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GGreatOne234
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: notapillow]
#7612275 - 11/08/07 06:20 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Very disfunctional I agree. And it does not sound like it is going to change, probably will only get worse, probably will get you in trouble in the end. Seriously, play your cards right.
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memes
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: GGreatOne234]
#7612288 - 11/08/07 06:25 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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get the FUCK out. and take the kid with you.
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: memes]
#7612951 - 11/08/07 09:48 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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what is he going to do, cut her open and take the 2 month old fetus in a jar?
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: Kamin]
#7613410 - 11/09/07 12:39 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Kamin said: what is he going to do, cut her open and take the 2 month old fetus in a jar?
That would be pretty badass, in all fairness.
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: Tsion]
#7613461 - 11/09/07 12:58 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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okay, i guess its time for me to clear some shit up. first of all I'm not a fucking drunkie, i have a very stressful job that is both physical and mental hard. when i get off work i will have my 2 24 oz beers and fucking relax. shit half the time i dint even finish that second one. as far as the vicodin goes. i got 5 last week which lasted me until a few days ago. before then it had been at least 2 years since Ive taken them last. so obviously I'm not a frequent user of these pills. second, i was not asking for help i was simply taking all my anger out on this keyboard. i rather bitch and moan to a bunch of fucking strangers then get into it with her. yes, we are having problems but who the fuck doesn't. there's is not one single "perfect" relationship out there. i did mention that i was going to leave her once i got my shit together right? well the dumb part about that is i got everything together before i found out she was pregnant. if i was going to leave her i would have done it. i just like talking shit cause it helps with my stress from the pregnancy. i love and adore this girl so much, it just sucks that shes a HUGE fucking brat. i love this girl and the kid she is carrying and i will do what ever i can to make shit work. money does suck because shes not working but when time passes i know she will get a job. its just going to be rough for a few months. anyway thats really about it. i appreciate all the advice that i got. a lot of this was helpful and as far as child support goes, I'm hoping it never comes down to it. now is the time for me to step up and show that i can be a great father and that i care so much about this girl that I'm going to look past the petty shit. i know this is going to suck because she is pregnant but hey my fucking kid is in her belly. my fucking kid. i have a kid on the way and I'm so fucking excited. its such a weird feeling that Ive never felt before. anyway thanks.
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7613468 - 11/09/07 01:01 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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thats more like it
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: dirtworshipper]
#7613693 - 11/09/07 03:12 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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sucks dude - sounds like a shit deal. guys get the worst of it with the child support bit and it sounds like she knows it. if you aren't sure it's your kid though you may not really be committed? kick her out or bail dude
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: emilbus]
#7613767 - 11/09/07 04:38 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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This kind of vacillation is why ppl so young are not usually prepared to be parents.
with drugs and pills and booze no cash and an emotionally estranged couple, this is a Titanic of a pregnancy.
My hats off to you for trying to make it work. I suggest you ask the govt for help (A little money for food and bills is a good thing) They may also be able to provide prenatal care ( so kid isn't born with flippers if shes hitting the bong while preggers) and maybe even some couples counseling, so some good decisions can be made in a controlled environment.
To a person who doesnt know you, and isn't emotionally engaged, this seems like layers of bad judgment , culminating in an unwanted pregnancy.
Good luck.
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Re: I'M LOSING MY FUCKING MIND W/ THIS BITCH!!!! [Re: Oracle Of Delphi]
#7614117 - 11/09/07 08:34 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Okay I am going to play devil's advocate here and incur the wrath of a few of you but here goes:
Although it's illegal to not hire someone because they are pregnant it happens all the time. It is very hard to find a job when you are pregnant.
She is just as scared as you are. I don't know her but my guess is she is bringing up child support because she is wondering if you do bail how the hell is she going to do this on her own.
I personally was so ill when I was pregnant that all I ate for 8 months was pretty much just apples. Even had trouble keeping them down. Each pregnancy is different but if she says she feels awful well, I at least believe her. Those nurses are never very sympathetic. They deal with pregnant women all day long.
Those hormones are no joke. Her body is producing mega amounts so that her body won't get rid of what it considers a foreign object in it's domain. It truly is a roller coaster ride.
I understand how hard this can be, bitch to us all you want. I at least will try to keep a sympathetic ear.
Good Luck
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