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Anonymous #1
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Group sex
#7701210 - 11/30/07 10:45 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anyone seriously ever done any 3 somes or 4 somes?
About to start a new chapter in my life. I am a girl and and very seriously considering doing this. My husband of many years knows and is ok with it. Although he of course is mainly interested in adding another girl, I want to go for a second couple. That way there is some extra dick around for me.
I know this is going to draw in the idiots but I'll be looking for the serious posts. Just how awkward is it?
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Anonymous #2
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How old are you guys? Do you have kids? Why do you want to do this? Is the thought of having another guy fuck you exciting?
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Anonymous #3
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well as far as ive heard it is a good way to ruin your relationship.
ive never done a three some, but had a girlfriend who wanted to try it with me and a girl we knew. i wasnt into it tho, and my girlfriend knew it because i told her.."i just want to be with you - no other girls involved" eventually the three of us ended up in bed contemplating it sort of, and then i just ended up dumping my girlfriend and took the other girl to her place and started screwing her instead. she was more attractive anyways. i was kinda turned off by the fact that my girlfriend was more open to the idea than i was, so i just decided to take the other girl instead.
that is just me tho, im just a one women type of guy for the most part. good luck
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Anonymous #4
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Sounds like a surefire way to damage your relationship.
I would sit down with your husband and brainstorm exciting sexual things to do that don't involve another dude's cock, because believe me, no matter what he says or what he thinks now, he is not gonna be cool with it.
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Anonymous #5
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Just get a divorce if you want other cock. Otherwise, be glad that somebody will stay married to your ass.
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Anonymous #6
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Just get a divorce if you want other cock. Otherwise, be glad that somebody will stay married to your ass.
QFT.
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Anonymous #7
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Quote:
Anonymous said: no matter what he says or what he thinks now, he is not gonna be cool with it.
not *always* true...there are indeed some couples out there with very open relationships
unfortunately though - these are the types you have to have (cause as fun as group sex can certainly be - one 'bad apple' truly will ruin it for everyone)
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Anonymous #8
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I rarely hear of this actually going smoothly. It ruins most relationships. You and your husband may be totally convinced that you won't get jealous, but it's bound to happen. Someone will be hurt.
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Anonymous #9
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I had a group of wanna-be hippy friends do this whole group sex thing for awhile. It all ended in tears, of course.
It started out as everyone being cool and open, then quickly deteriorated into everyone hating each other.
luckily, I stayed out of it. but a bunch of my friends still will not talk to each other to this day, just because of a bunch of stupid, naive decisions a bunch of doe-eyed kids made while they were on ecstasy.
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Anonymous #10
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"I LIKE SEX!"
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Anonymous #11
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It depends on how possessive you both are with one another.
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Anonymous #7
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I dunno...I think *maybe*t has more to with just how much these couples truly want to stay together
cause it seems to me that the ones that tend to work out the best are people who are ONLY still together because they're entirely too unwilling to jump through all the bullshit ass hoops that come with starting a real relationship with someone new (not to mention - probably simultaneously convinced of their own self-UN-worth, so that they're certain they're not gonna be able to find anyone better anyhow)
cause these are the people who could truly care less if their significant other is having more fun with somebody else...just as long as they 'know' they'll still be with them in the end (even if only to save them both the hassle of starting over again)
or at least - that's how it seems to me anyway
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Anonymous #7
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but then again - that's probably what you meant now that I re-read your last response
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Anonymous #12
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I've got a g/f now and honestly I've never done it with my g/f and another chick or guy. I have had group sex involving 4 guys and 2 girls. The girls we all had been with prior and we were all friends so it wasn't really that awkward, I think the strangest part for a guy is getting your dick hard or jerking off to ejaculate on a girl in front of a bunch of guys. Since we were all friends it wasn't too bad I mean, passing around chicks is kinda cool actually.
On the other hand I have had group sex with 2 girls and another guy just out of the blue. I recently met the girls and had known the guy but not very well. The girls were both extremely hot, but having not known these chicks and being as hot as they were was kind of intimidating, not to mention the other guy present. I didn't have a problem getting hard and making the girls cum at all, but when it came to them getting me off I just couldn't do it. When I would get close to climax I would just kind of freak out like I felt too exposed to these strange people.
