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fellas....another girl problem :confused:
#7587279 - 11/02/07 10:53 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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ok so I am about 7 weeks into my school year and I am loving college experience. I am also loving the girls 
but I am running into some problems with them and maybe you guys can help me out
so heres how it is I met these two girls the first day of school, and my interest for both of them and their interest for me was pretty obviously mutual. ITS IMPORTANT FOR YOU GUYS TO KNOW I DONT LIVE IN THE DORMS, I LIVE OFF-CAMPUS.
so I see them al the time in my class and we hit it off nicely, let me remiind you there are two girls not just one, they are both pretty sexy and they are alwyas together so its hard to try to run game on just one of them because they are always together.
neway when it comes to groups and picking partners across the room, i always end up getting paired with them and I'm thinking its because of the attraction for one another.
neway like 3 weeks go by into the year and I'm leaving class one day. As I'm walking I hear them yell "By J****, have a good weekend!" and in my head i was like cool, so i say "yea you too!" and i think about it for a split second and say "well what are you guys up to over the weekend?" and they say they dont know, and then one of them goes "you should give us a call to kick it sometime soon" and i was like hell yea so i put her number in my phone.
unfortunately i dont end up hanging out with her/them but i did call them and leave a message to try. she never called me back
so like maybe two weeks roll by and interest in eachother is still very apparent by the way we talk to eachother and the smiles and laughs and all that jazz.
so again I'm leaving class right and going into the weekend. they are walking in front of me and Im thinking damn if i dont say nething i might not even talk to them the whole weekend.
so I yell both of there names and say you guys arent even gonna say by!? and they both turn around and go "oooo sorry! hey wat are you doing this weekend neway!? and i go idk yet prolly just get fucked up and party somewhere hopefully and then the one whos number I didnt get between the both of them just goes "btw Our room number is blah blah blah!" and she jumps in the air extaticly. now this little act conveyed to me..."here is our room number! come over and fuck us both!!!"
no lie. so im like hell yea i got you guys!
so i leave. the next day I'm leaving work and i hop on the bus and lo and behold both of them are there looking fine as hell getting ready to go to dinner. mind you im just getting off of work probably not looking my best. i ask them where they are goin, we talk alittle bit yadiyada and i get off. so i text the ones who gaveme her number the next day to see if they want to hang out and do something....i get no answer
but then when monday comes around i c them in the library printing our a paper thats due and i ask them how there weekend was and how dinner was and they say something along the lines of "it was a craazy weekend!! but yea dinner was really good, we should all go together some time. thats just another tall tale they are interested.. that was like2 weeks ago.
i've tried to hang out with them ever weekend since they gace me there number AND DORM ROOM number, to no avail.
im feeling very wierd now cuz its like i've seen many PDA's from them(public displays of affection) ie: constant cmiling and finding reasons to touch me in some way and all kinds of stuff but when I try to hang out with them, it like never works
wtf is going on!!!! writing this seems a little distorted so sorry if i doesnt make to much sense.
i would GREATLY APPRECIATE anything you guys have to says or any advice or input you can give. thanx
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: hoopershroomer]
#7587305 - 11/02/07 11:01 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Get them drunk, you as well, and start making out with one of them(sitting with both of them) and if it goes well the other shall join. Remember nbot to leave her out!
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: hoopershroomer]
#7587315 - 11/02/07 11:03 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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that doesn't sound like too much of a problem to me, player

good luck though
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: hoopershroomer]
#7587316 - 11/02/07 11:03 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Hey man, it sounds like you should have this no problem. but what the hell is up with them not answering or calling you?
What i would do is next time you see them tell THEM to come to YOU. you know like tell them you want to get together and tell them where to meet YOU. or tell them to call you. or you know of a party and to call you to get there. leave the responsibility to them.
Also next time you see them act like you dont really give a shit about them anymore. kind of in a joking manner. you know what i mean?
