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Limerick
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Lust
#7644403 - 11/16/07 02:07 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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lately i can't get my mind off this girl that i've been talking to. I think about her WAY too much. she's just really sexy. I love talking to her, too but I can tell she is not the girl for me. But I cannot stop thinking about her. What am I to do about this? Do I ride this shit out?
Oh god, what a rough week
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MushroomTrip
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Hmmm first of all, what makes you think she's not the girl for you?
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Limerick
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MushroomTrip said: Hmmm first of all, what makes you think she's not the girl for you?
she's very social and outgoing. I'm the complete opposite. but I can manage to make her laugh and relate to her in some ways. she's very flirty and talks to a lot of guys. I guess i've always seen myself with a girl not quite like that.
but my mind's has fallen into the loop of just constantly thinking about her and I don't know if she's attracted to me at all.
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unbeliever
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Limerick said:
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MushroomTrip said: Hmmm first of all, what makes you think she's not the girl for you?
she's very social and outgoing. I'm the complete opposite. but I can manage to make her laugh and relate to her in some ways. she's very flirty and talks to a lot of guys. I guess i've always seen myself with a girl not quite like that.
but my mind's has fallen into the loop of just constantly thinking about her and I don't know if she's attracted to me at all.
I get that sometimes, partly because I'm a dirty old man and partly because I have an obsessive mentality sometimes. Sometimes you can just focus on ignoring it and distract yourself with other thoughts. Other times you have to over-fixate on it on purpose until it gets old and boring.
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MushroomTrip
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Limerick said:
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MushroomTrip said: Hmmm first of all, what makes you think she's not the girl for you?
she's very social and outgoing. I'm the complete opposite. but I can manage to make her laugh and relate to her in some ways. she's very flirty and talks to a lot of guys. I guess i've always seen myself with a girl not quite like that.
but my mind's has fallen into the loop of just constantly thinking about her and I don't know if she's attracted to me at all.
Well it seems to me that you have to make up your mind, which right now seems to be split it two. A part keeps wondering if she's attracted to you, and the other thinks that you are incompatible. If you know that you are incompatible, all you need to do is simply stop wondering whether or not she's interested in you, because even if she would be, you're not good for each other. If you decide to take action in finding out how she feels about you, then you should reconsider your compatibility.
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Middleman

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Girls are evil, they suck your soul out through your wiener.
Just kidding... exercise, deep breathing and meditation help relieve lust. Making music and art really help one get over an infatuation...
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Silversoul
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I find that whenever my hormones are getting the best of me, the feeling quickly goes away after busting a nut to some porn. I think a good test of whether it's lust or something more is how you feel about the girl when you're not horny.
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Limerick
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Silversoul said: I find that whenever my hormones are getting the best of me, the feeling quickly goes away after busting a nut to some porn. I think a good test of whether it's lust or something more is how you feel about the girl when you're not horny.
Well I guess it's not really lust, then. :\
its something a little more, I suppose. hopefully this will fade off.
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Limerick said: lately i can't get my mind off this girl that i've been talking to. I think about her WAY too much. she's just really sexy. I love talking to her, too but I can tell she is not the girl for me. But I cannot stop thinking about her. What am I to do about this? Do I ride this shit out?
Oh god, what a rough week
Turn her into a sexual fantasy and masturbate her into oblivion.
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Limerick
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perhaps I will...
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takk
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fuck her - what's stopping you?
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SampaJasli
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Re: Lust [Re: takk]
#7654369 - 11/19/07 11:48 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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take a risk!
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Limerick
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Re: Lust [Re: takk]
#7654829 - 11/19/07 01:45 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anarchyz0r said: fuck her - what's stopping you?
if only the world was so simple 
I'll keep it in mind, though
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Tangerines




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I can relate. I had this girl we really hit it off. I kissed her a few times and then she told me she did not think of me like that. and that was the end. Hang out with her and just kiss her. If she recieves it well then go for the kill. whether its asking her out or what.
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MushroomTrip
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So, let me get this straight: you liked a girl and you kissed her a few times and eventually she told you that she didn't like you like that. And now your advice to him is to kiss her and then if she kisses back (the same thing that the girl you liked did, only it turned out she was not into you), it means that it is safe for him to make the next move.  Maybe I'm missing something.
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Tangerines




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either way the longer you wait the harder it will become. I did not mention the girl I liked did not want it to go further was because I was going away to college and she was still in HS.
That being said if I would have stayed at home I am positive we would have developed a relationship. I did not know she liked me until I kissed her and she back that was sort of key to knowing.(after that there was verbal confirmation)
I am just saying if he kissed her and she kissed him back that is a good sign she is into him. Or she would just pull away.
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takk
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dude just dont be pussy mr nice guy about it sounds like that's what's been happening all this time and she just percieves you as friend so technically you've already screwed yourself over
so how well does she really know you?
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