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Crystal G



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Am I acting too much like an LE mole?
#7624462 - 11/12/07 03:26 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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So I'm trying to find a roommate and I've found several potential offers who seem perfect on the superficial level--that is, they are open-minded, holding steady jobs, and SEEM like they have stable personalities...
then I do a little snooping and back and forth Q&A's and find out a few things about them. for example, I find out that virtually all of them are hard drug addicts--big deal; I'd be a hypocrite otherwise if I said anything... but when I hear those words, all I can think about is how I'm really opening myself up to either get my things stolen, or my place raided.
then I find out some of them have guns. alright, these two things are already more than what most people would put with. I'd actually be willing to turn my cheek and pretend I dont give a shit about any of that so long as: 1) they dont bring forth ANY fucking drama, 2) they've got no warrants or criminal record as a felon, especially as a violent offender 3) they dont have any misdemeanor history of stealing or robbing people. 4) they also put their name on the lease and get their credit approved. 5) if the police ask, I knew absolutely nothing about the guns and they stay AWAY from my vicinity. no snitches.
would it be too much to ask each and every "iffy" potential roommate (and even the ones that ARENT "iffy") to do a background check at the police station? as scary as this sounds, I just want to make sure I wont be bullshitted or made a fool of, and anybody I room with can be tracked down. 
Do you guys do this with all your potential roommates? Is this standard procedure or what? Keep in mind I live in a city that isn't known for exactly being the most law-abiding city...
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624498 - 11/12/07 04:02 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Let's see; You take some guy back to your apartment and try to drug him in order to rob him and end up drugging yourself and throwing him out. I don't know who is more at risk here, you, or any roomate.
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Crystal G



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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Booby]
#7624511 - 11/12/07 04:17 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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^^LOL. yeah. thats exactly my point. i'd have no problem finding uni students, or females to room with, but then the problem flips over, because most of them wouldn't put up with ME or my habits. and I'd have a difficult time hiding it from them everyday if we are living together... especially with some of my friends coming over...
plus, boys are less high maintenance and I wouldnt get bitched out for doing or not doing random shit.
I dunno, its difficult to draw the line between who I would have an amicable relationship with, and who would end up accepting who, and who would end up fucking me over.
I'm totally becoming a misanthropist.
plus, believe it or not, i totally give everybody personal space and leave them alone, unless they invade mine first and give me reason to commit a dishonorable deed upon them. call it Crystal G's completely ass-backwards judicial system, if you will.
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624513 - 11/12/07 04:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
plus, boys are less high maintenance and I wouldnt get bitched out for doing or not doing random shit.
Based on your stories I think you would eventualy flip out and throw everyone out. Who wouldn't gripe?
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Crystal G



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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Booby]
#7624516 - 11/12/07 04:25 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Booby said:
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Crystal G said: plus, boys are less high maintenance and I wouldnt get bitched out for doing or not doing random shit.
Based on your stories I think you would eventualy flip out and throw everyone out. Who wouldn't gripe?
yeah. anytime i've flipped out on a roommate and done that (which was twice on the same guy), was because he was trying to "get with me" and was way too up in my personal space, invading my private bubble, constantly being around me 24/7, couldn't leave me alone for 1 fucking minute to finish a simple task. basically he was almost stalking me, IN MY OWN FUCKING HOME, and putting pressure on me to be in a relationship with him. so i cracked, and snapped, and kicked him out because it was originally my fucking place anyway, i was doing HIM a favor by letting him stay there cause he got kicked out of all his other places (go fucking figure).
seriously, why the fuck should i have to lie and sneak out of my own fucking place, because some loser gets butthurt about me not wanting to spend my entire life 24/7 with him. i mean damn, if thats what a relationship is like, count me out.
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624517 - 11/12/07 04:27 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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If you're the lease-holder then I guess that is your right.
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Crystal G



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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Booby]
#7624519 - 11/12/07 04:32 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeap, I was... and the only reason i let him stay in my fucking place is because we were friends first, and i felt bad for him being homeless cause deep down he IS a bright kid...
i dunno man, thats what happens when you do a favor for humanity. i gave him plenty of physical items, and food to keep him stable, and in return he was also a stingy ass bitch to me too. the only time he wasnt being really seedy with his money was when we were spending it "together" aka his futile attempts to try to court me. i dont fall for stupid ass mind games, i like no bullshit relationships, not wishy washy garbage. you feel me?
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624520 - 11/12/07 04:34 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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You don't think you led him on in any way?
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Booby
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Booby]
#7624522 - 11/12/07 04:37 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Booby said: You don't think you led him on in any way?
That's a silly question isn't it. You're a girl, you can't help but lead him into dangerous waters, and protest that the fault is all his.
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Crystal G



