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Anonymous #15
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #14]
#7590219 - 11/03/07 05:30 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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lol yeah
even straight girls think hot girls are hot. now if a man cannot see beauty in a woman then... either you are gay, or asexual completely.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #15]
#7590594 - 11/03/07 10:14 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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thats a possibility, some people show little or no interest in sex and others only show arousal for idealized versions of it in their mind and not the dirty, imperfect real thing
but seriously i hate when people lord themselves over others, its the same thing whether youre talking about astral planes and higher levels of consciousness or a god who will send you to heaven and others to hell
both beliefs are in no way falsifiable or rational
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Anonymous #16
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7592930 - 11/03/07 10:49 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: When she first held my hand it made me cry inside.
That's your problem right there...you're obviously a homosexual.
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Anonymous #17
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #16]
#7593414 - 11/04/07 03:04 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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find the torrent for mantak chia's cultivating male sexual energy
using his methods, during your sessions your pleasure will constantly rise
also, it's not your girlfriends job to arouse you - your sexual energy is entirely your department. do with it what you want
drop the superior attitude, we're all equals (that includes people you might consider mindless robots brainwashed by society)
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Anonymous #18
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #14]
#7593441 - 11/04/07 03:44 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm frying hella hard and I just read this, thanks for taking a shit in my brain.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #18]
#7593460 - 11/04/07 03:56 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous #19
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#7595264 - 11/04/07 04:38 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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QFFT
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Anonymous #19
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #19]
#7595266 - 11/04/07 04:38 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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QFFT
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Anonymous #20
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #14]
#7596548 - 11/04/07 09:26 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Do you find men attractive? If not, your not gay. Maybe your just a-sexual(as in, not really interested in having sex with either women or men). Or maybe the doctor/priest/moyle/whoever that circumsized you really did a botch job. Your also thinking about it way to much, as almost everyone here has stated. Sex shouldn't be occuring in your head it should be occuring in you dick.
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Anonymous #21
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #20]
#7631070 - 11/13/07 03:16 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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nah, sex definitely is in the head.
the head controls the dick. remember?
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Anonymous #18
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #21]
#7631255 - 11/13/07 04:01 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I thought I was gay for years.
I'm a straight guy, but I'm pretty girlish in a lot of ways... I have effete mannerisms, a small, lithe body, and honestly I get along better with chicks. Plus I'm incredibly emotional. All of this combined to make me seriously question my sexuality, in spite of the fact that I'm not and never was actually attracted to men the way I am to women.
Sexuality is confusing.
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Anonymous #22
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #18]
#7632096 - 11/13/07 06:36 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Sexuality is confusing.
amen.
also, you totally get vocab points for using the phrase "lithe".
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Anonymous #21
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #22]
#7633056 - 11/13/07 10:22 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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dude, you are totally over thinking this and you probably can't feel anything because on a deep level you're JUST NOT ATTRACTED to this chick, like you don't feel a real connection. so dump her. you are so clearly not ready for sex or intimacy. the kind of connection you're describing only comes from years of building intimacy with a person you love and care about. it doesn't just HAPPEN. you have to WORK at relationships. the fact that you don't realize this and are just EXPECTING the girl to know what you want is really disgusting and sexist. you can't blame on her what you don't feel
have you ever thought about dating a girl for a long time before you have sex?
what am i saying, you're like 15, a long time for you is three weeks...
you need to spend a few more years alone until you have your head together.
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Anonymous #23
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#7634035 - 11/14/07 08:10 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
but when everything is allowed you have to find the vulnerable head-space where this girl becomes a stranger again and you see her as the goddess archetype and its tricky because though she is interested in spirituality she does a lot of fucking dumb things
like listening to music and such when most music lowers the population and makes them stupider and i dunno
anyway
it's like
challenging
yeah
it's definitely
like
challenging
when only YOU can see the grand TRUTHS of things like
music
making people
STUPIDER -- STUPIDER -- STu pID ER
(you do know that's not an actual word, right?)
My point is that you've put yourself on a high horse
YOU DO NOT BELONG ON THAT HIGH HORSE
It's obvious from your post that while you may THINK you see "truths" some of which might actually be valid...you know next to nothing about life
You want to have "tantra" ?? You want everything to be so fucking idealized that you think some chick is going to bring you to enlightenment? Have you even lived? You're trying to jump the boat~!!!
Things are going to be awkward and imperfect, especially when starting out! Accept it! Or find yourself an older woman I guess, but even then you can't expect perfection from her or yourself. You can't expect to fuck in some little isolated bubble away from the things in society you don't like.
