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Liz
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How old is your sister? Again, I'm not trying to sound judgmental, but caring for a baby sister, or even babysitting is a far cry from parenting. It might sound like a great idea to have a kid and carry on your bloodlines, and you might even have a strong maternal instinct, but when it comes right down to it, having a kid is incredibly hard work - not to mention very expensive. But hey, best of luck to ya finding a girl to have kids with - I hope it turns out to be all that you were expecting!
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Shroomism
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Well, first of all dude.. you need a woman to have kids with.
Then you gotta make sure she wants kids. Then you gotta make sure she'd be a good mother (not chronically insane) Then you gotta make sure you'd be a good father.
Why do you want kids anyway? The world is already overpopulated enough, and it's not getting any better. Adoption is a good option, there are already a lot of parentless kids out there that need a home. Assuming you can support your kids. Because deadbeat parents suck ass. Biological or not.
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Re: i want kids [Re: Shroomism]
#7661907 - 11/21/07 08:34 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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THE WORLD IS NOT OVERPOPULATED
we could fit every single person in the world inside of texas, and give them each 1000 sq feet of land.
peace out bsg
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alphabeatu
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Re: i want kids [Re: BIGSWANG]
#7662093 - 11/21/07 09:44 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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make the world happy adopt someone elses mistake
fuck that
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This thread is fuckin' crazy, I tell ya whut! 
For my part, I probably wouldn't adopt for a few reasons (though I don't think it's a bad idea). Given that my family lineage has no history of chronic disease, mental retardation, all my blood relatives have lived long lives, are intelligent and successful; I think that my genes are worthy of contributing positively to the aggregate gene pool. Of course, if when the time comes that I am inclined to have a child and I am with a woman who may have a history of physical or mental challenges, I would be much more inclined to adopt. I believe an adopted child can be loved just the same, especially if you choose a newborn.
I don't really know where I'm going with this whole post - I was just really turned off by some of the opinions here, like those expressed by kriminalelement, and felt like perhaps I could add a dash of positive thinking and compassion to it all. Of course, I can accept that some people have experienced or seen the darker elements of human behavior which can in turn strongly sour their opinions on childbearing and the human experience at large. That is unfortunate and I would want these people to know that it is possible to be brought up in a loving home, with a sense of independence but also respect and a thirst for knowledge and experience.
I have lived a life now a quarter-century running, and while I've had plenty of down moments, on the whole it has been the most amazing experience I can ever have imagined. I have choice, opportunity, chance, so many possibilities. If you find that your life isn't living up to your standards, you have the power to change it in hopes that it starts to turn to your benefit. It may not always be easy, and you won't always get everything you want... but if you try some time, you just might find, you get what you need!

I just wish I could dump buckets of love on all of you cats that seem so down on yourselves and the world. There is so much out there, try not to let depression blind and cripple you. If all else fails, change again. It doesn't always work, but it doesn't always fail either. You can change, but you have to make the decision yourself!
Good luck everyone, and Happy Holidays.
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BIGSWANG
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Re: i want kids [Re: geokills]
#7662653 - 11/21/07 12:16 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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good post
peace out bsg
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