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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Booby]
#7624523 - 11/12/07 04:42 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Booby said: You don't think you led him on in any way?
I don't "lead people on" in any way, I treated him just the same as any other friend, male or female. Probably slightly worse, seeing as how I definitely didn't want HIM to get the wrong impression. I told him off the bat that I am only interested in casual one night stands, not an exclusive relationship. He's seen me interested and hook up with other guys and never see them again, so why he thought he would be the one and only exception, I don't fucking know.
I have a lot of gripes with this guy so I finally asked him off the bat. "WHY the hell are you so interested in ME? theres plenty of other women out there that will fucking suit you. theres NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT ME JUST BECAUSE WE BOTH LIKE DRUGS DOESNT MEAN WE ARE SOULMATES!" and you know what his brilliant answer was?
"When you shot me up with K my first time I had this vision about you, that you and I would be together forever."
WHAT. PFFFTTLKJaskjsjlfasdjlk. I almost slightly had an aneurysm at that comment. Talk about the most deluded fucking shit I ever heard. He's basing all this, his emotions, on a goddamn K TRIP... and to top it off, I think even THAT is fucking bullshit, because I ask him to describe the trip to me in more vivid detail, and HE CAN'T, except that he saw two orbs following each other continuously.
He thinks that me rejecting him was an attempt to hide my "true" self from another individual, because I'm such a scared little pansy ass when it comes to love. Riiiight. Such is not the case. I truly wasn't interested in him, and no matter how bluntly I made this to him, he refused to accept it.
erotomania is not a fucking joke.
Edited by Crystal G (11/12/07 04:49 AM)
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Booby
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624524 - 11/12/07 04:48 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah some guys are twisted.
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624526 - 11/12/07 04:50 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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wow. sounds like a creepy dude.
good roomates are hard to come by.. do you have any other friends (perhaps REAL friends) that would move in with you?
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: igwna]
#7624527 - 11/12/07 04:53 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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skcorrelyt said: wow. sounds like a creepy dude.
good roomates are hard to come by.. do you have any other friends (perhaps REAL friends) that would move in with you?
Maybe a lifestyle change? A nunnery? (/joke)
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Crystal G



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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Booby]
#7624530 - 11/12/07 05:00 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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so now you see... WHY i finally exploded and kicked his stupid ass out? i seriously tolerated this shit for a good 7 months or so too. i kept trying to rationalize with him and keep my distance from him the whole time, and during the meantime he kept trying to pull me in towards him because he can't handle being alone... i kept on trying to play "psychiatrist" with him and fix his intolerance to solitude, but the last straw was when we were both partying on new year's...
we weren't partying alone or just the 2 of us together, it was a group of close friends that he knew through me, and us. anyway, he convinces me to take a hit of LSD with him and during the peak, he grabbed my fucking chin and reaches in for a kiss.
when he recalls the events, he says it was "a magical moment, like fate was bringing us together." I recall it as "UM NO, you were high as hell on drugs and 30mg 4-aco-mipt and X and MDPV and K and way, way more fucked up than me so you either dont remember, or you're just remembering it the way YOU want to, but you grabbed me to kiss me. it wasnt fucking fate bringing us together, YOU initiated that shit."
so now he thinks that we have some sort of magical bond because he reached in to kiss me on the countdown of new year's eve. then of course, things get progressively worse.
3 weeks later, i got fed up and kicked his dumbass out. i cant STAND that romantic bullshit, it makes me sick to the core, and if he wanted to stand a chance with me, he should have been more respectful of MY privacy and come across as a person i could actually respect likewise.
man, i must be on a fucking good one for sharing my personal relationship history like this. i've been wanting to get this one off my chest for a while.
also, back to the roommate situation... no "real" close friends out here, unfortunately...
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624536 - 11/12/07 05:08 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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if youre serious about not giving any ex cons or current ones for that matter a fair go put up an advert at your local convent stating just that and watch the masses flock to your door
i hope none of the potentials are casing your loverly apartment
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624537 - 11/12/07 05:09 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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The Redneck Code is that a man or woman has the right of life or death over someone once they've fucked them.
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624538 - 11/12/07 05:12 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Do you think the guy is Redneck?
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Crystal G]
#7624539 - 11/12/07 05:12 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Id be honored to be your roommate im not sure what your asking for rent but im sure it would be worth it, i hope im shroomey enough
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: AJ4U]
#7624540 - 11/12/07 05:14 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Aren't you cautious about the jealous ex?
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Re: Am I acting too much like an LE mole? [Re: Booby]
#7624542 - 11/12/07 05:16 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I figure after all the posts iv read about Crystal G that being her roommate could not in any way get in any way boring. Im just in search of the American dream
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