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Re: How young is too young? [Re: razmablues]
#7613917 - 11/09/07 06:52 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Saw her last night, it went real well . It's clear to me that the attraction is mutual and i've decided three years difference ain't that bad.
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: opensaysme]
#7613926 - 11/09/07 06:56 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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If her parents don't especially her dad than I say go for it, if you like her you like her. I really don't see anything wrong with it. I understand how you feel though.
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: razmablues]
#7613937 - 11/09/07 07:03 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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razmablues said: although it is only 3 years and i don't think there is anything morality wrong with it, from my experiences those 3 years are huge years as far as maturity goes.
I got to agree with razmablues on this one!
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That's the thing, right now i think her parents still just think we're friends. They like me a lot because they know me from chilling with their older daughter and I've always been respectful and courteous.
I'm not sure how the father will react though when he realizes its more than just a friendship with the younger sibling ha he's a hothead.
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: aDoS]
#7613948 - 11/09/07 07:10 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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aDoS said: wow...in Spain age of consent is 13. You can have sex with 13 year olds...wtf?
In Canada it's 14. I think there is a maximum 4-year age difference though, until both are 18.
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: opensaysme]
#7613984 - 11/09/07 07:29 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Listen to your first instinct and follow that. If you're thinking that her parents or the law would forbid you from seeing her, you might want to stay friends for a while longer.
I dated a girl who was 18 when I was 14, and when she 'cheated on me' my sister and my mother wouldn't let me even talk to her. Of course I still managed to sneak around, but it certainly made things difficult.
If you feel a connection and you can see good things coming of the relationship, by all means, pursue it!
Best of luck!
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: opensaysme]
#7614058 - 11/09/07 08:13 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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The only problem is what the idiot masses think of it...
Ohhh a number difference, stone him - gather the lynch mob...
It doesn't matter but society has trained itself to make boundaries of moral acceptability mainly due to high profile media cases, its more of prevalent idea than ever.
At the end of the day, if you both enjoy yourself, nobody does anything they don't want to do and everyones mature and intelligent enough to understand then theres nothing wrong. Only the couple themselves can know that.
But be prepared to take shit from everyone else.
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: opensaysme]
#7614169 - 11/09/07 08:50 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I dated a girl that was 16 when i was 19 and she turned out to be one of the best girlfriends that I ever had. Alot of times the maturity level is a big factor, but not all of the time. I say go for it.
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: blissedout]
#7615143 - 11/09/07 12:49 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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blissedout said: I dated a girl that was 16 when i was 19 and she turned out to be one of the best girlfriends that I ever had. Alot of times the maturity level is a big factor, but not all of the time. I say go for it.
Good to see i'm not alone here lol. Thanks for the advice, i appreciate it from someone who's been there.
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: razmablues]
#7615148 - 11/09/07 12:51 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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huge difference in maturity
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: opensaysme]
#7615175 - 11/09/07 12:59 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'll go against the replies here and say find someone who can't royaly screw you if she and/or her mother gets pissed off and calls the popo
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Re: How young is too young? [Re: Stizzle]
#7615179 - 11/09/07 01:00 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well wait till she is 17 and you are 19 and it will be legal right?
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