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Rahz
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: NiamhNyx]
#7596013 - 11/04/07 07:41 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well, I won't refer to your choices as "archaic paradigms", nor will I call you "sister". I have no ill will here, but it's hard not to make the connection between your apparent disdain for other peoples choices, and your own lack of light. May you find what you're looking for, and I will do the same.
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: Veritas]
#7596081 - 11/04/07 07:58 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Veritas said: Do your knuckles get scraped up much from dragging on the ground?
Sore knuckles, that is what brings me to tears.... 
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Rahz
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: Bloody Shit]
#7596084 - 11/04/07 07:58 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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>>>>Men have balls. This makes us not act like crying little bitches when something shitty happens. We grunt and move on. That's what being a man is. We are more rational and smart.
>>>>Women have boobs and are hot. They are not as smart and rational, but they are more emotional. This makes them good counterparts to men but altogether worthless and weak by themselves. That's why they need strong men like me.
If this is what you believe I'm talking about you have totally misinterpreted the message. I'm pretty sure I've already pointed this out. I suppose it's to be expected. Some people get so upset when anyone talks about appreciating and accentuating the natural differences that they are willing to read ANYTHING into my words so that I fit what it is they find undesirable.
If we're talking about dominance/submissive, strong/weak, penetrating/penetrated, passive/aggressive, etc, we are not talking about men and women. We're talking about feminine and masculine. Very different things. If two people (regardless of their physical sex) wish to be intimate, one of them will be naturally more dominant that the other to some degree. People can deny this until the moon floats away. People can deny that the average male has a masculine core, and that the average female has a feminine core. Eyes wide shut.
There are higher states of being, I don't doubt that for a second, and as these states are reached, sex (and polarity) becomes less important to the whole process. But for the majority of people, it's a good thing, and they enjoy creating polarity. A great many people would do just about anything for a relationship that has strong sexual polarity AND strong personal balance between the consenting individuals. A lot of people don't believe it's possible, so they give up on it.
The fact that people get so emotional about this type of topic tells me I'm more right than they're willing to admit.
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Edited by Rahz (11/04/07 08:04 PM)
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: Veritas]
#7596228 - 11/04/07 08:24 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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They are not as smart and rational, but they are more emotional.
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Not much of a point, is it? 
my thoughts exactly.
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Edited by makaveli8x8 (11/04/07 08:25 PM)
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: mikebart101]
#7596650 - 11/04/07 09:54 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm super-sensitive to other people's emotional state. I cry during the movies. I cry when i sad story. I cry when I see other people start to cry. This made my teenage years particularly difficult because as Robert Smith said, "Boys Don't Cry." I learned to hide my feelings and put on a tough facade, but as I've grown up and gotten beyond adolescence, I've learned to open up again and be more in touch with my feelings.
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: Rahz]
#7597054 - 11/05/07 12:05 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Rahz said: Well, I won't refer to your choices as "archaic paradigms", nor will I call you "sister". I have no ill will here, but it's hard not to make the connection between your apparent disdain for other peoples choices, and your own lack of light. May you find what you're looking for, and I will do the same.
Lack of light eh? Now there's a leap of judgement if I've ever heard it. Sure, I'm cranky and lack tolerance for what I percieve to be ignorant ideological identity cages. This is because I see so much on the horizon that is obscured by the walls people continually build. Only in tearing down these walls may we broaden our scope of vision.
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: NiamhNyx]
#7597194 - 11/05/07 01:03 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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The archaic paradigms are in the mind, and should be torn down. But referring to the natural duality of sex, and the interplay between them as archaic is looking across the field in my opinion.
Differences, and the interplay between them should be honored, and held as equal. How many sit coms have there been that include the somewhat dumb, irrational man, and the smart somewhat dissatisfied woman? It's like trying to fight slander with slander, but it caters to the masses because they use unrealistic gender portrayal to offset their own unrealistic gender imbalances. All roads lead to Rome, some may take a little longer.
I think our philosophies aren't so far apart. The gender battle isn't really about man vs woman. People are like this because they are unsatisfied with their self relationship, and the result is a sexually frustrated society. Both genders get thrown around, but it is the inner fight which is ultimately being expressed. To hurt one is to hurt the other, is to hurt the self. I honor each person's right to live in bad relationships with themselves, and with others.
The thing is, "we" created society. We've sat up the bad example to gaze at, and there's got to be a good reason for it. If the horizon looks bad, it's just a lack of acceptance for society. A lack of compassion for their right to choose painful emotional viewpoints and experiences. Society is humanity, is us, so disdain for society or possible futures is a lack of self acceptance as well.
To me, this has nothing to do with honoring the natural, non ego created differences between the sexes, or the polar interplay that can occur between people. The problem occurs when one is raised up above the other, when ego gets involved. To me, broadening the scope means discovering and enjoying polarity on a non-judgmental level, not discarding it because it causes uncomfortable emotions.
-------------------- rahz comfort pleasure power love truth awareness peace "You’re not looking close enough if you can only see yourself in people who look like you." —Ayishat Akanbi
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: Bloody Shit]
#7597424 - 11/05/07 05:35 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Bloody Shit said: Wow this thread is just full of pseudo intellectuals like Rahz and the like isn't it.
Personalisms aren't permitted in this forum. Continue to engage in them and lose your privledge to post in this forum.
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This makes them good counterparts to men but altogether worthless and weak by themselves.
Complete garbage.
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Re: What has brought YOU to tears? [Re: mikebart101]
#7601478 - 11/06/07 06:27 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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a girl i once knew..
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