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i want kids
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yep unlike most other guys my age i really really want kids,
i will be 24 next month and i don't have a girl friend or any girls i am even interested in,
im pretty ok in the looks department, and im pretty smart and willing to learn, and also have a prety nice personality, i work out and run every week day (got to chill on the weekends) and i am a hippie, and thats what noramlly turns girls off, they don't like that i do weed and other psychedelics ,
but im kinda sad today, becuase when i was like 13 or 14 somewere around there i really wanted to be maried and have kids by the time i was 24, there is n0o way that can happen now,
its really hard to find a nice hippie girl in the mid alantic nbowa days (virginia)
i just want to settle down with a nice hippie girl (and by hippie i mean a nice girl who shares my interestes (pscyhedelics and free love like the old days)
i dont know whats wrong with me but what ever it is im getting pissed about it!
sorry i had to be all mad at you guys aND SEND so many bad vibes and all but im drunk and feeling a little self loathing 
sorry to bog you all down with my retarded ass's problems
peace out Dm
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I want kids for two reasons
To continue my family name
To make them an experiment, play them different kinds of music and see how they turn out
Maybe we can start a traveling family band
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dutchmushroom
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lol,
my family name will go on on matter what, because of my cusin,
but i don't know why but i just really want kids, 3 little half me's running around would be so awesome, (2 boys and 1 girl is what i want)
im to drunk to be posting and i know it! damn me
-peace out DDDDDDDDMMM
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im don;t no really what? i should not drink drunk post, im deppressed, i wanna get married and have kids  
peace out Dm
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Sorry to drop the bomb but in my opinion wanting to have kids is an ego trip.
You have to ask yourself why? In a world which is full of abandoned children - why not adopt? In a world which is overpopulated why populate it more?
Of course nature wants you to procreate but does logic? What are the motivations? Honestly when you hunt them to the root?
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Re: i want kids [Re: Ego Death]
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buy one or two
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I really want to adopt one of my family members who's going to soon be orphaned.
Having a kid would be pretty cool, as long as you are responsible.
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Re: i want kids [Re: Ego Death]
#7653489 - 11/19/07 03:54 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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ok you adopt em while i make em
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my chicks pregnant right now and at first i thought it would be great but in the past few weeks everything has sort of kicked in and i really don't want kids, at all. I'm gonna try and be a good dad, but still. as far as experimenting, good luck with that. my chicks is about 12 weeks pregnant and all she does is cry and throw up. thats it. it might get better later on, but....... who the fuck knows.
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Re: i want kids [Re: Ego Death]
#7654586 - 11/19/07 12:37 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I really want the $500,000 or so that comes from raising kids for myself and my own selfish needs. Now if any kids that may pop out of me want to work in the coal mines to pay me back for all the food and clothing that I spent on them, that's another thing.
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Re: i want kids [Re: Cowgold]
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On the other hand, I'm a hippie chick from VA...Why don't you come up sometime and see me big boy
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dutchmushroom said: but im kinda sad today, becuase when i was like 13 or 14 somewere around there i really wanted to be maried and have kids by the time i was 24, there is n0o way that can happen now,
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dutchmushroom said: i just want to settle down with a nice hippie girl (and by hippie i mean a nice girl who shares my interestes (pscyhedelics and free love like the old days)
I bet when you were 13/14 you didn't think the mother of your kids would be some hairy stoned hippy chick that you drop acid with
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show us a pic?
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kids are just like dogs that grow up and learn to be ass holes.
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Re: i want kids [Re: aDoS]
#7654649 - 11/19/07 12:54 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i want kids as well. i am 22. my lady is 24. we would get started now, but we both want to finish school and get settled in our careers first.
i want kids for 2 reasons.
1. continue my bloodline. 2. someone has to raise some decent human beings to counteract all of these religious nuts and idiots in the world.
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Re: i want kids [Re: haymaker]
#7654677 - 11/19/07 01:03 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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haymaker said: show us a pic?
Eh, I'm nothing to sneeze at (what does that even mean...googling it now)
Edit: apparently it means I'm worthy. Used incorrectly, but I'll take it
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> i just want to settle down with a nice hippie girl (and by hippie i mean a nice girl who shares my interestes (pscyhedelics and free love like the old days)
> i dont know whats wrong with me but what ever it is im getting pissed about it!
Your problem is that you live in the wrong part of the country. All the hippie girls with any common sense have already moved to austin, tx or northern california / oregon / washington.
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aint that the fucking truth! (austin part)
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> aint that the fucking truth! (austin part)
Yes, that really is true. Austin is overflowing with the most badass, hottest and most friendly chicks on the planet.
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haymaker said: show us a pic?
