes them crazy about you. They are fucking insane.
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lol the game. yeah its a great game. i dunno about the brute option, i had a friend who did that and it worked, but it seems like too much.
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That doesn't always work - its much more complicated but I see the point your getting at which does work with some women.
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An observation about females competing for male attention. This happened to me the other night, I was at a party laying down my best game to T. R, a girl who I have hooked up with and will continue to (hopefully), is also at the party however in a different room. R comes into the room, sits right next to me and puts her head on my shoulder. T, who a moment ago was smiling and singing beatles songs, immediately sours. The two subtlely badger eachother in viscious ways, typical girl-fighting behavior. Eventually R coughs, stands up and announces she doesn't want to spread her germs and leaves in a fluster. When she leaves T immediately takes her place and begins mimicking R's behavior i.e. head on the shoulder, flirty talk etc etc. Now the thing I gathered most out of this is that T drew herself to me based predominantly on her desire that R not get me. Through the whole process I basically just observed, didn't really say anything and in the end I had my choice of two pretty girls. Although now R is mad at me because I didn't follow her when she left. So honestly, there really is no winning with the fairer sex
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Re: The game [Re: half9]
#7709618 - 12/03/07 03:50 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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half9 said: when I rolll thats all I talk about.. how I use phycilogy on girls.
Thats what the game is, if you read "The Game" and other articles they even say that the "matting game" you call it is all about how to run a convocation.
You will always know the next step and since you know the next step you know how to get what you want... Trust me bro, its fun...
when I rolll thats all I talk about.. how I use phycilogy on girls. thats all I talk about.. how I use phycilogy I use phycilogy phycilogy
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Haha, yeah thats a classic.
One of my friends used this trick every time - he was always inviting lots of nice girls round his place and he would play them off against each other.
Knowing that they would want him more if they had to fight another girl for him. For many women its the ultimate ego boost to be able to get another girls man because it proves to themselves that they are the more desirable.
I know people who have long term relationships which started out from this scenario and I know men that use this trick just to lay as many women as possible.
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phycilogy
His kung fu must be good
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Re: The game [Re: half9]
#7709983 - 12/03/07 09:01 AM (16 years, 1 month ago) |
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We are all ears my gifted friend!
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Yeah I'd like to hear this
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