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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Konyap]
#7674045 - 11/24/07 10:02 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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aiyobro said: nah it really fuggin isnt lol
imagine EVERYWHERE you go EVERYTIME you go out your being watched critisized, ect, i kno i can handle it sober, high, crunk, but if im ever trippin i dont wanna end up like someone on the news(if i get tight and dont do anythin my head litterally tweaks)
and i do mean everywhere, as in the county not a town...
Move elsewhere. Problem solved.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Konyap]
#7674057 - 11/24/07 10:10 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Are we talking simple insults, or slander?
If it's the first, just be amused at their ignorance and obvious lack of intelligence, and be grateful that you are above them.
If it's the second, then you may have to take them to court. I hate people like that - they have no place on this planet.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Konyap]
#7674065 - 11/24/07 10:16 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I can't believe some of you are so sensitive and prissy that you feel like you have to fight someone because they made fun of you. You guys must seriously have some self-esteem issues.
They are WORDS. We're not even talking about a physical object here. Words only have the power you give to them, so grow up and stop being such a baby.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Konyap]
#7674303 - 11/24/07 11:59 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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aiyobro said: nah it really fuggin isnt lol
imagine EVERYWHERE you go EVERYTIME you go out your being watched critisized, ect, i kno i can handle it sober, high, crunk, but if im ever trippin i dont wanna end up like someone on the news(if i get tight and dont do anythin my head litterally tweaks)
and i do mean everywhere, as in the county not a town...
You have to stand up for yourself. If someone fucks with you say something back or hit them.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Redstorm]
#7674318 - 11/24/07 12:04 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Redstorm said: I can't believe some of you are so sensitive and prissy that you feel like you have to fight someone because they made fun of you. You guys must seriously have some self-esteem issues.
They are WORDS. We're not even talking about a physical object here. Words only have the power you give to them, so grow up and stop being such a baby.
I dunno man...if the words are meant in a joking fashion then it's ok. If the insult is not terribly bad then sling one back. If the insult is BAD then hit the guy. That's how I roll. 
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7674321 - 11/24/07 12:07 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have no problem with saying something back, but I'm not going to hit somebody just because they say something to me.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Redstorm]
#7674331 - 11/24/07 12:10 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Redstorm said: I have no problem with saying something back, but I'm not going to hit somebody just because they say something to me.
Hm...you know you're right. Now that I think of it I don't hit people because of what they say either. I just tell them to fuck off or something. I only ever hit someone if I am defending myself or if I am enraged. Someone calling me a fag or something won't get me enraged. Excuse me...I was just trying to act like a badass there.
But, if it's happening all the time then that shit would get me enraged real quick. It's all about pride and respect. Homie.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7674391 - 11/24/07 12:28 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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in 1 ear and out the other..... just let it fly
Unless it gets to be all the time like others have said
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7674423 - 11/24/07 12:35 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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What...the hell...is he wearing? Is that some kind of weird leather man-corset?
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: cube428]
#7674427 - 11/24/07 12:36 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i think im jus gonna B.S. back, fighting, while im good at it, really isnt my style and i think thats jus as gay as the dude makin fun of me less of course im doin it for someone else, then fightin is the shit! all in all im jus learnin to deal with assholes one day at a time and who knows maybe ill be betta from it, well until im on nightly newz
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: adrug]
#7674431 - 11/24/07 12:38 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah. That's when he was going through his leather phase right before he got killed.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Konyap]
#7674440 - 11/24/07 12:39 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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It would help if you told us exactly what people are saying and what the circumstances were so that we can suggest an appropriate response.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Redstorm]
#7674452 - 11/24/07 12:42 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Redstorm said: I can't believe some of you are so sensitive and prissy that you feel like you have to fight someone because they made fun of you. You guys must seriously have some self-esteem issues.
They are WORDS. We're not even talking about a physical object here. Words only have the power you give to them, so grow up and stop being such a baby.
For real. How old are you 9?
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RandalFlagg said: It would help if you told us exactly what people are saying and what the circumstances were so that we can suggest an appropriate response.