Your anger at society - does it make you feel cleaner? Do you feel better about yourself? Or are you just attached to your outrage? Are you above getting dirty and just having sex, not "tantra"? It sounds like you're afraid to lower yourself to anything that's not some sort of Buddha-Krishna-Parvati lotus fucking
You're not there. YOU ARE NOT THERE. Just accept yourself the way you are, get to know a human being, a girl, a woman, a man, anything, just not an archetype...otherwise you just want to fuck a reflection of yourself, you want to have sex with an idea not a human being....because human beings are imperfect and dirty INCLUDING YOU. Maybe eventually you can find that spiritual connection, but you think you can reach that place without getting your hands dirty first? Go ahead and try...
Or just buy a fucking butt plug or even an anal dildo...some of them vibrate and are quite pleasant
Like everyone said...out of your brain, into your dick or butt or whatever you want to be. Let go, let go of all judgement and control....otherwise have fun with your finger wagging at everyone else and paranoia about your broken dick or whatever your bored overactive mind circles on today
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Anonymous #18
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #23]
#7635305 - 11/14/07 01:56 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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QFT.
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Anonymous #24
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #14]
#7636027 - 11/14/07 04:47 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Im pretty sure you are a gay faggot.
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Anonymous #25
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #24]
#7638434 - 11/15/07 06:19 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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op i hope you have not been too discouraged, and will find this post
don't listen to these people, you know them to be devils and its true.
sounds like i've had similar visions, and i've been searching for the same thing since i first saw it in my mind.
i personally don't know if my heaven on earth will come, but i do know listening to these mind-controlled monkeys is a waste of time, there is nothing wrong with you, and if you modify yourself to conform to their expectations of what is pleasurable or right or chill it will only waste your time and slowly poison your resolve to feel real experience.
perhaps you could take up zen to help give you happy patience while you search.
the more you give in to the lower realms the less energy you'll have when opportunity comes knocking.
dump your girlfriend if you have to, although you may need to stay with her and work through this for social reasons.
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Anonymous #25
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #25]
#7638442 - 11/15/07 06:24 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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fuck, this is the last poster. i forgot, since most enlightened people don't walk around that way all the time you're going to have to work through this lower realm bullshit.
because when you meet that girl of your tantra dreams, she probably will have lower realm stuff and will want her shit box dry slammed when not meditating.
i'm not joking, this is infuriating its like a sick joke. some of the most evolved women i met have completely rejected me sexually despite vocally confirming that we have had spiritually binding experiences.
so yeah i guess i don't know what to do and my advice is meaningless.
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Anonymous #23
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #25]
#7640865 - 11/15/07 05:33 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: op i hope you have not been too discouraged, and will find this post
don't listen to these people, you know them to be devils and its true.
sounds like i've had similar visions, and i've been searching for the same thing since i first saw it in my mind.
i personally don't know if my heaven on earth will come, but i do know listening to these mind-controlled monkeys is a waste of time, there is nothing wrong with you, and if you modify yourself to conform to their expectations of what is pleasurable or right or chill it will only waste your time and slowly poison your resolve to feel real experience.
perhaps you could take up zen to help give you happy patience while you search.
the more you give in to the lower realms the less energy you'll have when opportunity comes knocking.
dump your girlfriend if you have to, although you may need to stay with her and work through this for social reasons.
it's good someone tried being nice. I sure couldn't...
It just sounded like he needed a kick in the ass more than further petting of his higher chakras or what not.
Ok let me attempt to speak the language of the original poster if I can --
Would you ever consider testing yourself...perhaps learning to exist in the lower realms without giving into them. Walking among common folk and learning about them loving them without necessarily being influenced by them. Every now and then saying or doing something impure while on the inside keeping your expanded, loving, morality intact...
Be like Jesus getting it on with Mary Magdeline. Hey, she was a whore turned saint, remember that...
Or perhaps share your banana with a mind controlled monkey. Learn to love the monkey, enjoy the monkey as the monkey enjoys her banana
I don't know, I just don't think heaven on earth comes to snobs very often. But I could be wrong. I've been wrong once or twice before...
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Anonymous #18
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Re: Sexual novice, clumsy, impotent, gay? [Re: Anonymous #23]
#7641464 - 11/15/07 07:32 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Looking for perfect tantra sex when you're obviously not experienced enough to even maneuver properly in the sack sounds like a recipe for failure.
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