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emilbus
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Child Support
#7610909 - 11/08/07 12:10 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i would like to start looking into child support, with out her knowing, and build a case or whatever. if it ever comes down to it i want to try and get custody of the child. what shit should i look into? has this type of thing happened before? i could use anything that would help me win if this ever were to come about. thanks
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wrestler_az
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Re: Child Support [Re: emilbus]
#7610938 - 11/08/07 12:18 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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wait... you want her, to pay you child support?
good luck...
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trendal
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Re: Child Support [Re: emilbus]
#7610948 - 11/08/07 12:20 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Are you taking any drugs? Because in a case like this don't be surprised if you get tested! So that's the first thing I would do.
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LeftyBurnz
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Re: Child Support [Re: trendal]
#7610992 - 11/08/07 12:29 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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thats one thing you could use to your advantage. quit smoking and if you think shes still smoking, have her tested as leverage for your case.
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WakeboardrB
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It sounds like you are in a kind of angry place right now so I'd recommend calming down and taking every avenue at reconciliation that's possible.
But if that's not possible then start talking to a lawyer. All the research in the world is just going to give you ideas (not necessarily the right ones) and make you more steaming mad.
Start discussing shit with a lawyer is the best way to build a preliminary case against here.
But please do try every thing possible to make the situation better before you even think about it.
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LeftyBurnz
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doesnt sound like he has money for a lawyer. he can barely pay the rent with the lazy bitch not working.
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Quote:
leftysurprise said: doesnt sound like he has money for a lawyer. he can barely pay the rent with the lazy bitch not working.
There are ways and opportunities to get free legal council if you can't afford it. Of course it's not going to be as good as keeping a lawyer on retainer for $200-300 an hour, but it's a hell of a lot better than doing all the work yourself.
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LeftyBurnz
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true. i never hold faith in any public defender.
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emilbus
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the fucked up part is that i make pretty decent money, i think. 2,000 - 2,500 a month. i get paid every week on top of that and I'm still always broke. its her god damn car. she wanted to get a 2006 fresh off the lot cause she cant say no. i sat there the whole time at the dealer ship telling her, "NO, don't do it, its a bad idea". she didn't want to listen. shes paying 345/monthly for a fucking dodge stratus. its not even a great car, i mean its okay but for 345 a month you could be driving something much better. fucking ass hole car sales men. there's nothing i could do but tell her not to do it since i wasn't going to be on the lease. but guess who's paying for it now!!!!!!!!!! i pay 545/month for rent, 100/month for elec., 50/month for phone, 200/month for gas give or take, 200/month for food, 40/month for beer, 130/month for PC and internet, and other little shit. when she did have a job and was paying her car, (i told her that all she had to do was pay her car and i would take care of everything else), i always had extra money. shit thats an extra 450/month in my pocket. she paid for most her gas at the time but i would still help her. i also have all my court shit. i pay 267/month just to keep my license thanks to a DWI. I'm really fucked with money and now i have a kid on the way. SHE NEEDS TO GET A FUCKING JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FUCK
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LeftyBurnz
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Re: Child Support [Re: emilbus]
#7611199 - 11/08/07 01:20 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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whoa buddy..... that was your first mistake. paying for HER car. let that shit get repo'ed. so long as its in her name...... it IS in HER name RIGHT???
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Re: Child Support [Re: emilbus]
#7611203 - 11/08/07 01:21 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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First thing you need to do is get rid of the car. It doesn't matter what she says since you are paying for it. Tell her if she wants a secure and good future for her child then she needs to sell that car immediately.
Don't take no for an answer. This is about the future and welfare of the kid.
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LeftyBurnz
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HAH! theres no selling that shit, way too much is still owed on it.
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She sounds like a real brat. I bet she's ugly too.
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