Eh, I'm nothing to sneeze at (what does that even mean...googling it now)
Edit: apparently it means I'm worthy. Used incorrectly, but I'll take it
im sure your very attractive. i like your posts anyway
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Re: i want kids [Re: haymaker]
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Appreciate that. If you're looking for hippie chicks, there's a decent selection in parts of North Carolina
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hey hippie chick im from VA too. somewhere north of richmond. go shawty
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Re: i want kids [Re: skunkape]
#7654948 - 11/19/07 02:16 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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hangovers suck 
peace out Dm
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leftysurprise said:
2. someone has to raise some decent human beings to counteract all of these religious nuts and idiots in the world.
I never thought about that haha, that's awesome. I want kids just to see how well I can raise them, I think I'm going to be an awesome parent if I ever have kids.
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Honestly it kind of worries me that people from this site are planning/have kids. Theres no hope for the future.
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i cant wait till i have a kid.
it will be awesome.
i just hope i don't suck as much as my dad.
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Re: i want kids [Re: pong]
#7655130 - 11/19/07 02:51 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Statisticly speaking, your kid is already a loser.
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Re: i want kids [Re: Cowgold]
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Re: i want kids [Re: pong]
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Having a young mother is strongly correlated with a poor outcome for that child.
I'm not going to breed until i'm at least thirty.
I want to actually live some before parenting sucks all the joie de vivre out of me.
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Re: i want kids [Re: dr_gonz]
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hahaha adopting is stupid imo,the child will not be yours biologicly,, and lets cut thru the shit... you won't love it as much as you would if it was really yours, plus i don't want an asian or black baby,
i just want a kid, i want to be a little more finacialy secure tho first, and would like to live in a nicer neihborhood,
i don't want a kid just becuase. i want a kid becaUSE i remember my child hood, it was pure bliss and wonderful, before my mom started beating the shit out of me but thats a anopther thread and another forum, i want tro be able to teaCH HIM him or her, my values, and hopefully reise a good person who will be a bennifit to tyhe world (and who isint drunk like i am right now)
if you want to go adopt a child good for you! but i want achild of my own, nmot some kid that isint wanted, i think putting your child up for adoptio n is fuckiong terrible and i think the parents who did it should be beaten with heavy objects
peace out Dm
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i got a couple of adopted friends and they love their parents to death, and are more grateful because someone has given them a chance. they aren't like alot of spoiled shitheads bitching to their parents about wanting a new car.
biology can't get in the way of love, it's how they are treated, not bloodline, that is the outcome of the relationship.
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Re: i want kids [Re: Yrtlzmo]
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i wouldn't want to ever have children. I think bringing a child into the world is morally irresponsible, as the child will grow up to feel nothing but pain and exhaustion. I know I'm still pissed that my parents brought me here in the first place, and my dad's definitely pretty remorseful.
I wouldn't want to inflict life on anything. Not even a fish. Why do it to a human?
As for "instilling your values", that shit won't work. Kids are independent people and they will have their own values, which will most likely be in direct conflict with yours.
Plus they're draining, you never have any time to yourself, and they always end up hating you for ruining their childhood and bringing them into this shitty planet.
Don't have kids.
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LOL 
are you serious?
you act like life is a punishment for wandering souls. (ZOMG somebody had sex!!!! to prison you go free soul!!! )
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Re: i want kids [Re: Yrtlzmo]
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are you serious?
you act like life is a punishment for wandering souls. (ZOMG somebody had sex!!!! to prison you go free soul!!! )
life is a punishment for wandering souls. when we have spent enough time alive, we will leave. that's not to say life isn't fun sometimes, but on the whole, yes, it does tend to suck. I don't think it's wrong to have sex, but you should be protected and know where the local abortion clinic is.
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kriminalelement said: As for "instilling your values", that shit won't work. Kids are independent people and they will have their own values, which will most likely be in direct conflict with yours.
Tell that to the millions of religious people in the world.
i have. I come from a very religious background. Obviously it didn't work with me, or my sister, or ANY of my cousins. A child is an individual, not a piece of putty you can fuck around with and bend every which way. At the base, trying to "instill your values" is egotistical and disrespectful.
But whatever, let's all pat ourselves on the back. Aren't humans just GREAT. Aren't children just little miracles?
