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fung_us_among_us


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erectile dysfunction
#7682043 - 11/26/07 02:22 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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ok so this has really been bothering me. i'm only 21, and for the last few years i haven't been as hard as i'd like to be, when i'm with somebody or whatever. sometimes i'll go soft while i'm having sex, sometimes just not as hard as i could be.. either way it really irritates me, especially because i'm in a relationship now and have sex with one person pretty often.
i know that she doesn't mind all that much.. our sex is still great and i do things that she absolutely loves. but it still gets me down. so i'm wondering if you have any advice that i could take.. anything to herbal supplements to exercises to changing my outlook. i know there's something that i can do to fix this.
another thing, i can only actually orgasm from sex half the time. often we'll have to resort to me masturbating while we make out or something like that. it works but again, it's kind of embarassing and i'd rather avoid it.
something else that might have to do with it.. for about 8 or 9 years i watched pornography and masturbated nearly daily. sometimes many times in one day. i think that this might have desensetized me to some extent because now i usually have to actually think about fantasies in my head and imagine things, during sex, instead of just enjoying what is happening. it's really frustrating. how can i get my sex life back?
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Layzie
Me So sLeeepy!

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i know what ur talking about. And yes exercise does help this as it helps flow blood through your body. Also having sex daily multiple times can also cause this. When u start fucking alot you get more stamina and can lost longer than someone who hasnt busted a nut in 2 weeks. But your less excited about it because its constant its almost like a normal thing to do and you know your going to get it.
try taking a week off of having no sex and if u want exercise (as in joggin long distance) and tell me if your shit doesnt rip thru ur pants.
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fung_us_among_us


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Re: erectile dysfunction [Re: Layzie]
#7682291 - 11/26/07 03:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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good idea, man. i've been trying to come up with a reason to exercise more anyways.. i'll get on it. you think once a day for 20 minutes is good? i don't know much about health - most the time i sit at home and smoke cigarettes and play banjo.
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imagine
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How's your diet? Usually eating right helps for me...as well as exercising daily. It helps the blood flow your system. If you're sitting at home eating fast food all day i don't think that'll do much!
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fung_us_among_us


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Re: erectile dysfunction [Re: imagine]
#7682323 - 11/26/07 03:51 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i don't eat fast food, ever. i'm a vegetarian and try to eat mostly organic foods. i don't eat enough dairy or fruit, probably. and some days i don't eat enough because i've got stomach problems.
compared to most people, though.. i eat pretty well.
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WhiskeyClone
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Do you consider your life stressful?
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boxcarguy07
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try Maca root powder... stuff's great. i don't use it for that, but that's primarily what it's used for
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Icelander
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something else that might have to do with it.. for about 8 or 9 years i watched pornography and masturbated nearly daily. sometimes many times in one day. i think that this might have desensetized me to some extent because now i usually have to actually think about fantasies in my head and imagine things, during sex, instead of just enjoying what is happening. it's really frustrating. how can i get my sex life back?
BINGO!
Try just being intimate and sensual(lots of touching, massage,and body contact.) with your gf for some time without having orgasm as a goal. You can still bring her to orgasm with your mouth or whatever but refrain from intercourse until you notice a change. Here's the hard part (no pun intended), don't fantasize, ever, about anyone but your gf.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
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fung_us_among_us


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Re: erectile dysfunction [Re: Icelander]
#7688896 - 11/28/07 12:10 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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that's good advice, guys. thanks a lot. just this afternoon, suprisingly, after a long night of drinking wine and doing blow, we had sex for about an hour and i didn't have any problems. it was actually really great.
i'm going to start jogging and maybe look into herbal supplements. i'd like to find something that i wouldn't be taking before sex, but daily.
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imagine
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hmmm well not to knock your hustle but you DID do blow
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boxcarguy07
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Quote:
fung_us_among_us said: that's good advice, guys. thanks a lot. just this afternoon, suprisingly, after a long night of drinking wine and doing blow, we had sex for about an hour and i didn't have any problems. it was actually really great.
i'm going to start jogging and maybe look into herbal supplements. i'd like to find something that i wouldn't be taking before sex, but daily.
*Ahem* Maca root, lol
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fung_us_among_us


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Re: erectile dysfunction [Re: boxcarguy07]
#7689261 - 11/28/07 06:17 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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cool thanks, i'll look into it in a minute.
and in response to imagine.. cocaine always kills my sex drive for the most part. actually it makes me extremely limp and freaked out on the inside. we get along sometimes, most the time not so much though. so i'd say this was a good thing.
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