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Offlinegrandesign
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    #7588239 - 11/02/07 03:14 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

gone out to a club with my sister and a couple of there girlfriends
now the problem is she is 20 im 27 and she askes me if i want to go but in my teens i done raves clubs forest partys and all other illegal warehouse partys which all include getting seriusly wankerd and over the past 3 years ive slowed down a bit and prefer the comfort of my own home few drinks have a smoke so on so fourth and the local town clubs just dont compare to the sort of do's ive done so get bored within an hour even with a few E's in me but it makes me feel like a boring cunt as ive only been with her 2 years she knows of my crazy drug and alcohol binges of no sleep dancing and sex but  feel boring. still we have a great relationship
but man it really fucks me off im not going to go for the sake of it do you think im being selfish?? problem is that ive a grumpy nature in that if im pissed in a club and bored i end up fighting      :stonedjerk:


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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: grandesign]
    #7588254 - 11/02/07 03:18 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

It's aight... raves aren't for everyone.. not for most people really.

I can't go to any big ass parties like that. I dig the smaller, bar like stuff.

Start dragging your girl to concerts and small shows.. get her to realize there's just as good of entertainment elsewhere. Back when I was a nutty raver I still went out all the time to See Orbital, Moby, Cake, Lollapalooza...



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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: BrAiN]
    #7588277 - 11/02/07 03:24 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

thats just it she likes the small town clubs ive done the big clubs and cant bear to be in our local clubs there shit but grown out of going to the big do's cos i dont do the drugs like i used to which brings me to thinking "this aint so good when im not loaded with 10 E's "


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    #7588287 - 11/02/07 03:28 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: grandesign]
    #7588289 - 11/02/07 03:28 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

Hey, If you can let her go out and enjoy herself even if you don't enjoy what she does it's not selfish. She should appreciate that.

Instead of tagging along even though u don't enjoy it out of jelousy or duty and spoiling everyones night you are giving her the freedom to do what she wants

good for you


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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: BrAiN]
    #7588298 - 11/02/07 03:31 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

lol yaeh she dont do E tho just gets pissed then pukes cos shr thinks she can drink but the head down the toilet 3 am says oyher wise lol


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    #7588313 - 11/02/07 03:35 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

well thats my point with her but she thinks i dont wanna go out with her or be seen with her or some crazy girl shit like that she only goes out once a month but there is always friction on that nite not a row or nothing like that but a bit cold shoulder then she fucks off and leaves me feeling kinda guilty :thumbdown:


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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: grandesign]
    #7588341 - 11/02/07 03:42 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

im kinda in same situation , im 29 and my gf is 21, she wants to explore much of the things i allready have explored , and like you i too prefer the comfort of my own home instead of all this. this has been a real issue for us for a while but we have sortet it out BUT if we didnt have a kid together this could have been what seperated us. the issue has been that she gets upset when i dont want to do all these things, its ok if she goes out and do whatever with her friends but I have lived a long life compared to many other same age as me, ive experienced ALOT good and bad so I prefer to take it easy. But we agreed that I should atleast do something she wants once a month, and the other way around and the other two weeks in a month we do something we both wants or nothing. it has worked out just fine, what has happened since then is that she has taken more intrests in what I like to do, maybe visit a museum or eat at a better resturant and drink good wine and starts to get tired of all these teenage parties and whatnot.


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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: shamantra]
    #7588376 - 11/02/07 03:53 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

:thumbup: i hear you its not relationship threatening unless she meets someone out lol , but bugs me spose its part of an age gap part and parcel sort of thing we dont do an awfull lot together but do have good quality time no matter wot we are doing i just dont like the feeling of guilt when she goes out and id rather be in growing shrooms lol acting like some grandad ,slight exageration.
and now you have mentioned kids thats another sore point cos she wants a child in the next 3 years i also had a child when i was 18 stuck with her but didn work out so i done the family thing in between being a bit crazy and am in no rush to do it again soon but like she says i am getting older and obviously being an old dad is not ideal  like i said its the age gap thing


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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: grandesign]
    #7588387 - 11/02/07 03:57 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

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grandesign said:
problem is that ive a grumpy nature in that if im pissed in a club and bored i end up fighting      :stonedjerk:





now that you know the problem it's an easy solve, go with the intention of having
a great time, let the guys at the club envy you because you're there with white wimminz


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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: grandesign]
    #7588403 - 11/02/07 03:59 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

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grandesign said:
like she says i am getting older and obviously being an old dad is not ideal like i said its the age gap thing





I was 35 when my first was born, I'm still in my prime
ok, sliding down the other side of prime


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Re: my girlfriend has ..... [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #7588444 - 11/02/07 04:07 PM (16 years, 2 months ago)

yeah i suppose but it feels like ive done it all in a short space of time and am enjoying now chillin like growing shrooms and enjoying a different side of them than when i was with my mates taking everything there was and living in a pickle spose time will pan things out its all good just dont like the friction when my girl wants to go clubbing its not like the other girls boyfriends go


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