1. someone with a SPINE. 100% of the time that girls like assholes, it's only because those guys give off the appearance of having a spine. Be yourself and don't be afraid to speak your mind, act assertive in groups, tell people off, but DONT be an asshole about it, because smart girls will see through you.
the money issue is also an issue of spine, you can be attractive and impoverished if you don't act like being poor is a setback for you.
2. A good sense of humor is essential (i like guys that are warped, fatalistic, or dry.)
3. Every good relationship begins with a friendship, so definitely someone that I am compatible with personally and like buddying around with.
4. Fidelity and honesty
This is pretty typical, but the things women are attracted to in a personality vary greatly. So it's really about finding someone YOU like.
Put down the shotgun and train to be a sniper. You might not hit as many targets but you'll get the one you're really going for.
These are my two personal likes/dislikes
1. I like a guy that makes fun of me in a buddy sort of way, that makes friendly digs on my personality that reveal my idiosyncrasies/ neuroticisms are really cute to them.
2. Can't stand fat guys. I'm not opposed to fat people in general, but I can't be sexually attracted to a fat man, because they look curvy like a girl. The last thing I want to think about in bed is a gut or big thighs or that the person I'm fucking has bigger boobs than me.
Fat guys are feminine, but thin guys/mildly built guys are good looking.
Muscles are gross if they look like they were built up in a gym/on the football field, but nice if they look natural, like someone's been fighting or running around in the woods. Overly built or synthetically athletic bodies, or the bodies of trained bulk athletes, completely repulse me.
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