I think the main thing is, being comfortable and familiar with the people you want to do this with. If you've fantasized about that person/persons prior you'll probably not have a problem but if these people are unfamiliar its going to awkward. I mean just imagine your hubby fucking a women you just met. And imagine it from his point of view.
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Anonymous #1
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OP here.
We have talked about trying this for a few years but have been hesitant for a few reasons. Mainly not wanting the BS of strangers (there's some weirdos out there!) But an opportunity has arisen that would be fairly ideal. They are people we know but not so well that it would be too weird. And I am the one that brought it up to my husband. The girl's gorgeous so he's def ok with it.
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Anonymous #13
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just be a good little whore
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Anonymous #1
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Thank you, I think I will be.
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Anonymous #7
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I find it funny that the person that posted this latest response wasn't even the original poster
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Anonymous #14
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even though there is evidence to the contrary i'm still going to say OP is moth. just because she made another post about this awhile ago before she was gay.
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Anonymous #15
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Quote:
Anonymous said: well as far as ive heard it is a good way to ruin your relationship.
ive never done a three some, but had a girlfriend who wanted to try it with me and a girl we knew. i wasnt into it tho, and my girlfriend knew it because i told her.."i just want to be with you - no other girls involved" eventually the three of us ended up in bed contemplating it sort of, and then i just ended up dumping my girlfriend and took the other girl to her place and started screwing her instead. she was more attractive anyways. i was kinda turned off by the fact that my girlfriend was more open to the idea than i was, so i just decided to take the other girl instead.
that is just me tho, im just a one women type of guy for the most part. good luck
I am sorry but thats the stupidest reasoning ever told.
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Anonymous #11
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DO IT WITH FRIENDS! That's the only way I'd feel comfortable.
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Anonymous #16
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Anonymous said:
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Anonymous said: no matter what he says or what he thinks now, he is not gonna be cool with it.
not *always* true...there are indeed some couples out there with very open relationships
unfortunately though - these are the types you have to have (cause as fun as group sex can certainly be - one 'bad apple' truly will ruin it for everyone)
those couples usually own brothels too
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Anonymous #7
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Anonymous said: those couples usually own brothels too
and that's a bad thing...why
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Anonymous #17
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I had 2 girls take turns sucking my cock while i would make out with the other one, it was pretty fun, i just kept switchin up... but neither of these girls had ever given a guy a blowjob before and they didnt make me cum.. even tho it felt realy good. one ofthose girls is my girlfriend now, and she now gives quite possibly the best head i have ever recieved
another time.. some chick i met at the bar and her boyfriend came backto my place and he was fucking her wihile she sucked me off, it was kinda weird and i didnt get off .. i kinda just stopped and asked them to leave
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Anonymous #18
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Only gays, lesbians and bisexuals can pull off successful group sex IMO.
When you're straight and join a couple or have someone join in, this one person will go for only one of the couple. Its NO FUN being the other one and seeing your mate (M/F) going oooh and aaah with someone else.
If you're a straight couple and hook up with another straight couple then XX + YY will lead to XY and YX coupling and then you are just having two affairs, but with the opportunity to make your partner stinkin' jealous. Fucking someone else with your partner looking on isn't for everybody and the one aloways like to do the group thing more than the other, so there is bound to be tension when Mr X is a good match with Ms Y but Ms X has to make due with Mr Y.
In Gay, Lesbian and Bi situations everybody is potentially fuckable by everybody else and thats the only way that you can get the desired effect of everybody loving everyone.
I recommend you to not do the group thing, but instead explore the world of fetish instead. If your sex life isn't shroomy anymore, a bit of roleplaying or even your own form of BDSM could be just the ticket to rekindle your sex life.
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Anonymous #1
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Well the chick and I both plan on taking care of each other too so that's covered.
Even if it doesn't happen just the idea and talking about it made my sex life with hubby get really hot again.
