|
lIllIIIllIlIIlIlIIllIllIIl
Stranger

Registered: 12/16/04
Posts: 11,123
Loc: Texas
|
simple question
#7642020 - 11/15/07 09:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
is there anything right now more important to you than your own safety/well-being?
|
im_on_a_boat
Stranger

Registered: 04/06/06
Posts: 3,950
|
|
yes. the safety/well-being of my parents and my girlfriend..
how about you?
|
PhanTomCat
Teh Cat....



Registered: 09/07/04
Posts: 5,908
Loc: My Youniverse....
Last seen: 14 years, 11 months
|
|
Quote:
adjust said: is there anything right now more important to you than your own safety/well-being?
Yes.... 
>^;;^<
-------------------- I'll be your midnight French Fry.... "The most important things in life that are often ignored, are the things that one cannot see...." >^;;^<
|
lIllIIIllIlIIlIlIIllIllIIl
Stranger

Registered: 12/16/04
Posts: 11,123
Loc: Texas
|
|
this is a two part question. i will ask the second part later
|
eeso
Str@nger

Registered: 03/25/07
Posts: 554
|
|
definitely - living life fully with dedication. 'complete attention.' Or rather figuring out how to do so and doing it.
In the meantime I seem to have lost my 'fear' of death - but instead of embracing life the mindset has evolved to more of an indifference and slight apathy.
Bummer?
|
Crasher
αἱρετίζω



Registered: 03/13/01
Posts: 6,220
Loc: Tardy to the Party
|
Re: simple question [Re: eeso]
#7642155 - 11/15/07 10:12 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
The safety and wellbeing of my wife and son, followed by brothers in arms, then me.
-------------------- Give me silence, water, hope; Give me struggle, iron, volcanoes...
|
NiamhNyx
I'm NOT a 'he'



Registered: 09/01/02
Posts: 3,198
Last seen: 14 years, 8 months
|
Re: simple question [Re: Crasher]
#7642288 - 11/15/07 10:46 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
There are lots of things 'more important' than my personal safety and well-being.
|
Rahz
Alive Again


Registered: 11/10/05
Posts: 9,230
|
|
I think physical and mental health are most important, with the stipulations that it's OK to be crazy in the eyes of society, and that safety and well-being not be overly associated with health.
-------------------- rahz comfort pleasure power love truth awareness peace "You’re not looking close enough if you can only see yourself in people who look like you." —Ayishat Akanbi
|
elbisivni
Registered: 10/01/06
Posts: 2,839
|
|
Self-preservation is #1 except in some hypothetical situations in which a purpose for self-sacrifice overrules.
-------------------- From dust you are made and to dust you shall return.
|
lIllIIIllIlIIlIlIIllIllIIl
Stranger

Registered: 12/16/04
Posts: 11,123
Loc: Texas
|
|
next part of the question, (if yes) is this a conscious choice or is it compelled/instinctual?
|
Boots
Disenchanted


Registered: 07/25/07
Posts: 1,137
Loc: Northwood, Ohio, U.S.A.
Last seen: 15 years, 2 months
|
|
No. Because every thing I care about (art, money, friends, etc) is all detrimental to my safety and/or well-being.
|
Lion
Decadent Flower Magnate



Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 8,775
Last seen: 3 days, 20 hours
|
Re: simple question [Re: eeso]
#7643295 - 11/16/07 08:30 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
In the meantime I seem to have lost my 'fear' of death - but instead of embracing life the mindset has evolved to more of an indifference and slight apathy.
Hmm, if that's the case maybe you should look deeper. Have you really lost the fear or has it just been dulled and made unconscious?
-------------------- “Strengthened by contemplation and study, I will not fear my passions like a coward. My body I will give to pleasures, to diversions that I’ve dreamed of, to the most daring erotic desires, to the lustful impulses of my blood, without any fear at all, for whenever I will— and I will have the will, strengthened as I’ll be with contemplation and study— at the crucial moments I’ll recover my spirit as was before: ascetic.”
|
MushroomTrip
Dr. Teasy Thighs