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: thoughts]
#7587327 - 11/02/07 11:06 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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sounds to me like you have met two girls that has figured you out long time ago and they are playin with you. your not a player your getting played and im sure they are having their fun with that.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: hoopershroomer]
#7587340 - 11/02/07 11:08 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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It's college.. they're doing the same thing you are.. lookin' for the best deal for THEM, baby.
If you're tryin to meet up... just do the old scatterbomb technique and play the numbers game.
Just go after like 5 or 6 at a time. Give am a call. The ones that don't call ya back.. just ignore them and go about your life. It always helps to ask em to do stuff with a group of ppl first just so ya don't end up smothering anyone.
And don't be in such a hurry.. the more classes you go through over the years and interests you participate in (sports, clubs, music, etc) likely it is you'll run into someone that you're compatible with than if you just hit up random chicks in class.
Join the campus radio station or something. Can't really go wrong there. Social people are attracted to clubs like that anyways and it's fun nevertheless.
But yea... if a chick in class is just toyin' around, don't waste your time. move on. It happens all the time.
Occasionally you'll run into someone you really click with. That's when ya' put in the persistence. Persistence is key 
but only when you're really into someone.. and not in that psycho stalker way where you cling to someone immediately. Just be friends first. A girl isn't gonna' want to be hanging out with ya unless she learns she can trust you a little bit.
For now.. just go out and have fun man. Do some activities. Let the flow take its course. Bring a frisbe to school, man. Sheyuittt... it ain't hard to get a bunch of ppl together for a frisbee football game.. and then the pothead hippie stoner chicks will come a' flockin'. :P
Or just start hitting up small local concerts if you're in the burbs of a big city. Ain't no shame in goin' alone if you're really into the band. Go out and see some music and in the words of field of dreams...
"Burn one.. and they will come"
And yea.. and it helps to not act interested 
YES!! I SAID IT GIRLS! I'M EXPSING ALL YOUR NAUGHTY LITTLE SECRETS! You know it drives you nuts... at least makes ya think for just tiny bit... when a normal guys shows a little interest and then drops it out of nowhere. Oh yea! Oh yea! I know.
And don't worry about doin embarassing shit. I did it all the time. Just get drunk and blame it on the booze
If you can make em' laugh... even if they're not interested, they'll at least introduce you to their friends and be like "Hey Kiki, this is spaz... watchi him spaz out and act like an spastic idiot". Eventually you'll run into a Kiki that's into spazes.
Laughter is key, my friend.
My name is BrAiN. And I am a spaz. And this has been my story.. The moral of that story... Just have fun and do what you want to do and eventually...
the planets will align.....
someone... somewhere will roll a snake eyes...
... and the girls will fall into place.
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Edited by BrAiN (11/02/07 11:24 AM)
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: shamantra]
#7587361 - 11/02/07 11:16 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Edited by bort (04/08/10 07:31 AM)
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: bort]
#7587384 - 11/02/07 11:21 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I want that threesome.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: thoughts]
#7587389 - 11/02/07 11:22 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
iwasaClown said: I want that threesome.
It ain't what it's cracked up to be.
At least not while drunk :P
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587402 - 11/02/07 11:25 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Why, what happened?
Im sure i could pull it off smoothly.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: thoughts]
#7587435 - 11/02/07 11:34 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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The situation was weird. Two girls.. and I was really into the one chick... and... it didn't help that I had recently lost my virginity to her and we hung out all the time
Add that on top of a night out with a group of 20something ppl meeting up at a huge outdoor bar, a cover charge, and all you can drink for that charge
welll.. long story short.. Eventually the three of us were really drunk... it was the idea of the OTHER girl I wasn't emotionally attached to...
We ended up busting out the whipped cream can and just whippin it and it didn't take too long to get too fucked up... That kinda activity is best left to being sober :P
Never really had the opportunity again.
Nowadays not really something I'd do again... then again.. I *am* engaged so I'm out of the game.
Good luck in your OWN quest though. Heh
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587452 - 11/02/07 11:39 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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having sex with small childeren can cure aids
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: druqs]
#7587456 - 11/02/07 11:40 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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o... k....