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Anonymous #16
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little does he know ur threesome in mind is a semi gangbang by two dudes
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Anonymous #14
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if i type group sex into google, it sure looks like fun...
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Anonymous #19
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My wife and I have tried this, and it wasnt really for us, but it didnt hurt us at all. We went to
www.craigslist.com and found another couple that was very specific about touching, petting ect, but NO SWAPS.
Some couples swap, but ONLY in the same room. My suggestion is find a couple in the mw4mw section that wants to meet and have drinks.
Then if things are cool you can take it back to someones place, and have some more drinks, smoke ect, and if things are still cool go for it! If you feel strange, just say so.
I am sure the other couple would totally understand, and since you can be very specific in your add before trying this, if things don't turn out as planned no one will be upset.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous said: little does he know ur threesome in mind is a semi gangbang by two dudes
Oh no honey, he knows. That's part of why I want to do this. He has always wanted a 3-some with another women but kind of balked at there being another guy. So after reminding him how unfair that would be for me he's agreed to another couple. We are both pretty freaky in the sack, my worries are more about how you start when everyone's in the same room. I'm not very aggresive. But I think the guy's involved will probably take care of that problem.
We'll probably go to a hotel to do this. Not at the house.
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Anonymous #20
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you might need these
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Anonymous #1
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I don't know what that stuff is. Except the condoms of course.
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Anonymous #7
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I'm guessing birth control pills...maybe
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Anonymous #18
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Those sir are AIDS drugs
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Anonymous #7
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YIB
I thunk that AIDS had no 'cure'
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Anonymous #1
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Now give me a break, I said these were people we know. Don't you think questions like this would be asked before hand? All of us have been tested recently.
This isn't about a bunch of teenagers playing at risky sexual practices. This is about adults kicking it up a step.
But AIDS and other STD's is one of the reasons we couldn't do the Craig's List thing. I am very paranoid about that sort of thing. I always thought an orgy would be fun in theory but knew I could never do such a thing in reality. I would be thinking about AIDS the whole time. Would definitely put a damper on the whole thing.
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Anonymous #21
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Anonymous said:I would be thinking about AIDS the whole time. Would definitely put a damper on the whole thing.
it's weird how that happens isnt it?
<.<
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Anonymous #22
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maybe you should experment with bringing animals in first for that "extra cock", then work your way up
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Anonymous #23
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AIDS doesn't have a cure, but they do have a cocktail of drugs that you have to take in order to prolong your life.
Hope you've had the HPV vaccine if you're seriously considering this.
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Anonymous #23
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^ -- same person as above:
Just wanted to add that I think group sex is a lot of fun and can be very rewarding if you include the right people and you're with the right person.
YOU HAVE TO TRUST THE PERSON YOU'RE WITH MORE THAN ANYTHING - if you don't, then you need to have no real emotional attachment with them (the "I can find another one just like him/her" attitude.)
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Anonymous #1
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Thanks everyone!
Although I think I won't do the bestiality thing. Not my cup of tea. 
I'm not sure what it says about my relationship with my old man but while I'm not ok with him just screwing anybody, I'm ok with this set-up.
In fact I'm more than ok with it. I'm excited about it.
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Anonymous #24
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Just wanted to toss this out there, a very old friend of mine wanted me to fuck his girl with him cause we're buds. Well it was fun and all but then it was abit weird later. Then just a couple weeks ago he comes to me all pissed off and says that she told him I was trying to fuck her....  fuckin rediculous ya know, but all is resolved now.
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Anonymous #25
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I got fucked in the ass while some other dude was blowing me when I was in prison.
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Anonymous #26
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Anonymous said: Just wanted to toss this out there, a very old friend of mine wanted me to fuck his girl with him cause we're buds.
i reread this part like 4 times and wow. he just invites you to fuck his girl with him? cause your buds!?
thats just insane to me.
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Anonymous #27
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My wife and I did a three sum with this other guy (our friends hubbie ) and I'll tell you It really turned me on watching her suck a dick and get fucked.... I want it to happen again sometime I say DO IT, just make sure your both secure in your relationship
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