Having a child is as much of a miracle as eating a sandwich and taking a shit. ~BH
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ooooooops sorry, i rained on the procreation parade.
here's to knocking up poor, stupid hos:
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you have much to learn.
it is not egotistical nor disrespectful to let your children know what ideas and values have helped you through life. are all of your parents values negative? they never taught you not to fart in public, or not to bite the hand that feeds you?
these are values that are definitely not egotistical of selfish to instill on your child.
do you have a little bro/sis?
i have watched 3 of my younger brothers grow up and i tell you its pretty fucking cool. children are the only thing we have in this world that is pure and full of potential.
and good parenting is not telling your kids "hey learn these values"
but rather they learn from watching you. i tell you the tricks i have learned from my parents have gotten me very far in life up to date.
btw, i believe that with each new baby is a new consciousness, not some reincarnation. this consciousness will die when the baby dies. not wander the universe. maybe join a collective consciousness where all is one, but definitely not a lone soul.
i find your outlook on children to be very depressing and i have had so many girls tell me this same load of crap over and over. i think u are all just afraid to squeeze one out, or god forbid take care of something other than yourselves. having children is the ultimate act of selflessness for your life is no longer about you, but your children.
please think about the children, they are not your enemy.
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dutchmushroom said: yep unlike most other guys my age i really really want kids,
i will be 24 next month and i don't have a girl friend or any girls i am even interested in,
im pretty ok in the looks department, and im pretty smart and willing to learn, and also have a prety nice personality, i work out and run every week day (got to chill on the weekends) and i am a hippie, and thats what noramlly turns girls off, they don't like that i do weed and other psychedelics ,
but im kinda sad today, becuase when i was like 13 or 14 somewere around there i really wanted to be maried and have kids by the time i was 24, there is n0o way that can happen now,
its really hard to find a nice hippie girl in the mid alantic nbowa days (virginia)
i just want to settle down with a nice hippie girl (and by hippie i mean a nice girl who shares my interestes (pscyhedelics and free love like the old days)
i dont know whats wrong with me but what ever it is im getting pissed about it!
sorry i had to be all mad at you guys aND SEND so many bad vibes and all but im drunk and feeling a little self loathing 
sorry to bog you all down with my retarded ass's problems
peace out Dm
Sober up.
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Re: i want kids [Re: GnuBobo]
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The only fault I see in your argument DM is the part about having 3 kids with a woman and choosing a relationship with free love involved. How can you be sure those children were yours?
I think kids are great but I wouldn't rush into a decision that once made can't be unmade.
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peace out bsg
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I'm 19 and I want kids.
Just the idea of a mini-me is awesome I think.
Also, I will force them to play instruments from a young age so they become virtuoso's and can buy me a nice mansion when I'm older.
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cool
peace out bsg
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Re: i want kids [Re: BIGSWANG]
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i find your outlook on children to be very depressing and i have had so many girls tell me this same load of crap over and over. i think u are all just afraid to squeeze one out, or god forbid take care of something other than yourselves. having children is the ultimate act of selflessness for your life is no longer about you, but your children.
please think about the children, they are not your enemy.
WONT SOMEBODY PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN?????
Good lord. Did you get whacked over the head with a misogyny stick today? Is the only route to being selfless for women HAVING BABIES? If you read my posts (which you didn't, I clearly state I have siblings) I don't intimate that children are the enemies of adults.
What I am implying is that ADULTS are so fucked up that they are the enemy of children. I've seen many female friends raped by their close relatives, their dates, their boyfriends, their fathers, abused and kicked around and given no love, driven to addiction and suicide, that there is no way I would ever have children. I've seen this happen to male friends too, but their drive to poke holes in condoms and tie women up in a kitchen on a four-foot chain seems to supersede their past experiences.
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and fuck you for thinking my well founded opinions stem from a lack of knowledge. has it ever occurred to you that other people's opinions might be valid, even if they're in disagreement with yours?
Oh please, wise man-master, teach me EVERYTHING you know about childbearing! You know better what is good for me! I guess I won't have to think anymore. Thanks!!!!!!
Good luck finding a nice chick to pump out your babies. OOOOOH, is she ever going to get fat.
And her pussy will get so wide you'll never feel it when you fuck her. After the first few it'll be a natural deterrent.
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Phumfeinz said: I'm 19 and I want kids.
Just the idea of a mini-me is awesome I think.
Also, I will force them to play instruments from a young age so they become virtuoso's and can buy me a nice mansion when I'm older.
i had that same idea until i realized my parents tried to force me to play guitar when i was like 6, but i hated it just for the fact that i was being forced to do it...
i picked the guitar up later myself and i love it
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Ok, so not force per say, but gently nudge in the right direction.
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wow, thats kinda funny
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Re: i want kids [Re: BIGSWANG]
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ahahaha i just have this image of this deadhead parents yelling at his kiD, "jam MOTHERFUCKER, JAM!!!!:
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I want kids too. I think I'd like to have 2 of my own, and then adopt 2 more. But like you, I first need to find a mother for them.
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You fucked up a masterpiece
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i found it more fitting of Osiris quite frankly
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haha
peace out bsg
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Re: i want kids [Re: BIGSWANG]
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BIGSWANG said: haha
peace out bsg
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ok
peace out bsg
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Re: i want kids [Re: BIGSWANG]
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haha
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Re: i want kids [Re: dr_gonz]
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me too!
