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emilbus
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I'M DONE!!!
#7629496 - 11/13/07 09:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i think I'm gonna ask this bitch to move back in with her parents. fo all of you who don't know my g/f is pregnant and was pissing me off for the last few days. anyway for a while i thought she was still smoking bud behind my back while she was pregnant with my kid, but i shrugged it off since we both use to talk so much shit about the people who did smoke while they were pregnant. well now its out in the open and as of right now she left to go smoke with her brother. I'm not having this shit and i don't want her staying here if thats what shes going to be doing. basically I'm going to ask her to pack her shit and move in with her parents. I'm going to be fucked though cause its her car which will be taken away this month anyway. they gave her an extra month to pay on it which i was going to pay, tomorrow actually. i think me kicking her out will fuck up the relationship but if she cant choose me and the kid over smoking then fuck it. the only thing that will suck for me is i don't have a ride to work and i will end up paying child support. I'm thinking about riding a bike but this shit will be so fucking embarrassing. everyone at my work has fucking bad ass cars because of the money we make but here i am rolling up, or should i say peddling up on a bike. I'm so tired of this shit. this is not how shit was suppose to be. she was suppose to have a clean non smoking pregnancy, i was going to work extra hard to have that money, we were going to get rid of the car we have now and get a cheaper one and then deal with the new problems that babies bring. I'm really starting to hate this bitch and I'm losing a lot of respect.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629586 - 11/13/07 09:50 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i'm only 5 words in and you're already making a mistake.
word #5: "ask"
wrong bitch, you're going to TELL HER she's moving back in with her parents
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: memes]
#7629590 - 11/13/07 09:50 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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p.s. get proof she is smoking so if you do eventually decide to fight for custody of the kid you got some good evidence she's a shit mom.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: memes]
#7629614 - 11/13/07 09:58 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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how would i go about this?
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629620 - 11/13/07 10:01 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: Atheist]
#7629628 - 11/13/07 10:05 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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LOL... yeah use an audio recorder too for good measure. Get that Bitch. I would. MUAHAHAHAHAHaaaa
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emilbus
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i told her like 30 minutes ago shes moving the fuck out. i told her how I'm not gonna have shit to do with her smoking with my kid and if she has to hit me up for child support. i then threatened her by saying that i will inform her OBGYN that shes smoking and she needs to be drug tested that way it will be on actual file. i told her she will be gone by 3 today.
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Go to Walmart and borrow a camercorder. As long as you keep the packaging and receipt they'll give you a refund. Just set it up in the room where she usually smokes in a hidden spot. She doesn't sound like a fit mother.
If you do turn it around once the baby is born you could get the kid and have her send you child support payments.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629777 - 11/13/07 10:52 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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While I don't condone any drug use during pregnancies, the studies I've seen show minimal effects on the child from smoking pot. Cigarettes are another story.
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Quote:
circularvortex said: Go to Walmart and borrow a camercorder. As long as you keep the packaging and receipt they'll give you a refund. Just set it up in the room where she usually smokes in a hidden spot. She doesn't sound like a fit mother.
If you do turn it around once the baby is born you could get the kid and have her send you child support payments.
ftw!
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629788 - 11/13/07 10:54 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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is that her in your avatar?
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: Atheist]
#7629800 - 11/13/07 10:56 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dont use a camcorder unless you know you can set it up and have it running and plan your argument in a certain place.
voice recorders fit in a pocket and can be taken anywhere the argument over her smoking is.
FUCK THAT BITCH
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: BIGSWANG]
#7629810 - 11/13/07 10:57 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dude, no shame in riding a bike - if i could ride a bike to work, i'd be fucking ecstatic. the fact is most people aren't close enough to work and usually NEED a car, so if you can get by without one - DO IT! it's cheap as shit, and who cares about their badass cars - they come with badass payments too.
p.s. - good move on your situation with the girl
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: BIGSWANG]
#7629833 - 11/13/07 11:03 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I would let a women im with who is pregnant smoke herb, harmless enough. I would be pissed if she was hidding it from me though.
Herb is fine during pregnancy as far as I know, I just dont like seeing pregnant women smoking cigarettes, that cant be good for the baby.
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emilbus
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now everyone is telling me its okay to smoke. shes already out and she looks hurt as fuck. as mad as Ive been i feel like shit now. i just don't want her smoking with my kid. I'm not abandoning her or the baby i just don't want any part in her smoking. i really don't know what the fuck to do now. my only problems were her smoking and not working. i need some serious advice now, and yes I'm asking online cause all my friends are idiots and i really don't want to hear what my parents have to say
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629934 - 11/13/07 11:20 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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there is no proof that smoking weed hurts a child during pregnancy
there is no proof that it doesnt either, personally, i dont think a woman should be doing this when she is pregnant
stick to your guns man, you may feel like shit, but how hard is it not to smoke for 9 months. She has your child in her stomach, you have every right to let her know how you feel.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629943 - 11/13/07 11:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Take a deep breath and think it over. If you want her back, it may not be too late. But make sure it's what you want.
