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emilbus
Drunk

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If I wasn't with her I'd.............
#7665483 - 11/22/07 01:43 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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be out right now living it up with some sort of friend/s havin' a great fucking time. beyond that i would have more money cause not only would i work more, but i could get rid of so many damn, random ass expenses. my apartment would be much cleaner and have a lot more shit thats my style. i would have more money. i would have a 98' chevy silverado, black on black, tinted windows, and a nice sound system. (cant have this anymore cause its not a "family" vehicle. i would get more pussy, I'm not getting shit. i would have more money. i would not be so fucking annoyed. i could grow the amount of shrooms i want to grow. i could party a lot more with friends i don't have. i could just live my fucking life. i know a few of you have heard my story and i really don't care if you have. about 1 month ago i was ready to break up with my chick. i was off probation, i was out of debt, i got my license back. i had an apartment in my name. i had a great fucking job that would be perfect for a single guy and i was ready to move on (with out her). THEN THE FUCKING NEWS COMES!!!!!!!! "I'm pregnant". I'm fucking fucked! i was so damn close. this post goes out to all the guys who want to leave their chicks but haven't yet for some reason. DO IT NOW! RIGHT FUCKING NOW! before its too late.............
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Edited by emilbus (11/22/07 01:48 AM)
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TurntableJunky
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: emilbus]
#7665502 - 11/22/07 01:50 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Its not too late.
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: emilbus]
#7665510 - 11/22/07 01:52 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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happy thanksgiving!
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emilbus
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: 40oz]
#7665515 - 11/22/07 01:55 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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a 40oz to freedom is the only chance i have to feel good even though i feel bad
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Blend
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: emilbus]
#7665519 - 11/22/07 01:56 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Really, it's that bad? Is there no love at all? Honestly. I've gone through all of this in my head before. Not with the girl I'm with now, but a previous one. I stayed with her for two years, and it was a complete waste. Sometimes I think about how my life would be if I were still with her, and it makes me shudder. It can be pretty bad. I guess all you can do is look at the bright side. However small it may be. It's either that, or fuck it. Child support, or spending the rest of your life with someone you hate. In either case, your wallet is not going to be a happy one.
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emilbus
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: Blend]
#7665537 - 11/22/07 02:02 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dude, i know...... the only thing i care about now is a healthy child, which in this case i don't see happening. she wants to smoke all day, lay around all day, not eat healthy, not get any exercise and not take the meds the doctor prescribes. I'm not gonna lie, I HOPE ITS NOT MINE. if it is then great, but please let the mother fucker come out black or asian.
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sui
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: emilbus]
#7665719 - 11/22/07 04:06 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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paternity tests FTW!
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Yrtlzmo

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DeathCompany
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: Yrtlzmo]
#7665725 - 11/22/07 04:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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yeah the one thing i learned from my parents is, avoid having a kid at all costs and never EVER get married. Definitely get a paternity test, regardless of what the baby looks like. Hope things get better for you.
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Oracle Of Delphi
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: emilbus]
#7665753 - 11/22/07 05:28 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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It is obvious you are both NOT ready for parent hood -and smoking in the 1st trimester(when the baby is essentially being "put together" brain forming, capillaries being knit together, etc) is a shame against god(s)- and a crime , im sure. Its time to get the Authorities involved.
Please stop this. There is no such thing as forced abortion (yet) but if they stop her from smoking by way of a holding cell - then what ever damage that has been done can be halted. And that is the only thing you can look forward to at this point. It goes without saying, when you do this - be clean yourself - if possible - don't be living with her when you make the call - I'm sure she will point the finger at you and you'll be brought in for drug testing if she starts screaming "He gave them to me!!" Ive seen this scenario on afternoon court shows countless times. The end result is that the are both given drug tests. A test you CANT fail.
You however, need to find out why you attached yourself to a person who thinks its OK to smoke while preggers. And while you are at it - get ready to be a dad - cause no matter what you think is going to happen - short of abortion - or a DNA test proving you're not the father(which if you have doubt of paternity - now is the time) - you're going to be in that kids life, for 18+ years. And if because of her monstrous negligence, your entire life if she births a kid with mental retardation/serious birth defects)
Hers a number she an call to get help about being a monster. National Drug Help Hotline 1-800-662-4357
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TurntableJunky
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: Yrtlzmo]
#7665784 - 11/22/07 06:08 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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kidaihuan
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: TurntableJunky]
#7665850 - 11/22/07 06:56 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Jesus.
That makes me even more anti-abortion. (No, I'm not Christian.)
Do a paternity test, if it's positive, get yourself a good lawyer and get the fuck out now.
I mean a GOOD lawyer. A THOUSANDS of dollars lawyer.
Trust me, it will cost a LOT LESS that way.
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Oracle Of Delphi
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7665863 - 11/22/07 07:09 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I concur.
and thanks - that picture above is awful - im not anti abortion - i am anti unplanned pregnancy.
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CherryBom
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: emilbus]
#7666434 - 11/22/07 10:03 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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You chose this for yourself.
You have to change it. 
OoD is right on the money with her thoughts. This is a disgusting, dysfunctional situation. She's not thinking of the baby, you're not thinking of the baby and everyone is miserable.
It's really sad.
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: emilbus]
#7666465 - 11/22/07 10:13 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Once that baby is born, you don't have an option. You have to stay with it. If you aren't ready for a baby, then you are going to have to do something drastic. How far into the pregnancy is she? It sounds like you are really unhappy. You should talk to her about it. Because it you pussy out, you are just screwing yourself over more and more as each day passes. 9 months may seem like a while, but it most definately is not, and the sooner you talk to her about how you feel the better.
Hope everything works out with you.
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Caribou_Lou
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: DeathCompany]
#7666487 - 11/22/07 10:20 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
DeathCompany said: yeah the one thing i learned from my parents is, avoid having a kid at all costs and never EVER get married. Definitely get a paternity test, regardless of what the baby looks like. Hope things get better for you.
Exactly what I learned from my parents. I would have talked her into abortion.
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kidaihuan
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: dr_gonz]
#7666519 - 11/22/07 10:27 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dr_gonz said: there's always the possibility of misscarriage
Don't hold off and put your money on that though.
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Re: If I wasn't with her I'd............. [Re: kidaihuan]
#7666546 - 11/22/07 10:35 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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kidaihuan said:
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dr_gonz said: there's always the possibility of misscarriage
Don't hold off and put your money on that though.
A good, hard push down the stairs will usually up your chances, though!
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