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Re: i want kids [Re: dr_gonz]
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Good for you for wanting to have a family of your own. Not to sound judgmental or anything, but have you ever cared for children of any age, for any length of time??
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Re: i want kids [Re: Liz]
#7659987 - 11/20/07 05:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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thats a good question
peace out bsg
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Re: i want kids [Re: Kid_Orgo]
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Kid_Orgo said: Having a young mother is strongly correlated with a poor outcome for that child.
I'm not going to breed until i'm at least thirty.
I want to actually live some before parenting sucks all the joie de vivre out of me.
i wanted to wait until i was 30, but my woman is 2 years older than me and she refuses to wait until shes 32 so..... lol
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good point, my woman is 4 years older than me, so she def wants them sooner than i do
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Don't. I agree with Ego Death. Just adopt if you really want kids....or get the license to own a monkey. Monkeys are funnier, and less of a pain in the ass.
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haha
peace out bsg
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if the government didint make adoption such a fucking hassle, id consider it. its alot of bullshit. my aunt adopted a girl. they really dont make it easy on you.
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Good for you for wanting to have a family of your own. Not to sound judgmental or anything, but have you ever cared for children of any age, for any length of time??
yesi have, i used to care for a love my little sister, untill my mom took her away when she split,
i love kids, i would actually probly baby sit for some extra spare change everyonce and awhile if i didint look like a fuckin hippie as wreck,
some people enjoy kids some dont' i happen to really really like them, and i don't fucking care if my baby wakes me up in the fucking midle of the night 10 times a day, because they need to be fed or take a shit, my dogf does that to me anyway,
i guess i just have the matternal instict
please excuse my terrible spelling im drunk
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How old is your sister? Again, I'm not trying to sound judgmental, but caring for a baby sister, or even babysitting is a far cry from parenting. It might sound like a great idea to have a kid and carry on your bloodlines, and you might even have a strong maternal instinct, but when it comes right down to it, having a kid is incredibly hard work - not to mention very expensive. But hey, best of luck to ya finding a girl to have kids with - I hope it turns out to be all that you were expecting!
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Well, first of all dude.. you need a woman to have kids with.
Then you gotta make sure she wants kids. Then you gotta make sure she'd be a good mother (not chronically insane) Then you gotta make sure you'd be a good father.
Why do you want kids anyway? The world is already overpopulated enough, and it's not getting any better. Adoption is a good option, there are already a lot of parentless kids out there that need a home. Assuming you can support your kids. Because deadbeat parents suck ass. Biological or not.
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Re: i want kids [Re: Shroomism]
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THE WORLD IS NOT OVERPOPULATED
we could fit every single person in the world inside of texas, and give them each 1000 sq feet of land.
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Re: i want kids [Re: BIGSWANG]
#7662093 - 11/21/07 09:44 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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make the world happy adopt someone elses mistake
fuck that
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This thread is fuckin' crazy, I tell ya whut! 
For my part, I probably wouldn't adopt for a few reasons (though I don't think it's a bad idea). Given that my family lineage has no history of chronic disease, mental retardation, all my blood relatives have lived long lives, are intelligent and successful; I think that my genes are worthy of contributing positively to the aggregate gene pool. Of course, if when the time comes that I am inclined to have a child and I am with a woman who may have a history of physical or mental challenges, I would be much more inclined to adopt. I believe an adopted child can be loved just the same, especially if you choose a newborn.
I don't really know where I'm going with this whole post - I was just really turned off by some of the opinions here, like those expressed by kriminalelement, and felt like perhaps I could add a dash of positive thinking and compassion to it all. Of course, I can accept that some people have experienced or seen the darker elements of human behavior which can in turn strongly sour their opinions on childbearing and the human experience at large. That is unfortunate and I would want these people to know that it is possible to be brought up in a loving home, with a sense of independence but also respect and a thirst for knowledge and experience.
I have lived a life now a quarter-century running, and while I've had plenty of down moments, on the whole it has been the most amazing experience I can ever have imagined. I have choice, opportunity, chance, so many possibilities. If you find that your life isn't living up to your standards, you have the power to change it in hopes that it starts to turn to your benefit. It may not always be easy, and you won't always get everything you want... but if you try some time, you just might find, you get what you need!

I just wish I could dump buckets of love on all of you cats that seem so down on yourselves and the world. There is so much out there, try not to let depression blind and cripple you. If all else fails, change again. It doesn't always work, but it doesn't always fail either. You can change, but you have to make the decision yourself!
Good luck everyone, and Happy Holidays.
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Re: i want kids [Re: geokills]
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good post
peace out bsg
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