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i want her back i just dont want her to smoke. what if i just fucked our whole relationship up over smoking. i know its bad but i really dont think i should turn my back to it. i think i jumped to quick to this. FUCK!! i really dont know what to do now.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629978 - 11/13/07 11:28 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dont second guess yourself
you dont want her smoking weed while she is pregnant, i dont think that is too much to ask
if she has a problem with it, then get the fuck out
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629984 - 11/13/07 11:29 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Before kicking her out, did you try talking it over with her about how you were concerned about her smoking? Look, couples fight all the time, and often they say or do things that they regret. Now, I don't know her, so I'm not sure how she'll react, but you may still have a chance to reconcile things with her and discuss how you feel.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629998 - 11/13/07 11:31 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Go smoke a blunt with her. Seriously, I've never heard anyone make such a big deal about smoking pot while pregnant.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: BIGSWANG]
#7630011 - 11/13/07 11:34 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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do you smoke? why not tell her you'll give up for the pregnancy if she does. or offer some other kind of support she probably feels really stressed out about having a child growing inside her so if you make her life a bit easier in some small way maybe she'll repay you by respecting your opinion on this
not trying to say you're not doing that already but she might feel like she's the only one dealing with the pregnancy, even if she's mistaken.
just handling it aggressively and camcording her and shit is lame, it won't get you anywhere and she'll still smoke in secret, probably even more just to spite you for being an asshole threatening her
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: sam420]
#7630117 - 11/13/07 11:55 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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well i just talk to her and let her know and she says she doesn't smoke a lot and she will stop. her argument is that it kills the nausea and helps her eat more which i can believe. shes not moving out and i guess the way she was talking was that she did feel as if she was the only one dealing with the pregnancy. i explained to her that I'm also stressed cause of our money situation and so forth. shes going to stay at her friends house for a little while then come back. besides if she moves out she would just smoke more. all i know is that I'm going to be really fucking stressed out for the next few months. this fucking sucks! why cant it be like it was back in the day where all you had to do was wait for the stork to drop that mother fucker off.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7630277 - 11/13/07 12:31 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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If you (the dad) honestly think that her smoking herb is going to effect the baby in some negative way, than she should respect that and never have done it. You should have a say in this matter, not just her. The thing that would piss me off the most about your situation is that she is sneaking around doing it behind your back.
I've heard a lot of ladies who said herb helped them a lot through their pregnancy with sickness and stress. Their babies turn out just fine. But smoking too often (over doing it) when your pregnant is kind of disrespectful to the baby in my eyes.
If my women was pregnant and wanted to smoke herb, I would go out and find her the finest bud/hash in the land, if it would help her. But I am a pot snob I guess, so I would downright refuse to let her smoke any mids/commercial/shwag when she has my baby in her. I dont want a shwag-smokin baby.:)
I would also let her use psilocybian mushrooms if she wanted. I've always wanted a shroom-baby.
Coffee and tea is OK with me too. But I would put my foot down with a women if she started taking pills and other unhealthy/illegal/synthetic/addictive substances, just because in my mind I don't think that would be healthy for the baby.
But I can see where your coming from man. Get the situation under control somehow..
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Moderation is key in my eyes. If she wants a glass of wine every once in a while, I would let her, I don't see any harm in that. But I take would it away from her if I saw her over-doing it.
Overall, I would greatly appreciate a women more if she didn't use any drugs or alcohol during pregnancy with my baby, but I suppose it doesn't always work out that way.
She is smoking bud i guess, so the secret is out now. Honestly what I would do is sit down with her and smoke a little doobie with her and finally have a rational conversation with her about everything that is on each of your minds. Smoking with her would probably put her and you both at ease. It puts the issue right on both of your laps.
If the problem lies in her smoking this herb, than I would just smoke one with her and see if that can change anything. What do have to lose at this point? You're threatening to kick her out, all hell is breaking loose, and you've got a baby on the way...
I'm just telling you what I would do, not meaning to convince you into something you don't believe.
At least she doesnt smoke cigarettes or crack. It always irks me to see a pregnant women lighting up a cigarette.
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well i don't and cant smoke so thats out of the question. things have calm down enough to where everyone is happy, for now. after today though she either sees how serious i am or that I'm a push over and she can get away with smoking. i will have to see. hopefully she took it as a serious sign that if it comes down to it i will make her move into her parents house. well i gotta get ready for a 12 hour shift, again. talk to yall later.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7685901 - 11/27/07 12:50 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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this bitch is really fucking with me now. she was sick for the past 2 months, she really couldn't do shit but lay on the couch and throw up. now that shes better she needs the car. i ask why and she says so shes not in the house laying around. i cant say shit cause its her car even though I'm paying for it. i can stop paying for it then i would be fucked for a ride to and from work. why the fuck dose she need the car all the sudden anyway. i swear to god this bitch is cheating on me. some how she has chlamydia and i know its not from me. i think who ever gave her chlamydia is the same person who got her pregnant which would be the same person she will be seeing while I'm at work. there's no fucking way i can prove this so all its going to do is sit in the back of my head. FUCK!
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7685962 - 11/27/07 12:56 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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damn well id say kick her out. then when the baby is born do a paternity test, find out its not yours, and say fuck it!
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: evolprim]
#7685976 - 11/27/07 12:59 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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but what if it is mine. what if I'm just being an insecure ass hole. i have been reading and it is possible for two people to have chlamydia for years and never know. what if she is just trying to get out of the house since she has been stuck here for a few months just being sick. half of me thinks she cheating and the other half doesn't.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7686038 - 11/27/07 01:19 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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gay couples never have these problems, that's for sure.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7686245 - 11/27/07 02:28 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Let your fetus smoke it up, man, poor little thing.
Only joking! Sucks to be you.
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