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emilbus
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I'M DONE!!!
#7629496 - 11/13/07 09:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i think I'm gonna ask this bitch to move back in with her parents. fo all of you who don't know my g/f is pregnant and was pissing me off for the last few days. anyway for a while i thought she was still smoking bud behind my back while she was pregnant with my kid, but i shrugged it off since we both use to talk so much shit about the people who did smoke while they were pregnant. well now its out in the open and as of right now she left to go smoke with her brother. I'm not having this shit and i don't want her staying here if thats what shes going to be doing. basically I'm going to ask her to pack her shit and move in with her parents. I'm going to be fucked though cause its her car which will be taken away this month anyway. they gave her an extra month to pay on it which i was going to pay, tomorrow actually. i think me kicking her out will fuck up the relationship but if she cant choose me and the kid over smoking then fuck it. the only thing that will suck for me is i don't have a ride to work and i will end up paying child support. I'm thinking about riding a bike but this shit will be so fucking embarrassing. everyone at my work has fucking bad ass cars because of the money we make but here i am rolling up, or should i say peddling up on a bike. I'm so tired of this shit. this is not how shit was suppose to be. she was suppose to have a clean non smoking pregnancy, i was going to work extra hard to have that money, we were going to get rid of the car we have now and get a cheaper one and then deal with the new problems that babies bring. I'm really starting to hate this bitch and I'm losing a lot of respect.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629586 - 11/13/07 09:50 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i'm only 5 words in and you're already making a mistake.
word #5: "ask"
wrong bitch, you're going to TELL HER she's moving back in with her parents
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: memes]
#7629590 - 11/13/07 09:50 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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p.s. get proof she is smoking so if you do eventually decide to fight for custody of the kid you got some good evidence she's a shit mom.
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emilbus
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: memes]
#7629614 - 11/13/07 09:58 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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how would i go about this?
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629620 - 11/13/07 10:01 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: Atheist]
#7629628 - 11/13/07 10:05 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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LOL... yeah use an audio recorder too for good measure. Get that Bitch. I would. MUAHAHAHAHAHaaaa
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emilbus
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i told her like 30 minutes ago shes moving the fuck out. i told her how I'm not gonna have shit to do with her smoking with my kid and if she has to hit me up for child support. i then threatened her by saying that i will inform her OBGYN that shes smoking and she needs to be drug tested that way it will be on actual file. i told her she will be gone by 3 today.
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Go to Walmart and borrow a camercorder. As long as you keep the packaging and receipt they'll give you a refund. Just set it up in the room where she usually smokes in a hidden spot. She doesn't sound like a fit mother.
If you do turn it around once the baby is born you could get the kid and have her send you child support payments.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629777 - 11/13/07 10:52 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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While I don't condone any drug use during pregnancies, the studies I've seen show minimal effects on the child from smoking pot. Cigarettes are another story.
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Quote:
circularvortex said: Go to Walmart and borrow a camercorder. As long as you keep the packaging and receipt they'll give you a refund. Just set it up in the room where she usually smokes in a hidden spot. She doesn't sound like a fit mother.
If you do turn it around once the baby is born you could get the kid and have her send you child support payments.
ftw!
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629788 - 11/13/07 10:54 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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is that her in your avatar?
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: Atheist]
#7629800 - 11/13/07 10:56 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dont use a camcorder unless you know you can set it up and have it running and plan your argument in a certain place.
voice recorders fit in a pocket and can be taken anywhere the argument over her smoking is.
FUCK THAT BITCH
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: BIGSWANG]
#7629810 - 11/13/07 10:57 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dude, no shame in riding a bike - if i could ride a bike to work, i'd be fucking ecstatic. the fact is most people aren't close enough to work and usually NEED a car, so if you can get by without one - DO IT! it's cheap as shit, and who cares about their badass cars - they come with badass payments too.
p.s. - good move on your situation with the girl
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: BIGSWANG]
#7629833 - 11/13/07 11:03 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I would let a women im with who is pregnant smoke herb, harmless enough. I would be pissed if she was hidding it from me though.
Herb is fine during pregnancy as far as I know, I just dont like seeing pregnant women smoking cigarettes, that cant be good for the baby.
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emilbus
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now everyone is telling me its okay to smoke. shes already out and she looks hurt as fuck. as mad as Ive been i feel like shit now. i just don't want her smoking with my kid. I'm not abandoning her or the baby i just don't want any part in her smoking. i really don't know what the fuck to do now. my only problems were her smoking and not working. i need some serious advice now, and yes I'm asking online cause all my friends are idiots and i really don't want to hear what my parents have to say
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629934 - 11/13/07 11:20 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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there is no proof that smoking weed hurts a child during pregnancy
there is no proof that it doesnt either, personally, i dont think a woman should be doing this when she is pregnant
stick to your guns man, you may feel like shit, but how hard is it not to smoke for 9 months. She has your child in her stomach, you have every right to let her know how you feel.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629943 - 11/13/07 11:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Take a deep breath and think it over. If you want her back, it may not be too late. But make sure it's what you want.
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emilbus
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i want her back i just dont want her to smoke. what if i just fucked our whole relationship up over smoking. i know its bad but i really dont think i should turn my back to it. i think i jumped to quick to this. FUCK!! i really dont know what to do now.
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629978 - 11/13/07 11:28 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dont second guess yourself
you dont want her smoking weed while she is pregnant, i dont think that is too much to ask
if she has a problem with it, then get the fuck out
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Re: I'M DONE!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7629984 - 11/13/07 11:29 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Before kicking her out, did you try talking it over with her about how you were concerned about her smoking? Look, couples fight all the time, and often they say or do things that they regret. Now, I don't know her, so I'm not sure how she'll react, but you may still have a chance to reconcile things with her and discuss how you feel.
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