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587466 - 11/02/07 11:43 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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sorry, its a horrific rumor proliferated by men in sub Saharan Africa.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587469 - 11/02/07 11:44 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Hah, sounds like a sloppy time. I dont really like full on sex when im wasted, it is better sober or just with a little buzz. or stoned. 
Who knows what i may soon come across.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: thoughts]
#7587473 - 11/02/07 11:44 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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u in college?
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587478 - 11/02/07 11:46 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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No, im just working for now. Gotta save up some cash.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: thoughts]
#7587492 - 11/02/07 11:49 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Fuck.. take a course or two at comm college with your free time. If you can swing 300-700 a semester. A couple classes a year is better than nothing. At least you'll graduate a semester earlier.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587516 - 11/02/07 11:54 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah man, thats what my plan is.
Droppin outta school just aint cool.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: thoughts]
#7587592 - 11/02/07 12:14 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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I pity da foo!
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587642 - 11/02/07 12:26 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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lol thanx for the helpful replies guys.
im just gonna take my time and see what happens ill get back to this thread
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: hoopershroomer]
#7587868 - 11/02/07 01:27 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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we expect weekly briefings
I wanna go back to college... I must live vicariously through you now
I'd get a master's if it weren't so damn expensive
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7587953 - 11/02/07 01:45 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Dude, you need to offer them something. If they like alchohol, buy a bunch and give it to them. If they want to eat, find a really cool restaurant and go. They like weed? Find the best shit around and let them take a whiff of it, then tell them to call you if they want any. Know you're going to a great party? When they ask you about your weekend hype it up to them and make it sound like it's going to be a drunken debaucherous never ending orgy
It's pretty simple. You get girls to hang out with you by showing them that they could be having a BETTER time with you than anyone else. Nobody wants someone they barely know from class tagging along with them to your party. You have to establish an exciting, fun situation and get them to come along with you. They're not being judgmental or stringing you along, they're just being friendly, and they're probably also really busy, just like you are. They might not have time to attend to EVERYONE they've met so far. They've given you their number and their room. Now you have to re-extend the hand of friendship, and giving gifts of intoxicants is usually the easiest route.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: kriminalelement]
#7588031 - 11/02/07 02:06 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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cheaper to rent two hookers
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: kriminalelement]
#7588099 - 11/02/07 02:28 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: kriminalelement]
#7588131 - 11/02/07 02:38 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Do ya wanna come chill at mine for a smoke?
*Gets GHB ready*
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: shamantra]
#7588157 - 11/02/07 02:45 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
shamantra said: cheaper to rent two hookers
and u don't have to deal with any drama shit afterwards, i suggest hookers
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: DeathCompany]
#7588161 - 11/02/07 02:48 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Or girls that arn't American drama queens
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: DeathCompany]
#7588377 - 11/02/07 03:53 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
DeathCompany said:
Quote:
shamantra said: cheaper to rent two hookers
i suggest hookers
you dont pay a hooker for her services, you pay her to leave.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: Prisoner#1]
#7588406 - 11/02/07 04:00 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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you dont pay a hooker for her services, you pay her to leave.
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: Prisoner#1]
#7589390 - 11/02/07 08:33 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: DeathCompany]
#7589415 - 11/02/07 08:44 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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as your alive what time is it ?
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: grandesign]
#7589514 - 11/02/07 09:20 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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its just the right time to enter mental expansion
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: DeathCompany]
#7589528 - 11/02/07 09:26 PM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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BEEN THERE IT WAS GREAT !!!
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Re: fellas....another girl problem :confused: [Re: BrAiN]
#7590264 - 11/03/07 06:19 AM (16 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
BrAiN said:
And yea.. and it helps to not act interested 
YES!! I SAID IT GIRLS! I'M EXPSING ALL YOUR NAUGHTY LITTLE SECRETS! You know it drives you nuts... at least makes ya think for just tiny bit... when a normal guys shows a little interest and then drops it out of nowhere. Oh yea! Oh yea! I know.
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soooooo glad I am engaged. OoD
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