Registered: 12/02/05
Posts: 14,794
Loc: red panda village
Last seen: 2 years, 10 months
|
Re: simple question [Re: Boots]
#7643322 - 11/16/07 08:46 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Boots said: No. Because every thing I care about (art, money, friends, etc) is all detrimental to my safety and/or well-being.
Can you please explain?
--------------------
   All this time I've loved you And never known your face All this time I've missed you And searched this human race Here is true peace Here my heart knows calm Safe in your soul Bathed in your sighs
|
redgreenvines
irregular verb


Registered: 04/08/04
Posts: 37,532
|
|
the whole web of people and things I know and care about are all interconnected in such a way that this slightly higher target becomes most important to me.
--------------------
_ 🧠 _
|
MushroomTrip
Dr. Teasy Thighs



Registered: 12/02/05
Posts: 14,794
Loc: red panda village
Last seen: 2 years, 10 months
|
|
Yes, but I was wondering on how can this be detrimental to one's well being.
--------------------
   All this time I've loved you And never known your face All this time I've missed you And searched this human race Here is true peace Here my heart knows calm Safe in your soul Bathed in your sighs
|
Icelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery



Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 95,368
Loc: underbelly
|
|
Quote:
adjust said: is there anything right now more important to you than your own safety/well-being?
NO!
This question will mislead some here for sure. While many like to "think" that there are more important things, delving into their actions and motivations will always show that the individual always comes first and foremost to themselves. Even if they take risks for others or care about others they do it because they believe it is the "right" thing (satisfies their self image as good or right) to do or they "love" them (loving others brings us pleasure or we would not do it).
There is nothing wrong with caring for yourself more and does not in any way hamper one from doing good or being part of the greater community.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
|
Icelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery



Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 95,368
Loc: underbelly
|
Re: simple question [Re: Lion]
#7643405 - 11/16/07 09:21 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
bug said:
Quote:
In the meantime I seem to have lost my 'fear' of death - but instead of embracing life the mindset has evolved to more of an indifference and slight apathy.
Hmm, if that's the case maybe you should look deeper. Have you really lost the fear or has it just been dulled and made unconscious?
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
|
lIllIIIllIlIIlIlIIllIllIIl
Stranger

Registered: 12/16/04
Posts: 11,123
Loc: Texas
|
Re: simple question [Re: Icelander]
#7643533 - 11/16/07 10:06 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Icelander said:
Quote:
adjust said: is there anything right now more important to you than your own safety/well-being?
NO!
This question will mislead some here for sure. While many like to "think" that there are more important things, delving into their actions and motivations will always show that the individual always comes first and foremost to themselves. Even if they take risks for others or care about others they do it because they believe it is the "right" thing (satisfies their self image as good or right) to do or they "love" them (loving others brings us pleasure or we would not do it).
There is nothing wrong with caring for yourself more and does not in any way hamper one from doing good or being part of the greater community.
well said
i thought about this a long time
if you look at bees they sometimes kill themselves to help the hive as a whole... i wonder if humans have a similar behavior
if we do, it would probably be partly instinctual... i base that on my own thoughts
|
Icelander
The Minstrel in the Gallery



Registered: 03/15/05
Posts: 95,368
Loc: underbelly
|
|
Again, if we killed ourselves for the benefit of the whole we would do that because our personal beliefs dictate this as the best course of action to satisfy our self image. We do it because we consider it right and good and right and good bring us pleasure.
if you look at bees they sometimes kill themselves to help the hive as a whole.
Please don't try this at home.
-------------------- "Don't believe everything you think". -Anom. " All that lives was born to die"-Anom. With much wisdom comes much sorrow, The more knowledge, the more grief. Ecclesiastes circa 350 BC
Edited by Icelander (11/16/07 10:11 AM)
|
lIllIIIllIlIIlIlIIllIllIIl
Stranger

Registered: 12/16/04
Posts: 11,123
Loc: Texas
|
Re: simple question [Re: Icelander]
#7643563 - 11/16/07 10:17 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
|
|
 i like bees
|
|