Yeah your post makes NO sense dude
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7674506 - 11/24/07 12:54 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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basically people think im a pussy/gay but i really just dont like dealing with negative shit and im pretty good til i dont realize im mad and say somethin i dont mean to my friends (the last people i wanna say shit too) with sort of like a (where the fuck did that come from feelin in my head afterwards) like i had no control, i just blurt shit out when im mad and theyre like fam so we're all on a level we neva speak with anybody else. so it gets me tight that im hurtin my friends rather then the assholes i dont know whom are stressin me out but arent around to deal with it!
for ex i went to a club the other night and it was the same shit, i tweaked a lil since i was high n drunk, got inside n saw my friends and everyone else in the club were bored so i start dancin n shyt next thing i kno im dancin on a slippery wet floor goin with the momentum of me sliding then i fall back on purpose and start break dancing! the thing is i dont kno how to breakdance, no ones ever tried to teach me, but i had so much emotion the dancing jus felt natural, im literaly runnin around the floor spinnin on my hands/body then i get on my back and with the momentum and god knows wtf i did with my feet i fly out of it back into my dance style(playing with and invisible peice of string)
see right there i could have easily beat the shit out of anyone but instead i took my negative shit and put it elsewhere. thats me, i like doin shit like that cuz then i can look up and see other people like (that asshole got it poppin?!...)
but there aint gonna be times when i can jus do a hobby and level myself out, thats when im at college and niggas yell "fagget" so i just pretend i dont hear em and try to be happy meanwhile the kids im makin friendly convo with are tight i didnt stick up for myself so they get tight at me!
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Senor_Doobie]
#7674531 - 11/24/07 01:03 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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do you look anywhere near this fellow in my avatar? hopefully not, or that would b the problem.
everytime i got made fun of i always thought t0 myself "who is this POS, hating on me, chances are he pissed the bed, or was beat as a child...my skills and expertise will take me way farther than this fuck, it just a matter of time"
brush that dirt off ur sholders.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Caribou_Lou]
#7674542 - 11/24/07 01:08 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Just be glad people aren't making constantly making fun of you for taking pictures of yourself like this
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Konyap]
#7674557 - 11/24/07 01:14 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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aiyobro said: basically people think im a pussy/gay but i really just dont like dealing with negative shit and im pretty good til i dont realize im mad and say somethin i dont mean to my friends (the last people i wanna say shit too) with sort of like a (where the fuck did that come from feelin in my head afterwards) like i had no control, i just blurt shit out when im mad and theyre like fam so we're all on a level we neva speak with anybody else. so it gets me tight that im hurtin my friends rather then the assholes i dont know whom are stressin me out but arent around to deal with it!
for ex i went to a club the other night and it was the same shit, i tweaked a lil since i was high n drunk, got inside n saw my friends and everyone else in the club were bored so i start dancin n shyt next thing i kno im dancin on a slippery wet floor goin with the momentum of me sliding then i fall back on purpose and start break dancing! the thing is i dont kno how to breakdance, no ones ever tried to teach me, but i had so much emotion the dancing jus felt natural, im literaly runnin around the floor spinnin on my hands/body then i get on my back and with the momentum and god knows wtf i did with my feet i fly out of it back into my dance style(playing with and invisible peice of string)
see right there i could have easily beat the shit out of anyone but instead i took my negative shit and put it elsewhere. thats me, i like doin shit like that cuz then i can look up and see other people like (that asshole got it poppin?!...)
but there aint gonna be times when i can jus do a hobby and level myself out, thats when im at college and niggas yell "fagget" so i just pretend i dont hear em and try to be happy meanwhile the kids im makin friendly convo with are tight i didnt stick up for myself so they get tight at me!
Well, first of all I can barely understand what you are trying to say. It sounds like you need to carry yourself better. If you're not an alpha male type then at least be quiet so you'll look more stoic and shit.
But, I can give advice on the black guy thing. The brutha's love to gather in packs and give shit to us white guys (especially if they outnumber you). Give it right back to them. I've noticed that when you stand up to them once they never fuck with you again.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: RandalFlagg]
#7674654 - 11/24/07 01:56 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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RandalFlagg said:
But, I can give advice on the black guy thing. The brutha's love to gather in packs and give shit to us white guys (especially if they outnumber you). Give it right back to them. I've noticed that when you stand up to them once they never fuck with you again.
i didnt mean black by niggas but he's completly fuggin right, ive seen this before. guess i gotta get the juice back
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: jewunit]
#7674672 - 11/24/07 02:02 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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jewunit said: Haha, you fucking saps are so insecure you can't even handle people calling you names. Grow the fuck up and realize it's part of life, and stop fucking whining like littles cunts.
Thread was finished with jews post. Srsly.
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Re: How do you deal with name calling? [Re: Konyap]
#7674677 - 11/24/07 02:04 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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aDoS said: when people start name calling, I just remember that they are doing that because they are insecure with themselves
True in a lot of cases.
To the OP, i wouldn't worry about it, easy for me to say i know but yeah. You sound like someone who does what they feel like doing, so carry on with that and don't let em bring you down.
Collage won't last forever, once it's over that childish attitude doesn't really have a place anymore because we grow up and realize it's now in our interests to treat people as equals. Anyone who carries on being a dickhead probably really does have issues,, fuck them,,, you have your friends,,, let em say what they like.
If anything, being picked on a bit can be character building in the long run if you don't let it affect you badly.
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