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igwna
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why do girls turn into pyschos!
#7598233 - 11/05/07 12:05 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i just left a year and like 3 month relationship with a girl.
i wasn't feeling it anymore and i refused to lie to myself and stay in the relationship. though things got rough at times and especially towards the end and when i finally broke up with her i let her down easy... but she snapped.
sucide was all i heard from her, over and over and over. so finally one night she convinced me she was doing it. i called her, her house, her moms cellphone, EVERYWHERE so eventually i called the police. i figured even if i did go to her house to check on her, if she did it... she'd need medical attention.
the police called me from her house, she was fine. they bitched at me, i yelled at them, they took my side, and bitched at her.
now she HATES me.
she has ruined my friend ship with a mutual friend we had and now shes aiming at my REAL friends. people she wouldn't of known without me. acting like I'M a liar and a bad guy.
i had not once said one bad thing about her to ANYONE. (now i've said a couple bad things... but, thats how this works..)
she blocked me on everything. (i have myspace and facebook and AIM.. thats 'everything.' normally i could live with this. but now she is attack me via my friends.
i am generally a good person and have done nothing to her. i don't feel like i deserve this at all...
any ideas on what to do?
.. just ignore it all? when i'm with other girls, none of this bothers me.. so would i be best off just cutting my losses and trying to repair my relationships with friends as she breaks them?
(god i wish i didn't run out of weed)
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: igwna]
#7598247 - 11/05/07 12:09 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i hate whores and ex-girlfriends (which are usually the same thing) just ignore her and find a new girl to make her jealous hah, and yeah repair the friendships that shes ruining
...and smoke a lot of ganj, that always helps
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: blunt master]
#7598255 - 11/05/07 12:11 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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ignore it.
act like it doesnt bother you.
get a new, hotter girl, and fast.
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: blunt master]
#7598258 - 11/05/07 12:11 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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at least it didnt take you 3 years to realize as i did with my last one.
oh and they dont "turn" into psychos, they always have been, its just dormant. you never know if it will become active, nor will you know when.
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igwna
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7598271 - 11/05/07 12:14 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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man, it sucks though... ending a relationship is hard enough.. now i have to fix relationships and tell people (like my mother) that no, i am not addicted to crack or coke..
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7598273 - 11/05/07 12:15 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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move on. look forward, not behind you. bitches are crazy.
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igwna
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: Mr_DeeMsTer]
#7598336 - 11/05/07 12:32 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i guess thats what i'll have to do 
but atleast theres buds and my soon to be entrance into mushrooms
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: Mr_DeeMsTer]
#7598340 - 11/05/07 12:34 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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pretty much. your true friends will still be there after all is said and done. dont waste one more second on her or anything related to her. you explain yourself and dismiss the lies ONCE to your friends. thats it. thats what she wants, your attention. she is feeding off of the fact that she is irritating you.
i lost several "friends" or so i thought they were to my ex, but in the end, the good friends, the ones that really matter were still there. i looked at it as a benefit. she helped me weed out the acquaintences and friends that didnt matter. freed up alot of my life actually. gave me alot more time for other things i enjoy to do.
dont sweat it. or her.
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: igwna]
#7598341 - 11/05/07 12:34 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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she didn't turn into a psycho, she was psycho to begin with, just like 99.9% of all other women.
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igwna
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: LeftyBurnz]
#7598381 - 11/05/07 12:44 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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hey wow, thanks a lot. i never thought about it that way.
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: igwna]
#7598476 - 11/05/07 01:10 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i would not suggest just forgetting about it
what i would do is talk to her with patience and understanding
try to maintain a compassionate persona
apologize just for the sake of it
because thats what she needs to hear
help her find a new boyfriend
be a friend
people are fucked up, but nobody is intentionally evil
at least you know someone cares for you
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: sirbojangles]
#7598501 - 11/05/07 01:17 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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sirbojangles said: what i would do is talk to her with patience and understanding
try to maintain a compassionate persona
apologize just for the sake of it
because thats what she needs to hear
hahahahaha heheheheh hohohoho
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: Brasco]
#7598513 - 11/05/07 01:22 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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yea really. come on bojangles, shes slandering the hell out of him and trying to ruin his social life. ditch the bitch and never look back bro. compassion is for the reasonable.
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: igwna]
#7598519 - 11/05/07 01:23 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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it sucks she's trying to badmouth you to your own friends, I had a ex-gf do that. I hate it when people talk shit behind eachother's backs, that gossip bullshit is ghey.
just recently two mutual friends of mine got into it over some chick they were both banging. So one of them decides to call me up and badmouth the other. Eventually I just stopped answering his calls, they were so stupid. "Can you believe he said this and then did that, blah blah blah..."
all the dude's attempted character assassination accomplished was making the gossipy dude look like a jackass. Like as soon as I heard him talk all that bullshit, I immediately took the other guy's side. Your ex-gf will probably come off the same way to your friends, so don't worry about it. If thats any consolation.
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: memes]
#7598528 - 11/05/07 01:28 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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meams said: ignore it.
act like it doesnt bother you.
get a new, hotter girl, and fast.
good advice
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: igwna]
#7598538 - 11/05/07 01:32 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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i'll kill her if you PM loki and get me into the free heroin ring.
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igwna
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: greys]
#7598548 - 11/05/07 01:34 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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yeah, man. i like being single.. but it gets so lonely sometimes.
and i really want to find another girl who isn't crazy into drugs but doesnt have a problem with me doing the ones i do.
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: igwna]
#7598561 - 11/05/07 01:38 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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skcorrelyt said: and i really want to find another girl who isn't crazy into drugs but doesnt have a problem with me doing the ones i do.
that can be a really hard balance to find.
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igwna
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: wps]
#7598574 - 11/05/07 01:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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wps said:
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skcorrelyt said: and i really want to find another girl who isn't crazy into drugs but doesnt have a problem with me doing the ones i do.
that can be a really hard balance to find.
i know it. my last girlfriend was like that.. but for various reasons it wasnt working out..
i know of a few girls like this but.. they all have boyfriends now.. which blows after they admit they WOULD of dated me if they weren't with them dudes. i respect this and am still friends.. but i dont try to fuck stuff up for them.. i actually have helped them in their relationships.. i'm in no real hurry.
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Re: why do girls turn into pyschos! [Re: igwna]
#7598584 - 11/05/07 01:46 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Be careful who you get involved with. Some people are more clingy and dependent than others. Hopefully you know the warning signs now.
So what is she doing to ruin your relationships with your friends? If you've done nothing wrong, I'm sure you can smooth out anything she said to them, if they really are your friends.
Good luck man and be careful!
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